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I have no game. Help me out guys.

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Yes I admit the fact that I have little to no game. I am not ugly, I dress pretty decent, and I am not cheap. I really dont know what my problem is, I guess its the fear of rejection.

Help me out guys and be sure to go over bar/club settings as well as everyday live such as grocery stores, malls, etc.

Karma for good responces.
 
how old are you bro? heres a post i made a while ago


well for what my input is worth... here it is. i'm relatively young too and still learning the ropes since i'm just getting into the club type scene so i'm in the same boat as your. however i have picked up on a few things


i go out looking to have a good time with my bros, if i get a # BONUS....... take this attitude with you when you go out and the chicks will pick up on it (goes back to the confidence thing plus ur not one of the 10 million fuck nuts sliming their way thru the crowd rubbing on every chick you see.... yes they will appreciate that). for a while i did the same shit standing in one place for extended periods of time. girls will approach but not nearly often enough. u gotta can that shit. at least walk around through the crowd and stuff.

area5150 has the right idea. you gotta get eyecontact and or a smile from them first before going up to them. asking them if theyd like to dance is great too, just like he said. if you dont youll get a weird look and a friend of hers will run to her rescue and pull her away. if a cute girl is trying to squeeze her way up to the crowded bar to order, and the bartender comes to you first, point to her and let her order before you. little things to break the ice bro. be a gentleman, the kind of chicks u wanna meet will respond to that... forget the others


- dress and groom yourself nicely depending on the types of clubs you go to NO ABERCROMBIE or other trendy college type stuff. SMELL NICE TOO! key is to stand out

- never try to seperate a chick from her other single friends, she wont leave them. period. if your gonna try it, make sure u have enough guy friends with you who can cover her friends

-if u see a chick you like and shes not noticing you, make sure she notices you noticing her. check her reaction and assess the situation from there

- talk to her while your dancing. make her laugh. MAKE FUNNY COMMENTS ABOUT SOME OTHER CLOWN CLOSE BY IF YOUR WORRIED ABOUT YOUR DANCING SKILLS.

hell, make fun of yourself and say u dont dance much, ask her for help/pointers

if you dance with a chick and you think theres a mutual interest after the song, thank her and say it sure is hot in here and ask her if she wants to go get a water with you or somethng. this will give you some alone time to talk and will help you come off as a human being not some asshole trying to hookup in the middle of the dance floor. i'd stay away from alchololic drinks unless she has one in hand and is ready for another. (more time than not she'll opt for the h20) and think its a sweet gesture instead of u trying to get her lit so u can get in her pants

if you get the eye contact/smile we talked about earlier, make sure you acknowledge her with a smile or something. dont be a scared little boy who turns his head right away

get the smile, make sure she see's you acknowle her. turn your back to order a drink or have a convo with someone, ie dont be eager and run right up to her. wait 10-15 minutes and get into her zone again. if you see her looking and making eye contact again your in her head and shes wondering where you went before. repeat this if you think u can get away with it but dont ruin ur chance. YOUR IN. go introduce youself ask her "if she'd like to dance"

thats all i can think of right now... lol. good luck!

oh, and dont be totally blitzed. that doesnt help the cause

also, choose your girls wisely. chicks up ontop of the bar or on the stripper pole arent there to meet anyone
 
Is your problem that you try and fail, or that you are to afraid to try?

Here's a secret. Most every guy willing to risk a little embarassment will do ok with girls. Don't just talk to one and crawl into a hole if she rejects you.

Don't build the asking out part out of proportion. You are not asking her to marry you and have your children. Just a Lets grab a coffee, or lets grab dinner. That's it. Not "I think your rally the most beautiful girl I have ever laid eyes upon, I would really love it if you let me take you out tomorrow night, what do you say" crap.

Work it broly
 
Dude...just walk up on them and start talking to them. My opening line is almost always "how's everything going tonight?" and then "you having a good time?" crap like that. Nothing special. If they won't talk to you or walk away, then FUCK them bitches. If they're interested, they're interested, if not, fuck 'em.
 
Solid advice guys.

I think i just need to learn to keep things simple. I have a tendency to over-analyze situations.
 
what you do, is you walk up to her ugly friend and say, Do you like to dance, and when she says yes... Say "well then go dance, I'm gonna talk to your friend".

OR-

If you ask her to dance and she says no, just look around and say 'well do you mind if I just stand here then' - if she laughs you are in. If not, run like the wind.
 
No guts no glory. Walk around with the attitude you have it going on and women will respond. I think confidence is one of the things women find most sexy.
 
Maybe your a nice guy!! Most woman like bad boys!! What I really mean is maybe your just too nice.

Bro my name aint badboy for nothing!!! Good quote!

