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I like this girl but what should I do?

marky

marky

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Weve talked several times and for more than a few minutes but
I dont know how to tell her that I would like to get to know her better. Ive established shes single wo children never married and not seriously dating. I know she likes talking to me but i dont get that extra look where you feel a little heat, yet? She works next door to my business as a director to a day care. I dont know what I should do next. Can any one help me out on this one?
 
She might like that. What should i say when she comes over to thank? She may be stunned. Im looking for a game plan
 
something to the effect of "I just thought you could use a little pick-me-up at work." Those kinds of lines you have to put some thought into.. that's all I could come up with off the top of my head.
 
I like that. A more subtle approach. I just want to keep m cool when I talk to her. You know how it is when you feel like your going to trip over yourself and feel dumb?
 
I know that feeling all too well. Just play it nice but confident and you're gravy. Remember.. women want a man that will treat them like a delicate flower, respect them, and protect them. That's if you're looking to settle down anyway. If you just want to fuck her you might take a different route.
 
Tell her you are going through the motions of standard courtship because you would like to violate her nubile, young anus to the point of hemorrhaging.

Chicks love that kind of romantic shit.
 
Whoa, lol! I might just walk straight out with a hard on next time she comes by. That would be subtle . Actually, its not the sex its more the closeness and companionship Im looking for. Ive been divorced now 10 months and no one since. I dont want my gonads to take over for my mind. I want a good thing. Should I ask he straight out on a date? I dont feel its there yet.
 
If she's a daycare director, I think it would be nice for her to have a break. Yes, invite her to lunch.
 
You think lunch would be cool? Or come right out and ask for a dinner date. More forward but more to the point. Lunch might be difficult as we both work days as sole propietors to businesses.
I think I should have some sort of package plan on when, where, what we would do on the date. Theres a pub crawl on a beer stokes bus to a number of the local best jazz dives. Now that would be right in my element! But I want her to be comfortable.
She likes music, theater, dinner shows, plays, not sure though if she's a partier. Man, I feel like a teen again!
 
Marky,

What happened to the girl you met on the net. I thought you were due to meet up with her?

I guess no harm in having your fingers in more than one pie.
 
The woman from the internet was t be here yesterday thru sunday. But she wrtes me tha she has met someone wonderful who treats her like royalty. So she didnt feel it was a good idea to come. No biggy. I can do better. This day care women is definitely my type
 
If she runs a daycare. Be nice to the kids when you are there. She will melt. Not so nice that she thinks you want to date them, but at least act like you enjoy having the little grommets around.

The lunch idea is gold. If you both have trouble getting away have it delivered.

Zen
 
NO PUB CRAWL! Kinda seems a little immature and the flowers are too much. Like everyone else says...make sure to ask her out for lunch and see if you get a vibe...if you do then ask her out for a supper and a movie another night then if everything goes ok on that date then send flowers to thank her for a great time.
 
Just remember women are reactors; men are actors. Thus don't worry about there being a vibe. It is up to you to create the vibe. Obviously not to the point that you are ignoring reality, but approach the situation like it is the most natural thing in the world to be attracted to you. Girls that have no initial interest often fall in love with the guy who is just there a lot and shows enough interest.

JC
 
Question: She's right next door so should I call or walk over there
and ask her to lunch? Its a security door and for any nonmember to enter you have to ring the bell and then everyone knows that someones coming in to talk to the Director. I dont even know her food prefs yet. I figure most women Ive met like Mex. Dont even know yet if she's a dieter/trainer/eat anything anytime. Man, im really overthinking this. Theres a Jose Peppers real close or order
in some Pappa Johns. I could take her to the museum courtyard on a Sunday where they have a real nice buffet(would have to be on a non Chiefs game day). Dont know if she likes sports but I can always get tickets to any Chiefs home games and the tailgate parties are memorable(maybe in the future if the first date goes well). What about a personally addressed letter to her from the business owner next door? I think I need an Ativan, lol j/k.
 
Maybe even just start with a harmless coffee somewhere, and if that goes well and you have plenty to talk about, you can then suggest dinner at the end of the coffee date. It just takes a it of pressure of both of you first up. The dinner thing can be nerve racking straight off because you can both try too hard and not be yourselves.

