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I just got invitation

foreigngirl

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for a baby shower that I dont want to go to and dont want to buy presents for.

Cliff notes:

I was this girls bridesmaid and she treated us (the macedonians) that were in the wedding party like shit, gave us attitude, threw a bill that was not ours in our faces cause she thought we did it (without even asking nicely if we had anything to do with it).

I had my 2nd baby and she didnt buy me shit, we just bought a house and she still didnt buy me shit.

I spent so much money on her wedding, bridal shower and batchlorette party and now she expects me to buy her stuff again? I say - HELL NO.
 
No
 
SoKlueles said:
and on the inside of it say
PSYCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH



bet you wish u had gotten me something
put the reciept to the bill that she claimed the "macedonians" made in it! lol
 
lol..you girls are too much....I'll make up some excuse that I cant go, and I am sooooo not buying her shit. I have to be nice, cause her husband is my husbands best friend.


The wedding thing - after she gave us that attitude, I opned the envelope and took out half the money that I put in there. On top of that - I told her what I did and why I did it
 
SoKlueles said:
and on the inside of it say
PSYCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH



bet you wish u had gotten me something

BWHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAa

this was your funniest post EVER!!!

LMAO
 
Tell her you have another baby shower to go to which is on at the same time and you really cannot refuse this one because the girl who is having it spent a lot of money on your babyshowers.


That will give her a HUGE hint and it will get you out of the event. ;)


:evil:
 
YASMINA said:
Tell her you have another baby shower to go to which is on at the same time and you really cannot refuse this one because the girl who is having it spent a lot of money on your babyshowers.


That will give her a HUGE hint and it will get you out of the event. ;)


:evil:



bwahahaha, that would be good too. Bet the bitch aint gonna get it.



KLu and Angel - LMFAO at your suggestions. That would be a good pay-back
 
or you could just not be in contact with her:)
do like you never got an invite...
ppl like that always expect others to kiss their asses
 
SoKlueles said:
and on the inside of it say
PSYCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH



bet you wish u had gotten me something



ROFLMFAO!!!!!!!!!! holey shit girl that is funny!!! I would throw the receipt from the card in there and say hey...you owe me
 
Tink! said:
ROFLMFAO!!!!!!!!!! holey shit girl that is funny!!! I would throw the receipt from the card in there and say hey...you owe me


lol....too bad I didnt take that receipt. But she did hear an earfull about that incident
 
foreigngirl said:
for a baby shower that I dont want to go to and dont want to buy presents for.

Cliff notes:

I was this girls bridesmaid and she treated us (the macedonians) that were in the wedding party like shit, gave us attitude, threw a bill that was not ours in our faces cause she thought we did it (without even asking nicely if we had anything to do with it).

I had my 2nd baby and she didnt buy me shit, we just bought a house and she still didnt buy me shit.

I spent so much money on her wedding, bridal shower and batchlorette party and now she expects me to buy her stuff again? I say - HELL NO.

Fuck that sorry bitch. I wouldn't buy her a thing.
 
mountain muscle said:
So the guys get along and the women are fighting?

That's unbelievable. :rolleyes:

So you in the Macedonians?

Is she in another gang or what?

american


btw - macedonians are a nation, not a gang :rolleyes:
 
Did you ever think that maybe she invited you because you are the wife of her husband's best friend (i.e., just to keep the peace)?

If you don't want to go fine, just get a gift card (small amount) from Babies R Us or where ever mother's shop and send it w/ a note stating you can't attend. Life is too short for grudges.

Of course, this is easy for me to say . . .I only have 2 female friends (both of them are my best friend) and I think one is done with having kids and I think the other doesn't want any. So, I don't know how this bridal, bachelorette, baby shower thing works.
 
nycgirl said:
Did you ever think that maybe she invited you only because you are the wife of her husband's best friend?

If you don't want to go fine, but to keep the peace just get a gift card (small amount) from Babies R Us or where ever mother's shop and send it w/ a note stating you can't attend. Life is too short for grudges.

Of course, this is easy for me to say . . .I only have 2 female friends (both of them are my best friend) and I think one is done with having kids and I think the other doesn't want any. So, I don't know how this bridal, bachelorette, baby shower thing works.


she didnt even get me a card for my baby and I spent a furtune on her whatever events. If she had the respect as me being a wife to her husbands best friend, she would give me a card and stuff. Instead, behind our back she sais - I hope all macedonians die.
 
screw her, if she can sit there and be your friend to your face but back stab you when you turn then dont go. dont send her any thing and if she asks why you did not attend tell her because you had other engagements....
personally i would send her a card with a "love" letter inside of it! hoping her and her hubby have a great time being parents! be as polite as can be about it and then other people will look at her like she is a big fat ass!!!!!!!
 
Like I said, I wouldn't get her a fucking thing.
 
U see, unfortunately I've learned that there are some sorry ass people in this world that aren't worth the air that they breathe. I do my best to avoid them. I'm a loner but I'm not really alone.
 
biteme said:
U see, unfortunately I've learned that there are some sorry ass people in this world that aren't worth the air that they breathe. I do my best to avoid them. I'm a loner but I'm not really alone.

