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SUNNY

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OK Here I go. My ex and I broke up like 6 months ago. We didn't talk for a while and now we are. I want to get back with him but I don't know what to do? I love him with all my heart. We had so much fun together. And we are into the same things. We are a like in many ways. But I just don't know what to do. Help me out here please.:confused:
 
But I don't want to be hurt again. But I keep on thinking everything is going to change. I have changed since then and he seems like he has changed. but I don't know. I am so confused about it.
 
People don't change, they may grow as a person but their core remains the same. There's no harm in communication but it sounds as if the ability to trust may have been challenged, only you would know for sure.

I know for myself I make it rule never to go back and that's not to say it's a good one but I have trust issues.

You need to do the best that is for you and just keep in mind while doing so, you will meet many people in your life, both men and women that you feel you have much in common with and share a certain synchronicity and balance.
 
To be honest here Sunny, if this was the person you were meant to be with you guys wouldnt of split in the first place. Your true soul mate or whatever will give you no secondary thoughts whatsoever. I say dont go back, move on, it will only hurt more in the long run and take more time to heal. peace
 
SUNNY, you need to forget about this guy and have hot, butt-naked monkey love with the freak show. I'm playing. I think it would help to know why you broke up in the first place. Havoc has a good point, but maybe this is the right person for you. Sometimes I feel you can meet a person like this too early in life. Once both of you have the chance to mature as individuals, an attempt at being together again may not be a bad idea. This is assuming things ended amicably.
 
CaptainAwesome said:
you just want him cause you miss the penis. you gotta start all over again with someone else now and you dont want to.
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Captain Awesome will be conducting a sensitivty 101 course this summer. I suggest you all enroll. WTF
 
Your ex... your ex-what? Boyfriend, husband? How long were you together? What were the circumstances of your breakup?

Contrary to popular belief, I believe people can change. If they know specifically what to change. 95 percent of what people do is by habit. If you change the habit, you change the person. Both people have to be committed 100 percent though.

Go here for more information: www.marriagebuilders.com

Read the basic priniciples. If he will commit to working with you on defining and meeting one another's needs, while avoiding things that hurt one another, reconciliation may VERY WELL be possible.

If it was a short-term gf/bf relationship though, I'd probably write it off and move on. If he was your husband, I think you should give it a try. There are many tools available to help you keep from making past mistakes. The aforementioned web site, couples counseling, etc... If you both do the work, you'll reap the rewards. No relationship is easy. P.S. The fact that he's coming back into your life could mean he's your "soul-mate" -- life works in mysterious ways. Good luck.
 
dude

People dont change. you broke up for a reason and that will only be more exposed once you get back together. trust me, ive been there, once there is a problem in a relationship that is bad enough to break you up for 6 months, you guys obviously are not as well matched as you think. Itll be good the first few weeks or months but you will eventually be broken hearted. try someone new...............
 
CaptainAwesome said:
if you want sensitivity then talk to May1010. I just give the honest opinions.
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Honesty my ass. Your a walking contradiction of terms. Now run home and quit playing on the library computer.
 
Kryp2o said:


Honesty my ass. Your a walking contradiction of terms. Now run home and quit playing on the library computer.
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Well Kryp you have to remember it does take a high intelligence quotient to make the most inflammatory statement within any given thread. So give the boy his due! He's an ASS but hey we all can't be human!
 
SUNNY

I UNDERSTAND HOW U MUST FEEL, BUT FIRST U NEED TO ASK YOURSELF WHY DID U GUYS BRAKE-UP IN THE FIRST PLACE.

I KNOW U SHARED SOME GOOD TIMES TOGETHER, U HAVE TO WIEGH BOTH SIDES AND SEE IF GETTING BACK TOGETHER WILL BE DIFFERENT, THIS TIME

IT IS NEVER EASY SEEN YOUR EX WITH ANOTHER, BUT WHAT I WILL SAY IS WHAT EVER DECISION U MAKE GIVE IT SOME GREAT DEAL OF THOUGHT

I HAVE JUST SPLIT UP WITH MY BF AFTER SOOOO MANY TIMES IN GETTING BACK TOGETHER. AND BELIEVE ME SOMETIMES IT IS BEST TO MOVE ON AND HANG ON TO D MEMORIES

BEST OF LUCK

KEN343
 
CaptainAwesome said:
it sounded like you were backing me up.
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Nope....see if you remember you said something about her missing the penis. That being the most inflammatory statement. So basically I was flaming ya bro. We all got our ways of being "helpfull". We just don't have to agree with them. Know what I mean Epstein?
 
Kartchick

You are the woman.

BTW...
Keep your eyes open for something arriving your way.
 
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