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Burning_Inside
Elite Mentor
I joined adult friend finder for one month. I got ONE response out of all the emails I sent out. Guess it's hit or miss depending on where you live. I think there were only about 20 female members who had been active on the site from my area in the past months. Half of them were prostitiutes.
THis site has really blossomed. I live in the Dallas area, so there's a lot more to choose from. There are some very attractive ladies profiled. I'm surprised at the # of older ones 32-40 that look great. There wasn't near as many to choose from a few years ago. Most I still skip over because of what they say in their profile. I've already sent out 3 e-mails.
She has pictures of cats in the profile.
Bwahahahah fuck you just made me spill my drink!!! Internet dating is such a waste of time. I have tried to talk to like 15 different girls, but they all put me down because I'm not the blonde blue eyed hunk they want...biteme said:
ahh my new best buddy on EF
i never did the online dating thing but
www.adultfriendfinder.com
go there if you looking just for ass
fucking hoes are there
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Spartacus
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my feelings too..if they are a 10 they have 2 kids..lots of 10s that are 5s now though..I'm tired of f*cking fivesZKaudio said:
F117A Active Stealth said:
She has pictures of cats in the profile.
Well it's been a waste of time for u then. Maybe u should try a different approach or try a different site. I'm just a picky bastard. I had several dates, but none that I can recall that I was compatable enough to get serious with. That and it hadn't been long enough since I divorced. I got tired of it after awhile because you have to e-mail back and forth so many times b4 you meet someone and it's work and time consuming. I have more time on my hands now, so I'll try it again.
Tried 2 sites kinda as a joke, and 1 site seriously, even payed for a month.
Even the fat chicks didn't want me. I don't know why as I just look like a regular guy, not handsome but not ugly. That's what I've been told anyway, apparently that's not good enough...
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Spartacus
Guest
what you can do though is use what I call the groundhog day approach..named after the movie cause Bill Murray could begin each day anew and try a different angle wiht the babe he was after..but in this case you just try different angles with the different candidates..come across too strong,come across like you don't give a shit(I find this works best,interesting)..use one liners,or type out whole paragraphs about yourself(least chosen option by mineself)..lie like a son of a bitch,tell the truth and be totally honest..post skin pictures of your impressive BB physique,or post conservative pictures of your ass in a suit..use your imagination and have fun sunday night
vinylgroover I
New member
Taps said:
Yep......here's a foolproof internet dating method:
VG: Hi, wanna root
Girl: Yeah sure.
VG: Cool, drop me your address.
Girl: Cool.....have you got any friends......i like getting stuffed!!
Burning_Inside
Elite Mentor
Taps said:
I seem to do better just messaging local chicks on AOL than I do using the sites.
I've had COUNTLESS double matches on hotornot.com, however very few are local enough to do anything with.
Recently in my case, I've had 2 not so good online encounters. Yes I got laid out of the deals but they were just a little heavier than I expected them to be and it was enough to just take my mind completely off of sex again. I know now it's a fact that I need a skinny girl to be with. I just cannot handle the fat. I can't even handle a few extra lb's. anymore.
LMAO. I've come up with a new approach. Instead of picking out a few that I might like and having to think of something clever to say, which I hate doing, I'm going to e-mail every woman on the site with a short "Hello, How are U doing?" I'll set a record for the most e-mails sent.
Tweakle
New member
Match sucks unless you live in the bay area where it's a mecca for hot azn chicks
if you're looking for worn out old skanks or freaky shut-ins then it's a great place to shop but I found the cute ones have impossibly high standards (or theyre hookers
). If you're going to settle for 2nd best why not just hit a bar or a club and take whatever you can find.