#1) do not spend money on girls at clubs. They will think that everytime they see you that you have to get them drinks.. Screw that. IF she likes you she wont care if you buy drinks or not. :)

#2) You dont need game if you look good. PERIOD!!!! If you working out and in shape wear a shirt that shows off your chest and arms.. That always works for me. (Girls love rubbing your chest or squeezing your arms when they are big!) All you need to do is walk around the club and if your good looking you will get a smile or 2 At that point walk up to the girl and ask her to dance or you can flirt back alittle and smile wave her to come over to you ( girls like cocky and confident guys.) Act like you are the shit and she is lucky you are looking at her that night..

NOTE: IF you walk around the club all night and arent getting any smiles, then your uglier then you think!!! :worried:

It is a s simple as that....
 
I would personally like to thank this thread and everyone who has participated in it.

TRUE STORY*****

I read this thread about 2 weeks ago, and since then I've just been like fuck it, I'm gonna go out with a nonchalant attitude, not trying to sweat every bitch that walks by and give her the pleasure of knowing I cant have her. And for the past week, I've done nothing but hook up with 3 different girls (one from my college party, one at Applebees, and I met a cool ass chick last night at the bar). I just go out to have a good time and if I meet someone, cool, its a bonus! I just wait for the girls to give me a sign instead of pretty much hover over them like there a piece of meat. I think girls respond better to that shit than some guy trying way too hard to pick them up.
So I would like to say thanks one more time to the people in this thread for giving some great advice and boosting my self-confidence!
 
if all else fails..just whip your pee-pee out and be like "Come and get it!!!"

then run like hell b/c they will be chasing you......










along with the police...
 
this thread is great,Im printing this shit out for my buddy,he is hopeless with this shit and I always end up picking up girls and then Im like,well I got a girl,but my buddy is single
 
become rich

or

become an asshole.

2 surefire ways to get hot ass chicks. that's the *easy* way.

If you're not part of the two above -- then you're part of the majority who have to "chase" women and do that whole bullshit talk and impress the chick routine. It gets tiring after awhile.
 
No matter how good you look you always need game, put this way good looks just gets you to the interview but after that what??? flex all night?? and tell her how sexy you are lol, you need game no matter what, I know ugly ass dude dont work out or anything and have had tons of chicks because they got game!!!! is all about talking!!

#1) do not spend money on girls at clubs. They will think that everytime they see you that you have to get them drinks.. Screw that. IF she likes you she wont care if you buy drinks or not. :)

#2) You dont need game if you look good. PERIOD!!!! If you working out and in shape wear a shirt that shows off your chest and arms.. That always works for me. (Girls love rubbing your chest or squeezing your arms when they are big!) All you need to do is walk around the club and if your good looking you will get a smile or 2 At that point walk up to the girl and ask her to dance or you can flirt back alittle and smile wave her to come over to you ( girls like cocky and confident guys.) Act like you are the shit and she is lucky you are looking at her that night..

NOTE: IF you walk around the club all night and arent getting any smiles, then your uglier then you think!!! :worried:

It is a s simple as that....[/QUOTE]
 
The above advice is great but doesn't tackle the morning after. There's a certain etiquette involved in this situation... and it goes something like this.

Girl: I've got a question for you baby: What do you do for a living?

You: I've got a question for you: Why are you still here?


And remember... nothing says 'good job' like a firm, open palm slap on the behind.
 
What up AFC!


Read the Don Juan bible. It is a good start.

There are a variety of techniques. It depends on who you are.

If you are a ugly loser, then you have to manipulate (Tom Leykis style).

If you are a good looking winner (which is the ONLY way to go, i.e. self-improvement) then you illustrate.

As 2Pac said "Money over Bitches."
Which means its about you, money is power and freedom. The more $$$$, the hotter the women. The better lifestyle, the hotter the women you get. The more you improve yourself, the hotter women you get. Manipulation is a waste of time over the long run.


http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php

http://www.sosuave.com/
 
I have my own Seduction philosophy.
The Basics:

Man:

Power and Will. Money is Power. A man wants to rule and bang the
hottest girls. It is about creating, which makes money in the
process. The man creates and gives. The women takes. Not just in the
sex act, but in the relationship. A women gives, but only after she
receives.
The lesson:
Make as much money as possible and enhance your power. Self
improvement. Its your life, you are the man and it is your duty to
yourself to be the best.

Women:
Sex and Money, Money = luxury and security. Women want a man who
gives them orgasms/sex and money. If they cannot get a man who will
do both, she will choose the money, i.e. securtiy, house, car, easy
life. But she wants both so many women has affairs outside of
marriage is she is not hot or has no game. If she is too fat and ugly
then she only gets sex as a rule, the loser dude without looks and
money.