Just an thought.
 
Just when I was feeling pretty jaded about so many things in life I happen across this question. It really made me smile in a good way.

You have gotten some great advice, Marky. Good luck with the gal. And as you probably know very well, confidence is extremely sexy. -A reasonable level of it.

She is sure to be charmed by you. I hope it all works out. You sound like a really good guy.
 
I could have her to my shop for a well made espresso. The better coffee shops are downtown which leaves me with a Starbucks. Again the problem is the schedules. May be what I could do is get some gourmet pastries at a local bakery and then make or get some quality coffee. Maybe she'd like some Lamars Doughnuts?
I like the coffe idea but dont even know if she likes coffee. Well to be with me there will always be coffee around.
 
Vixi, we need to see naked pics of you immediately. George Spellwin put in the user agreement that all females must post naked pics of themselves before posting on the boards. Ask Velvett, she posted pics of her breasts. :D
 
marky said:
I could have her to my shop for a well made espresso. The better coffee shops are downtown which leaves me with a Starbucks. Again the problem is the schedules. May be what I could do is get some gourmet pastries at a local bakery and then make or get some quality coffee. Maybe she'd like some Lamars Doughnuts?
I like the coffe idea but dont even know if she likes coffee. Well to be with me there will always be coffee around.
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Marky, i'm sure it's the not the coffee and donuts she'll be interested in. If she likes you and you hit it off at coffee, i'm sure it will give her butterflies even if the coffee tastes like shit!
 
When you ask her to get together, make it very casual like it's no big deal. They love the chase and the mystery just like we do.

If she thinks you are picking her up, it may not go over as well. I have found the casual, let's get together some time to work the best. Watch her facial expressions very closely they will give all the answers.

Now damn it, go get her!!!

:Pauly:
 
There was a surprise this am when I got to my business. Her suv was there(and they're close wkends)There was also anothe suv there. So Im like ok, Ill run out the trash and look in. As I am walking past the door she comes out with this guy who says I need my boots and gets them from her car. I dont hear what she says next but she looks a little pissed. I pop out "good Morning"
She turns and says "good morning" and just jumps in her car and takes off. Normally she would have come to me and talked for a while. What should I make of this incident? I dont want to fill my own head with as much bs as I know I am capable of putting there.
 
fistfullofsteel - I'll get right on that . . . :twirl:

marky - It could be her brother or cousin visiting from out of town. Don't throw in the towel yet!
 
I guess its kickoff time

If shes steady, then Im wasting a lot of time. Going to meet her face to face and ask her to a lunch, probably for the weekend because this will make it more a real deal than a workday rush.
Any suggestions?
 
What's an SUV, is that like a caravan on wheels?

Sounds like you may have competition. I still think it might be too early for lunch, particularly if this other stunt dick is in the way. Go with your gut feel at the end of the day and good luck.
 
Hey man, a good friend once told me " no chance, no dance. " Understand what I'm saying? Just take the chance, the worst she can say is no, and judging by all the friends I have made on this board it would only be her loss. Good luck to ya brother!
 
Re: I guess its kickoff time

marky said:
If shes steady, then Im wasting a lot of time. Going to meet her face to face and ask her to a lunch, probably for the weekend because this will make it more a real deal than a workday rush.
Any suggestions?
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Tex Mex is a good common denominator. I like to ask the girl what kind of food she likes but it's kind of a toss-up; there is a school of thought that says the man should arbitrarily decide to show leaderhip or something.
 