I know a guy who had a lot of luck with the site, but I think the 6 figure income he put might have had something to do with it. I guess I'll have to stick to getting dates from the yellow pages
if you're looking for worn out old skanks or freaky shut-ins then it's a great place to shop but I found the cute ones have impossibly high standards (or theyre hookers
). If you're going to settle for 2nd best why not just hit a bar or a club and take whatever you can find.I know a guy who had a lot of luck with the site, but I think the 6 figure income he put might have had something to do with it. I guess I'll have to stick to getting dates from the yellow pages
I'm going to try something to prove my theory about women. I reported my true income between 35k and 50k. I will see how many responses I get. Then I will go back and change my income to 6 figures and see how many I get. Who wants to take bets that it will be 600% higher or more on the fake income response?
I had a profile on Match for about a minute. I got a bunch of responses from guys I wasnt really interested in, but talked to a few of them anyway. I got back together with my bf and dropped out pretty quick.
NorthNPrincess
New member
Biteme...what's your match link.....We want to check your profile out
Seriously, I have several gf's that are on match. They are having a great time dating. The sorting process is faster....you don't have to sit through several miserable hours at dinner wasting a Saturday Night getting to know someone. If you don't hit it off, It's just a click, and poof they are gone....I love that concept!
Good luck to you!
Seriously, I have several gf's that are on match. They are having a great time dating. The sorting process is faster....you don't have to sit through several miserable hours at dinner wasting a Saturday Night getting to know someone. If you don't hit it off, It's just a click, and poof they are gone....I love that concept!
Good luck to you!
Taps
New member
Humm..Nav, you make some good points. But I would also think that chatting several times before the first date would make things a lot less stressful for both parties. ALso with phone calls and emails you can weed out a lot of potential psychos, etc. Then again, I've never done online dating so I probably don't know what the hell I'm talking about. lol
Anyway, out of pure curiosity I'm going to check match.com and see if theres any hot chicks in my area.
Anyway, out of pure curiosity I'm going to check match.com and see if theres any hot chicks in my area.
NorthNPrincess
New member
supernav said:
Does a web cam count? Actually I met a guy a year ago on cam, we became close, I call him my eboyfriend. Finally met him face to face, we both thought each other looked even better in person! Was a great experience!
sh4dowf4lcon
New member
good luck with all that
I'm telling you guys, this is the way to go if you hate going to clubs and bars. I've got so many to choose from right now that I'm confused. And you get to cut thru all the bullshit. Every woman that has responded has mentioned how they appreciate my physique, that's the kind I'm looking for.
tiger88 said:
Good looking. I live in Dallas though, so there's a lot of available women to choose from. I disagree with some who have said these are psycho women. Maybe some, but not the majority. They are mostly professionals who don't like the club, bar scene either and have a hard time meeting people. You have to pay to join, doesn't cost much. BUt people that can pay to join, usually are a higher class of people.
I've got a date Saturday with a seemingly real nice attractive woman who has worked at SW airlines for 18 yrs. Then I've got a few more that have just e-mailed me that are pretty hot. I don't know what the hell to do. I'd like to go out with all of them, but it won't be possible.
supernav said:>I've got a date Saturday with a seemingly real nice attractive
>woman
I hate "dates". In the end it costs you an evening, at least $50 or more. The "weirdness" and awkwardness of meeting a complete stranger, and that annoying "job interview" style of conversation. Both trying to impress one another.
And heaven forbid there's that uncomfortable "silence" during the conversation. Where both are thinking of the next thing to say.
And the worst! She shows up, and she's 20lbs heavier than in the pic, and automatically u KNOW you'll never bang her! Your whole evening is shot.
Very strange times my friend, very strange times.
-= nav =-
No man. I don't see it that way it all. I've talked to this one on the phone several times. I did this right after my divorce and some of them didn't look as good as they did in their pictures, others looked better. It's a gamble, but it's fun. Your thing is the clubs and that's good for you, but every time I go to one, I end up wanted to kill someone. I hate drunk assholes and there is very few quality women that go to clubs in my experience.
