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I need help (relationship question)

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One piece of advise from "The Tao of Steve".

"We pursue that which retreats from us".

Sounds to me like you guys already have a pretty good relationship, not sure if your in school together or what. You should take some time and get a little spearation from her. Now I'm not saying to go out of your way to ignore her, that would just be rude. But make an effort to not be around at those times she expects you to be there (for like a week or so). If she has "feelings" for you then most likely she'll wonder where you are, and maybe even miss you.

After above time period has passed, you should (maybe) be able to gauge her feelings from her reaction to your "return". If she says "Oh, I missed, what have you been doing, etc" Then I say tell her. If she says "You were gone? Oh, that's right, I forgot". Then I say don't do it. Train wreck waiting to happen.

Again these are just my opinions, I could be totally off base.

Pebcak
 
Lemmie tell you tell you something, bro. I saw this girl today, who I havn't seen in about 5 years. I kinda liked her way back when but I didn't have had the balls to do anything about it. Anyway, I saw her today near where I work, and I went right up to her, said hello, told her she looked incredible, and now I've got a date with her on Saturday. :) I'm so friggin jazzed about it -- I feel like a million bucks.

Anyway, You should tell her you like her and find her attractive. But also tell her you'd like to be her friend. It's ok if you lie about that part, she doesn't need to be aware of your ulterior motives. :D

THE WORST THING SHE CAN SAY IS "NO". And even then, that doesn't mean "never." :)
 
I can think of a few people (ahem) who should follow my example. :rolleyes: :D

I'm going to bed now....before I get into trouble.
 
Taps said:
Lemmie tell you tell you something, bro. I saw this girl today, who I havn't seen in about 5 years. I kinda liked her way back when but I didn't have had the balls to do anything about it. Anyway, I saw her today near where I work, and I went right up to her, said hello, told her she looked incredible, and now I've got a date with her on Saturday. :) I'm so friggin jazzed about it -- I feel like a million bucks.

Anyway, You should tell her you like her and find her attractive. But also tell her you'd like to be her friend. It's ok if you lie about that part, she doesn't need to be aware of your ulterior motives. :D

THE WORST THING SHE CAN SAY IS "NO". And even then, that doesn't mean "never." :)

What exactly do you mean by ulterior motives? If you are implying that I want to get in bed with this girl, then you've missed the point.

I don't like this girl because she is attractive or because I want to fuck her, it's something alot deeper than that. Whenever she is around she always makes me smile. She has this great personality which I just love about her, it's like I'm hooked on everything she says.

You know how they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder? Well I know there are alot prettier girls than her, but for some reason she looks better than any girl I've ever seen, even better than a super model. It's hard to explain, but by no means is my attraction to her sexual.
 
*update

Well I told her... I don't know how it turned out. She said that she didnt see why I liked her so much and they she was just an ordinary girl like everyone else. I take this as a bad sign :confused: ? She had to go to work right after. I guess I'll talk with her again tonight or tomorrow...
 
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