Success strategies:

Man: Be the Alpha male is a cool way, i.e. in a James Bond
sophisticated, power way, not a beggar thug.
Create a unique identity and live the adventurous life that hot
women would want to integrate into. This is what hot women look for,
the husband, that is, integrating into a mans life. The better the
mans life is, the more women will want you, i.e. integrate their
life into yours. Thus, life interesting. Personally, I am sucessfull
investor, a martial artist who fights on t.v. (local NHB fight show) , I am a bodybuilder, a philosopher, linguist, an artist who can draw and paint fine women, etc........most women find me interesting, intriguing, and could see
themselves as a part of my life.

Women integrate into the mans life.
Turn a women on and be interesting.

And THE way to keep a women and get more (they talk you know) be
great in bed and be able to give her alot of orgasms. Let her
control sex, but (depending on the girl), at times (feel her) show
her you are the man (the athelete/porno star, read karma sutra,
tantric sex, etc.........) Make her happy, make cry, be the best
experience of her life and she will want more.





Women want marriage:

If she gets the man with sex/good looking and power, many women will try to bring him down, putting him down, nagging, inorder to lower his self
esteem and make him feel he can do no better. The point of this?

This makes him less attractive to other girls. She wants to keep him, trap him. Keep him faithful. If she thinks he wants out, she will become pregnent.
The problem, when she brings him down, then she starts to lose her
attraction to him.
Therefore, she ironically, looks for someone else who she is
attracted to.

The problem is, by this time, she becomes fat because
in security, most girls want luxury, i.e. eat tasty food and lie
around rather then expeirencing pain, work, eating healthy food.

Only as a fisher finding the man with a net, as a lure does she become hot
(for girls over 18 once they are fully matured and their bmr goes down).
 
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Dirk Howat said:
I have my own Seduction philosophy.
The Basics:

Man:

Power and Will. Money is Power. A man wants to rule and bang the
hottest girls. It is about creating, which makes money in the
process. The man creates and gives. The women takes. Not just in the
sex act, but in the relationship. A women gives, but only after she
receives.
The lesson:
Make as much money as possible and enhance your power. Self
improvement. Its your life, you are the man and it is your duty to
yourself to be the best.

Women:
Sex and Money, Money = luxury and security. Women want a man who
gives them orgasms/sex and money. If they cannot get a man who will
do both, she will choose the money, i.e. securtiy, house, car, easy
life. But she wants both so many women has affairs outside of
marriage is she is not hot or has no game. If she is too fat and ugly
then she only gets sex as a rule, the loser dude without looks and
money.

Success strategies:

Man: Be the Alpha male is a cool way, i.e. in a James Bond
sophisticated, power way, not a beggar thug.
Create a unique identity and live the adventurous life that hot
women would want to integrate into. This is what hot women look for,
the husband, that is, integrating into a mans life. The better the
mans life is, the more women will want you, i.e. integrate their
life into yours. Thus, life interesting. Personally, I am sucessfull
investor, a martial artist who fights on t.v. (local NHB fight show) , I am a bodybuilder, a philosopher, linguist, an artist who can draw and paint fine women, etc........most women find me interesting, intriguing, and could see
themselves as a part of my life.

Women integrate into the mans life.
Turn a women on and be interesting.

And THE way to keep a women and get more (they talk you know) be
great in bed and be able to give her alot of orgasms. Let her
control sex, but (depending on the girl), at times (feel her) show
her you are the man (the athelete/porno star, read karma sutra,
tantric sex, etc.........) Make her happy, make cry, be the best
experience of her life and she will want more.





Women want marriage:

If she gets the man with sex/good looking and power, many women will try to bring him down, putting him down, nagging, inorder to lower his self
esteem and make him feel he can do no better. The point of this?

This makes him less attractive to other girls. She wants to keep him, trap him. Keep him faithful. If she thinks he wants out, she will become pregnent.
The problem, when she brings him down, then she starts to lose her
attraction to him.
Therefore, she ironically, looks for someone else who she is
attracted to.

The problem is, by this time, she becomes fat because
in security, most girls want luxury, i.e. eat tasty food and lie
around rather then expeirencing pain, work, eating healthy food.

Only as a fisher finding the man with a net, as a lure does she become hot
(for girls over 18 once they are fully matured and their bmr goes down).



oh yeah! If a woman put me down I'll throw her through a fockin window
 
youlikeadajuice? said:
what you do, is you walk up to her ugly friend and say, Do you like to dance, and when she says yes... Say "well then go dance, I'm gonna talk to your friend".

.


:FRlol: :FRlol: :FRlol:

I think I'm gonna steal that.
 
i only very recently started going out to clubs. i use to think i had no game, was a loser, etc. i realized all you gotta do is get drunk and have a good time with your friends, the rest comes easy.
 
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