Hey Marky.. maybe that dude is an Ex or something and he's just getting the last of his stuff. Like others said.. you NEVER know.. unless she kissed him or something, but that's pretty obvious. Give it a shot and see what she says... if nothing else, she'll be flattered. And would you say that as soon as she saw YOU, she bolted? That might mean that she didn't want you to see her with that other guy and think something was up?
 
marky said:
There was a surprise this am when I got to my business. Her suv was there(and they're close wkends)There was also anothe suv there. So Im like ok, Ill run out the trash and look in. As I am walking past the door she comes out with this guy who says I need my boots and gets them from her car. I dont hear what she says next but she looks a little pissed. I pop out "good Morning"
She turns and says "good morning" and just jumps in her car and takes off. Normally she would have come to me and talked for a while. What should I make of this incident? I dont want to fill my own head with as much bs as I know I am capable of putting there.
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Dude we need more info than that. Was he an attractive looking person or look like someone she would be dating (of course that is sometimes very hard to tell at times)? Hang in there, don't give up yet. Try to get a better read on the situation or just pop in and ask her to hook up very casually. She may be dating someone and ready to move on and you could be the one!

YOU WILL MISS 100% OF THE SHOTS YOU DON'T TAKE!

Good luck!
 
She came in late this am. She was juggling oj ,milk, boxes and papers and kept dropping things on the way to the day care. Before I could go out and offer to help. She has been out on several dates to different show that she's talked about. The sound in here voice was like someone as usual or steady or just a random series of dates. This week I will approach her because I cant stand the guessing anymore. Will let you know
 
Don't fret over one girl. If you don't pull her down, make your way about the town and do damage. There are plenty of ladies out there that need some good TLC.

If she is dating someone, just stay friends with her. The friend angle is powerful and I don't care what they say about the "friend zone" if she wants to hook up that way, you will. I have closed that one many of time my friend and it works wonderfully. She may be dating some clown this week and next week, she may be looking to move on. Be the "stealth mode player." You are there to pick up, but they are not onto your games. I love me some ladies! :fro:
 
And don't be afraid of rejection. It is always a blow to everyone's ego, but it is just a flesh wound. Everyone gets rejected. I don't care who you are or how much cash you have no man/woman is liked by all. It is nothing personal. I was just dating this hot chick and she told me that I was too big for her (body size) and I was dumbfounded. I am only 6-0 and 220. She said she liked guys about 5-8 to 5-10 about 185lbs max. Whatever, to each his own.

Remember, we play and we all get played out. It is a part of the game. DO NOT take it personal and don't let it get you down! There are plenty of good women out there that want a good man. Be patient and have fun with dating.
 
Racer-X99 said:
I was just dating this hot chick and she told me that I was too big for her (body size) and I was dumbfounded. I am only 6-0 and 220. She said she liked guys about 5-8 to 5-10 about 185lbs max. Whatever, to each his own.
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Bro, can you hook me up with her number? Sounds like I meet her criteria perfectly!!! j/k
 
I just asked her out today.

A little prelude. Something was up at her day care cause all week
she's been in and out at strange times. Ok so I spy over there at her vehicule, wouldnt you? Anyway, today she comes to my shop 30 minutes before I close up and head for the gym. Shes looking good ina some jeans and a sleeveless leopard pattern tight satin blouse. Cute as hell! I just want to grab and hug her tight. She's brought me a boot to fix for her, her Halloween boot? Asks if I can repair it for her today. Like there'd be any doubt. Before I close I bring the boot over and the parking lot is full of cars. Turns out she's putting on some kind of arts and baubbles show. Nicely done. Some cool costume jewelry, all kinds of skin creams, colognes perfumes, artwork, tupperware(lol). I bring her her boot and walk around the place. Talk to a few people and then head to the front. She says grab some cookies and sweets. I do and then wo thinking turn to her and say your show is great, I had a feeling you were very busy this week. Ill have these after I work out. Can I ask you out for a cup of coffe or if we can find the time some lunch? She smiles and then sighs and says she's seeing someone. Its funny she says because for the last and half years she's been single. I say ok. I felt maybe you were dating. But I have wanted to ask you out. Thank you she says and in a low tone Im sorry. I say no problem, I just enjoy talking to you. See you next week. and left. Someone said a friend is often a precursor to more so im not going anywhere and I heard her say to her boss she'd be there for her till she was thru having kids so she'll be my neighbor for some time. A lot can change w/time.
I know I have a lot more to offer than most people. So Ill be patient but not wait on her. Dissappointed (b)nut not down-Marky
I just edited with the b in front of nut, Freudian slip, lmao
 
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