Burning_Inside
Elite Mentor
biteme said:
yeah come post more quick so we can quote your post and tell you what you're doing is wrong and you will see, etc, and give seemingly valid excuses for the reasons she's being so nice and how it will all fade away in a year.
NorthNPrincess
New member
Any dating updates???
Testosterone boy
New member
I wish I felt like dating.
My idea of ramance is this, "I've got some good *********** champagne in my hotel room. Want to celebrate."
Funny thing though.....I brought that bottle back home with me.
WTF?
My idea of ramance is this, "I've got some good *********** champagne in my hotel room. Want to celebrate."
Funny thing though.....I brought that bottle back home with me.
WTF?
vansmack2000
New member
I think he had to move Monday. He was stalling,i wonder if he made it out alive!
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Spartacus
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Dark brown hair with brown eyes/blue eyes
Handsome
Muscular
Weight depending on height – not skinny, not fat
Good sense of humor
Dimples
Cute laugh
Sensitive
*Affectionate* in front of friends
Gives me lots of attention
Outgoing
Popular but doesn't know the whole state
Friends with my friends
Nice smile
Straight teeth
No facial or body hair (except legs n under arms)
Pierced ear(s) if any
Not too many tattoos if any
Likes to cuddle
Likes to party
Takes me out
Grabs my hand to hold
Kisses me unexpectedly
Dresses nice (*ABERCROMBIE*) hehe
Has a good job
Tells me he misses me when we're not together
Makes me laugh
Open minded
Polite
Holds doors for me
Opens car doors
*Romantic*
Likes all type of music
Likes going to the movies
Talks to his friends about me
Looks into my eyes when just laying there on the bed
Gives massages without me having to ask
Plays with my hair
Calls me to just say hi
Tries not to argue
Apologizes for when he does wrong
Says what he's feeling
Has a car
Has a dog
Has a family that likes me
Compliments me
Is tan
Doesn't curse all the time
Wants to be with me as much as possible
Comes over unexpectedly
Wakes me up with a kiss
Same age or 3 years at the most older than me
*Trustworthy*
Patient
Likes to shop
Has good manners
Doesn't smoke
Occasionally drinks
Athletic
Is on time for dates
Calls back later when he says he will
Lives close to me
Wants to meet my family
Treats me like a princess
Has a cute butt
Good kissable lips
Good kisser
Good memory
Does special things for holidays/birthdays/anniversary/etc
Intelligent
Has direction
Creative
Likes everything about me
Committed
*My best friend*
Respectful
Mature
Persistent – Hard working
Likes walks on the beach
Likes just staying home sometimes
Writes me songs/poems
Likes to dance
Has a sexy voice
Cooks for me
Likes to show me off
Calls me or introduces me as his "girlfriend" not "Rachel"
Likes to take pictures
Flirts with me in public and in private
Puts up with my mood swings
Comforts me when I'm sad
Doesn't say “sorry” all the time when it's not needed
Sticks up for me
Likes animals
Sends me flowers for no reason
Ignores my imperfections
Surprises me (good surprises)
Doesn't ever yell at me
Likes picnics
Likes to clean
First to say I Love You
Listens to me
Smells good
*Doesn't lie*
Likes kids
Makes me the center of his world
Not in trouble with the law
Isn't a goody-goody
Doesn't stare at other girls
Doesn't talk to other girls more than me
Doodles our names on paper
Likes to draw
Leaves notes on my car
Let's me go out with him and his friends
Will hang out with me and my friends
Puts pictures of me in his car and wallet
Gets jealous but not too jealous
Dependable
Doesn't hang up on me
Calls me babe, sweetie, etc
Calls me cute pet names
Isn't conceited
Isn't a penny-pincher
Likes sports and going to sports events
Likes to play board games/video games and lets me win
Doesn't play mind games
Doesn't just think about sex
Cares about world issues
Doesn't make me cry
Leaves sweet voicemails/text messages on my phone
Isn't shy
Has hopes, dreams, and wishes
Not opinionated
