not that it matters, but i honestly disagree. i think that any flirting she did with needto she did to bump her self-esteem and prove to herself that she still "has it" and that other men still find her attractive. needto is perfect for this because, as you can see, he is flirtatious when someone shows an interest in him. she flirted, he took the bait and flirted back, yada yada, she boosted her self-esteem and then got blown out of the water by the angry wife and now turns it around like she never flirted.
anywho, i wouldnt worry about her trying to get to needto. he kind of perpetuates it anyway because he gets a hardon having the attention of two fired up females. that's a stroke for his ego too.
you should ignore the both of them and lets you and me go bowling.