I know why guys get P-whipped...

[hanselthecaretaker]

It's because of the "E" word.....yes, EGO. It sounds strange, but that is what stands in the way of not letting a man realize that his girl has got him in the palm of her hand. They know when they have you. Think about it, most guys won't admit to being whipped, even after they get dumped, but if they did, they would be able to change their behavior and learn to stand up for themselves a little instead of letting her physical looks/sexuality smite them to the point of no return. Even stranger, is the fact that women actually don't want this to happen, either. If they did, they wouldn't eventually get tired of the guy and dump him. The fact is simple:
She wants a man!! It's up to us to realize it and never get whipped again.

 

[casualbb]

I sort of agree. I think if a guy recognizes that he's pussy-whipped, 9 times out of 10 he won't admit it to save his ego.

But I think most of these guys have no idea. Men assume women work the same way as other men -- when you do something nice for one of your bro's, you know he's grateful and he'll help you out in the future. Guys apply this same logic to relationships and end up being a doormat always caving in to the chick's demands, only to get dumped later. This is how emo music thrives.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I sort of agree. I think if a guy recognizes that he's pussy-whipped, 9 times out of 10 he won't admit it to save his ego.

But I think most of these guys have no idea. Men assume women work the same way as other men -- when you do something nice for one of your bro's, you know he's grateful and he'll help you out in the future. Guys apply this same logic to relationships and end up being a doormat always caving in to the chick's demands, only to get dumped later. This is how emo music thrives.

Good point, I'm glad you covered that.

 

[UA_Iron]

What about the tradeoff...is it better to be pussy whipped and to get pussy or to not be pussy whipped and not get pussy?

Emo music sucks!

 

[jerseyart]

Never been "p-whipped", I'd remember if I had.

But I would pay good money to have that done to me, I think a lot of men would. As someone who frequents many prostitutes, I've never even had that offered as an option. WTF!! My money is as good as the next guys.

If any guys out there know of a good "P-whipped" professional in the NYC area please let me know. Now the curiousity alone is going to kill me.

 

[gonelifting]

I used to treat women badly until I realised what I have and the pain I put upon them. Now I cherish what I have instead of playing games with this "attitude" and that... If the woman you`re with is smart enough, she`ll know exactly what she has.

Painting my woman`s toenails is "whipped" I`m sure, in your (or anybody`s) book, but I LOVE it and the dividends it pays. I`ve been there and back so many times... I`m living real life now and could`nt be happier.

Flame away, It does`nt bother me, not when I`m this content. Find the right woman and you`ll see what I mean.

signed, Whippedlifting.

 

[jerseyart]

Gonelifting,

So long as she's not painting your nails, it's all good

I used to brush my ex gf's hair because it relaxed her. Nothing wrong with showing a little affection.

 

[awittyusername]

It's because of the "E" word.....yes, EGO. It sounds strange, but that is what stands in the way of not letting a man realize that his girl has got him in the palm of her hand. They know when they have you. Think about it, most guys won't admit to being whipped, even after they get dumped, but if they did, they would be able to change their behavior and learn to stand up for themselves a little instead of letting her physical looks/sexuality smite them to the point of no return. Even stranger, is the fact that women actually don't want this to happen, either. If they did, they wouldn't eventually get tired of the guy and dump him. The fact is simple:
She wants a man!! It's up to us to realize it and never get whipped again.

Absolutely correct. There is some smart bros here. I only know a few guys who have learned this type of knowledge.

 

[awittyusername]

I used to treat women badly until I realised what I have and the pain I put upon them. Now I cherish what I have instead of playing games with this "attitude" and that... If the woman you`re with is smart enough, she`ll know exactly what she has.

Painting my woman`s toenails is "whipped" I`m sure, in your (or anybody`s) book, but I LOVE it and the dividends it pays. I`ve been there and back so many times... I`m living real life now and could`nt be happier.

Flame away, It does`nt bother me, not when I`m this content. Find the right woman and you`ll see what I mean.

signed, Whippedlifting.

Nothing wrong with that bro,

 

[Lao Tzu]

I sort of agree. I think if a guy recognizes that he's pussy-whipped, 9 times out of 10 he won't admit it to save his ego.

But I think most of these guys have no idea. Men assume women work the same way as other men -- when you do something nice for one of your bro's, you know he's grateful and he'll help you out in the future. Guys apply this same logic to relationships and end up being a doormat always caving in to the chick's demands, only to get dumped later. This is how emo music thrives.

I wonder why that is, why do women test men to see if they will cave?

 

[awittyusername]

I wonder why that is, why do women test men to see if they will cave?

I think its a power thing. Most women I went out w/tried to break me.

 

[casualbb]

they want to see if you're really the shit or you're just pretending

 

[onebigab]

I wonder why that is, why do women test men to see if they will cave?

Because deep down they want a real man to be with. Not someone that is going to be like "yes dear or no dear"

 

[chewyxrage]

holy fuck.

you guys think too much.

 

[HumorMe]

There is even a magazine for them.......

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I think its a power thing. Most women I went out w/tried to break me.

They are testing what we are made of, and if we are good relationship material, or just a potential fuck buddy.