Will watch chick flicks even if he doesn't like them
Can spell
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Dark brown hair with brown eyes/blue eyes
Handsome
Muscular
Weight depending on height – not skinny, not fat
Good sense of humor
Dimples
Cute laugh
Sensitive
*Affectionate* in front of friends
Gives me lots of attention
Outgoing
Popular but doesn't know the whole state
Friends with my friends
Nice smile
Straight teeth
No facial or body hair (except legs n under arms)
Pierced ear(s) if any
Not too many tattoos if any
Likes to cuddle
Likes to party
Takes me out
Grabs my hand to hold
Kisses me unexpectedly
Dresses nice (*ABERCROMBIE*) hehe
Has a good job
Tells me he misses me when we're not together
Makes me laugh
Open minded
Polite
Holds doors for me
Opens car doors
*Romantic*
Likes all type of music
Likes going to the movies
Talks to his friends about me
Looks into my eyes when just laying there on the bed
Gives massages without me having to ask
Plays with my hair
Calls me to just say hi
Tries not to argue
Apologizes for when he does wrong
Says what he's feeling
Has a car
Has a dog
Has a family that likes me
Compliments me
Is tan
Doesn't curse all the time
Wants to be with me as much as possible
Comes over unexpectedly
Wakes me up with a kiss
Same age or 3 years at the most older than me
*Trustworthy*
Patient
Likes to shop
Has good manners
Doesn't smoke
Occasionally drinks
Athletic
Is on time for dates
Calls back later when he says he will
Lives close to me
Wants to meet my family
Treats me like a princess
Has a cute butt
Good kissable lips
Good kisser
Good memory
Does special things for holidays/birthdays/anniversary/etc
Intelligent
Has direction
Creative
Likes everything about me
Committed
*My best friend*
Respectful
Mature
Persistent – Hard working
Likes walks on the beach
Likes just staying home sometimes
Writes me songs/poems
Likes to dance
Has a sexy voice
Cooks for me
Likes to show me off
Calls me or introduces me as his "girlfriend" not "Rachel"
Likes to take pictures
Flirts with me in public and in private
Puts up with my mood swings
Comforts me when I'm sad
Doesn't say “sorry” all the time when it's not needed
Sticks up for me
Likes animals
Sends me flowers for no reason
Ignores my imperfections
Surprises me (good surprises)
Doesn't ever yell at me
Likes picnics
Likes to clean
First to say I Love You
Listens to me
Smells good
*Doesn't lie*
Likes kids
Makes me the center of his world
Not in trouble with the law
Isn't a goody-goody
Doesn't stare at other girls
Doesn't talk to other girls more than me
Doodles our names on paper
Likes to draw
Leaves notes on my car
Let's me go out with him and his friends
Will hang out with me and my friends
Puts pictures of me in his car and wallet
Gets jealous but not too jealous
Dependable
Doesn't hang up on me
Calls me babe, sweetie, etc
Calls me cute pet names
Isn't conceited
Isn't a penny-pincher
Likes sports and going to sports events
Likes to play board games/video games and lets me win
Doesn't play mind games
Doesn't just think about sex
Cares about world issues
Doesn't make me cry
Leaves sweet voicemails/text messages on my phone
Isn't shy
Has hopes, dreams, and wishes
Not opinionated
Will watch chick flicks even if he doesn't like them
Can spell
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dzuljas
New member
oh man where can i start..........i have used the online sites, hotornot.com i met some ppl off there and facethejury. Most of the chicks on these sites are fatties in disguise........they may look good in there pic but WATCH OUT!!!!!!!! You DO NOT want to end up chillin with them and them being a fat chick. This was all during the year i took off between high school and college. Once I got to college I just went to parties and found lots of furr there. And it didnt cost any money, mabye 11 bucks for a 30 pack of keystrone light at the most..........
I gave Lava Life a shot after my ex and I broke up. It is basically a crap shot sometimes you get lucky most of the time you crap out. Or maybe I am just to picky who knows.