I'm slowly learning that there are people in this world that prefer to be miserable. And, they will find something (whether or not its there is another story) to validate their misery. Sadly, some of them want others to be miserable as well.
 
Angel said:
HI biteme!!!!! check profile

Thank you sweetie. I am fine. I'm just being real. :)
 
mountain muscle said:
Get her baby something very specific to Macedonian culture.
The kid will love, it she will hate it.
Karma is a bitch.

BTW GO Avs :)


MY avi rocks ;)

lol..that would be good too. I should make her a CD with macedonian kid songs.....lmao


Angel and biteme - no, I am not buying the bitch anything. Their excuse for not getting us anything was because they are expecting. I was expecting at her bridal, I just had a kid and a house at the time of her bachlorette and wedding. And I still paid my dues
 
foreigngirl said:
she didnt even get me a card for my baby and I spent a furtune on her whatever events. If she had the respect as me being a wife to her husbands best friend, she would give me a card and stuff. Instead, behind our back she sais - I hope all macedonians die.

Maybe i am reading this all wrong !!!!!!!!

So because you invite someone to celebrate life you expect a card and 'stuff'... how does the respect thing work? The bigger more expensive the gift = the more respect?

Whew.. what is this world coming to. My baby shower wasn't to get 'stuff' rather to celebrate the coming of life. I didn't care what these people brought, I just wanted cake.. and alot of it. :p

Be better than her... Go get a gift, pass by here home, give your regrets that you can't make the party. Let all that other shit go and be the better woman. If she's even half the bitch you say she is, she's expecting you not to show, not to bring a gift, and just sent an invitation because she felt obligated.

Show up with a smile on and let that eat her up. Then, she won't be able to talk shit behind your back.
 
Frisky said:
Maybe i am reading this all wrong !!!!!!!!

So because you invite someone to celebrate life you expect a card and 'stuff'... how does the respect thing work? The bigger more expensive the gift = the more respect?

Whew.. what is this world coming to. My baby shower wasn't to get 'stuff' rather to celebrate the coming of life. I didn't care what these people brought, I just wanted cake.. and alot of it. :p

Be better than her... Go get a gift, pass by here home, give your regrets that you can't make the party. Let all that other shit go and be the better woman. If she's even half the bitch you say she is, she's expecting you not to show, not to bring a gift, and just sent an invitation because she felt obligated.

Show up with a smile on and let that eat her up. Then, she won't be able to talk shit behind your back.


-10.000 for Friskers for bumping this old asss thread
 
pintoca said:
-10.000 for Friskers for bumping this old asss thread

Wow, this is an old thread isn't it :worried:
 
Castro_bigdog said:
To Hell with her she only thinks about her self and I feel bad about her man Becouse she runz him .........

No need to go. No need to send a card. No need to give her money.
Ignore it. Maybe everyone else will follow you lead.
BTW. Castro is right.
 
send her a card but don't seal the envelope. when she calls to tell you the envelope was open, in case you put something inside, say "nope".
 
Aren't you busy that day? lol Just send a card that says "congrats and I wish I could be there". Then go buy yourself a present and stay home.
 
foreigngirl said:
for a baby shower that I dont want to go to and dont want to buy presents for.

Cliff notes:

I was this girls bridesmaid and she treated us (the macedonians) that were in the wedding party like shit, gave us attitude, threw a bill that was not ours in our faces cause she thought we did it (without even asking nicely if we had anything to do with it).

I had my 2nd baby and she didnt buy me shit, we just bought a house and she still didnt buy me shit.

I spent so much money on her wedding, bridal shower and batchlorette party and now she expects me to buy her stuff again? I say - HELL NO.

fuck that shit, don't get her anything. i had a buddy get married and i went to his bachelor party with my college room mate we were all friends. spent 500 bucks just for his bachelor party and he didn't even invite to his fucking wedding after that, samething happened to my college room mate. thats dicks. so if i know they wouldn't show up to mine with a gift or show up period i won't go to any one's event.
 
Raina said:
Aren't you busy that day? lol Just send a card that says "congrats and I wish I could be there". Then go buy yourself a present and stay home.


lol...I should do just that. When I told her that most likely I wont be able to be there she sounded kinda offended. I dont care


Tommy2tone - yeap, I see it that way too. You pay your dues to me, I'll return the favor.
 
foreigngirl said:
lol...I should do just that. When I told her that most likely I wont be able to be there she sounded kinda offended. I dont care


Tommy2tone - yeap, I see it that way too. You pay your dues to me, I'll return the favor.

i don't care if they show up with a gift or not, but if i know i'm going out of my way to be at an event. i better know they will show up to mine.

sucks trying to be a better person and do all these nice things only for them not to return the favor
 
tommy2tone said:
i don't care if they show up with a gift or not, but if i know i'm going out of my way to be at an event. i better know they will show up to mine.

sucks trying to be a better person and do all these nice things only for them not to return the favor


thats what I ment by paying your dues - showing up
 
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