NorthNPrincess
New member
http://www.greatboyfriends.com/
This site is cool! My gf has used it...and recommended to me to check out....You have to get a referal from the opposite sex to post.
This site is cool! My gf has used it...and recommended to me to check out....You have to get a referal from the opposite sex to post.
Russian KGB
New member
Hmmm... I better be quiet here...
JerseyDevil
New member
ZKaudio said:
yeah all of the really hot girls are fakes or people trying to get you to join their adult website
Spanky11
New member
4everhung said:
A key thing to watch out for is the code words women use. Here is a translation guide for dealing with women.
Says: I want a man who is motivated and has goals.
Means: I want a rich man
Says: I want a man who knows how to treat a woman.
Means: I want a rich man
Says: He's from a really good family.
Means: He's from a really rich family.
big_bad_buff
New member
i'v met chicks online just by browsing yahoo and msn profiles. search for all the ones with pics in there profiles then send them an email, i'v had a bunch of chicks email me by seeing my pic in profiles as well. but yeah, i'v met some real freaks from the net.
if i was going to join a "real" online dating serivce, it would probably be Eharmony.com I'v heard it is the biggest and has the most members out of all of them.
if i was going to join a "real" online dating serivce, it would probably be Eharmony.com I'v heard it is the biggest and has the most members out of all of them.
Russian KGB
New member
4everhung said:
I think I have come across with all of the above and in order,
1 thru 7. Missing 3 more for an even count... What do you think?
javaguru
Banned
Here is what I learned from match.com
1. Hot chicks get between 50-100 e-mails a day from guys so you better distinguish yourself.
2. People often come across much differently in person than how they come across over the internet/phone.
3. The longer you wait to meet the greater the disappointment.
4. Women ALWAYS choose the best and most flattering pictures to send. The pictures can be several years old and several dozen pounds ago. I met about a dozen women from Match and only three resembled their pictures. When I posted/sent pictures I always used middle of the road pictures as to not create a false image of my appearance.
5. "Athletic" means "I'm fat but workout sometimes."
6. All things considered, meeting women and then getting to know them as opposed to the ass backwards online approach.
1. Hot chicks get between 50-100 e-mails a day from guys so you better distinguish yourself.
2. People often come across much differently in person than how they come across over the internet/phone.
3. The longer you wait to meet the greater the disappointment.
4. Women ALWAYS choose the best and most flattering pictures to send. The pictures can be several years old and several dozen pounds ago. I met about a dozen women from Match and only three resembled their pictures. When I posted/sent pictures I always used middle of the road pictures as to not create a false image of my appearance.
5. "Athletic" means "I'm fat but workout sometimes."
6. All things considered, meeting women and then getting to know them as opposed to the ass backwards online approach.
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calveless wonder
New member
supernav said:
that is why i never take girls on an expensive first date.
just a bad idea written all over it. it hurts you in so many ways.
1st dates should be fun/stupid shit.
then 2nd and so forth should be dinner. no point in dropping 60-70 bucks on a dumb ass slut you have no guarantee of having chemistry with.
Yeah I think that going out for dinner with someone you meet online is a little much for a first meeting, a drink or a coffee is cool. This way if there is no real chemistry in person you don't have to spend a whole night out with someone you have no intention of ever seeing again.
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Spartacus
Guest
you need to be tan as well
Heahy Minister
New member
JavaGuru said:
Exactly! That's one of the big problems with internet dating, women are always choosing their BEST picture.
Excellent tip bro. Choose a pic that is middle of the road, hell even below middle of the road, and if someone likes you for that they'll love you when they see you in person.
I gotta disagree with some of teh bros on here. If you are just looking to get laid, first date should be super expensive: $200 is a good number, maybe more. High end restaurant, wine, all that. Then out for a drink or two.
Unless you are a complete douchebag, you're going to get a second date. Scale it way down - do something fun, stupid and cheap.
Unless you;re a total dick, she will then do whatever she thinks is possible to get back into that first date zone.
And I have not even begun to talk about shopping dates yet.....
Unless you are a complete douchebag, you're going to get a second date. Scale it way down - do something fun, stupid and cheap.
Unless you;re a total dick, she will then do whatever she thinks is possible to get back into that first date zone.
And I have not even begun to talk about shopping dates yet.....
calveless wonder
New member
MattTheSkywalker said:
sounds like a huge waste of money to me.
of course it doesn't matter to you
affluent bastard. i shouldn't be talking though
velvett said:
um, have we dated?
You got the idea....take them shopping and ask her for her opinion on different designers, fabrics (silk/linen blend vs, cashmere, etc., as if a typical 25 year old girl has ever been in the men's section of Saks). Asking for her opinion puts her further off balance...she feels as if you actually care what she thinks but she doesn't want to embarrass herself because she doesn't know who Jeff Rose is.
A really good one is getting yourself a suit custom tailored with her. "Should I do 140s?"
Then you get company while you shop, and a girl who will do gymnastics to be the recipient of a shopping trip like that....
or so I have heard.
calveless wonder
New member
MattTheSkywalker said:
um, have we dated?
You got the idea....take them shopping and ask her for her opinion on different designers, fabrics (silk/linen blend vs, cashmere, etc., as if a typical 25 year old girl has ever been in the men's section of Saks).
A really good one is getting yourself a suit custom tailored with her. "Should I do 140s?"
Then you get company while you shop, and a girl who will do gymnastics to be the recipient of a shopping trip like that....
or so I have heard.
well of course..if you have money it's easy to get laid. That's a very good strategy but there's a million and one other ways as well. The girl will want to get in your checkbook one way or another.
for some people it's a nice car, a nice house, etc...to display that.
calveless wonder said:
As if I want her to know where I live??!!
Only the ones I like see the house, because it blinds most people if they are not wearing STUNglasses.
in the end it is cheaper here bros and the chic leaves when u tell her
www.eros.com
cash is prefered btw
www.eros.com
cash is prefered btw
calveless wonder
New member
supernav said:
definetely agree with your sarcasm but.......there's a short window of oppurtunity to bang her after that( which is what matt was refering to...this is not a strategy for woman you want to consistently date).
he was speaking from a strictly "to get laid" standpoint i believe...
calveless wonder said:
yep .
if it was a promising potential GF it is a whole different ballgame.
Russian KGB
New member
supernav said:Nah. I have a WAY cheaper method:
Alcohol.
Total bill: $9.50 for a 12-pack.
You are the smart one...
That's why I never drink, must always stay in control... That s*** must be earned, God damn it!
supernav said:
LOL Nav. You are right. I had this woman acting crazy over me that I met off the site. We met and everything was going fine, until the bill came and I only paid for my dinner. We had agreed to meet at a designated place, there was never any discussion as to who would pay. I never heard from her again and I know exactly why. Most women are this way. What are U going to do?
calveless wonder
New member
biteme said:
well, alot of people think first dates should be paid for by the guy...
i'll agree with this. I think if you go dutch on the first date it just makes you look like a cheapass. i don't blame her to be honest.
2nd,3rd and 4th dates...that's another story
calveless wonder said:
If she has any class / is date-able, she will probably offer to pay for something pretty early on. Typically, when I am actually seeing someone who is not a "one and done", by date #3 or #4 she will invite me out somewhere and insist on paying.
I have always thought that the first date was the guy's.....to each their own.
calveless wonder
New member
MattTheSkywalker said:
yeah, thats exactly what i was implying
calveless wonder
New member
biteme said:
it's a woman's inate nature to look for a provider though. You may potentially be weeding out the good ones by doing this tactic. The first date is typically just a starting point. It may have nothing to do with wanting you for money....because almost any woman, even the good ones, would see that as a sign of disrespect.
like matt said...a respectable woman will offer to treat you the next time around or the time after that.
i can KIND Of understand where you're coming from...ideally, it'd be great from your perspective. But you have to face the reality of the real world at the same time
As a father of a girl, when I think about the kind of man that I would want her to marry, there are very few. Money plays no role at all, except that I would not want her to marry a man that did not make at least a decent living. This has nothing to do with the previous post. Thank you.
Heahy Minister
New member
I'm also a believer that on the first date the guy pays. I understand what you're saying Biteme, but it has more to do with good ol' fashioned dating principle then anything else.
If she is a "good one" she will at least offer to pay on the first date. She doesn't really want to, but if she at least offers then you know she is courteous. I would still end up picking up the tab however.
If you're looking to get laid once, you don't need to spend a dime.
If you're looking for a consistent fuck buddy without any substance, go for the expensive first date like Matt said. The one thing I disagree with is it doesn't have to be $200. Two people at a high end restaurant still shouldn't break the $100 barrier. Oh but I forgot, Matt is on a different level than us regular dudes. lol
If she is a "good one" she will at least offer to pay on the first date. She doesn't really want to, but if she at least offers then you know she is courteous. I would still end up picking up the tab however.
If you're looking to get laid once, you don't need to spend a dime.
If you're looking for a consistent fuck buddy without any substance, go for the expensive first date like Matt said. The one thing I disagree with is it doesn't have to be $200. Two people at a high end restaurant still shouldn't break the $100 barrier. Oh but I forgot, Matt is on a different level than us regular dudes. lol
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Spartacus
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I agree with you here,what I don't agree with is the need to spend sizeable amounts of cash early in order to get laid..thats what the gym and good grooming etc. is for..I'll spend a decent amount of money on a girl deeper into the relationship because if its gone that far, then it must mean that I really like her( i don't date girls I don't like). Spending money on someone you care for and/or love is to make them happy and really making others happy is what its all about(my mom used to lecture me about this when I was younger,now I know she is correct). On another note,if I was extremely successful I would endeavor to conceal my wealth early in the relationship. As it is my family owns a real successful funeral home/cemetery in a town of ~30,000..we are as conservative as we can be..no fancy cars and no showboating at all around town...we have three diffrent back accounts so our deposits aren't all made at the same bank..we just don't want the community to think we are making a "killing" burying the dead,but I will say we earn about $1.50 for every dollar we make....and as for gifts and shopping..the ratio of the amount spent to the amount of the guy's income is a good barometer of the sincerity of the guy's(and girl's too) sacrifice.. a $1000 diamond from a guy making ~30,000 is much more impressive than a 1K diamond from a guy making 6 figures...too bad most don't really understand this thoughMattTheSkywalker said:
4everhung said:
The money I spend on girls is an irrelevancy. I know exactly what I am out for.
MattTheSkywalker said:
The money I spend on girls is an irrelevancy. I know exactly what I am out for.
I really don't care wether she pays for a date or not. Most women with character will offer to pay for a date after 1 or 2 dates.
Haven't experienced ther Goldigger phenomenon just yet. I guess I've been lucky that way.
Fonz
MattTheSkywalker said:
AMEN
If I really dig a guy on the first date I try and slip the waiter/ress my bank card while he's in the little boy's room so the bill is taken care of before he returns.
If not - I run to little girls room and hunt down the waiter/ress myself.
Heahy Minister
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velvett said:
Women like that actually exist???? So there IS a God after all!!
velvett said:
Well that takes SOMUCH guesswork out on the guys part. He knows automatically you`re not a digger. Then you both can take it from there.
Russian KGB
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4everhung said:
Never answered my question!..
Russian KGB
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NorthNPrincess said:
I had to dig up this post to see if this was the same site I got as a pop-up. I agree, I couldn't peel myself off the chair till 6:00AM, it's not like most others, it's entertaining and actually effective, highly recommended...
