I have a question about the PRIVACY ENFORCEMENT sticky...

[Bikini Mod]

Your less than stellar childhood doesn't poorly reflect you as a person, it just means that you'd be a worse mother than someone who hadn't experienced what you did. Nothing personal against you because it's unfortunate and you couldn't do anything about it (I assume...never read up on it).

Also, I'd love to see a link of those transcripts. I could not imagine how a judge would give a woman beater complete custody over two children. There has to be something else.

This is an example of something that is not baseless. I never attacked you or your kids or called you a dumb bitch becauseI don't know about that...just stating my opinion on something based on the facts. I dont think theres anything wrong with that, even if what is said might not be all sugar and spice and everything nice

It's all good darlin... see I dont have ANY problem discussing FACTS with reasonably intelligent adults. I have FOUR children, not two.

And you don't have to trust me when I tell you that I am not the only woman that has lost custody of her children due to courtroom domestic terrorism. The reason you don't hear about so often is not because it doesn't exist, but because there is SUCH a stigma of shame attached to it as peeps like you automatically assume, the mother MUST have done something terrible to lose custody of her children, because after all, not even crackwhores lose custody of their kids. And i don't blame you. I used to be of the same mindset, until I, personally lived the nightmare.

So, for all you who seem to think that this thread is about me crying after I revealed personal details of my life and somehow had it *used against me* you could not be further off the mark.

This is about how senseless morons continue to feel the need to proliferate hatred and lies as if it were the truth. Nothing more and nothing less.

I have NEVER EVER EVER done anything that I should be so ashamed that I feel the need to disguise my true identity. period. My REAL NAME and REAL LIKENESS are linked to *bikinimom* so you'd better believe that I take excpetion to anyone committing slander/libel.

Here are some links for you, CrazyRussian... we cool as your inquiries are honest. You see, I have ZERO to hide. Never did and never will.

Here is a post made by my REAL LIFE husband of nearly a year:

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/7474648-post23.html

Here is a link leading to an organization set up to help mothers like myself so you can see that I am NOT alone:

http://www.mjafoundation.com/index.htm

Here is a link to articles about children who have been forced to grow up like my children will grow up unless my family and I can stop this judge and my ex:

http://www.stopfamilyviolence.org/ocean/host.php?folder=62

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.

 

[Bikini Mod]

if this whole ordeal is over bikinimom, then i think something else ahs to be addressed as well.

before yall call me a hater, iv been off the BM hate wagon for some time now, and im a fan of her and her hubbies happyness and hope they last forever.


BUT: for you to ban others from discussing her personal life, you must first ban HER from talking about her personal life. there are countless threads where she brings up her personal shit and the many court cases and all that, and to ban us for RESPONDING to her experiences and opinions which she brings up in a discussion forum, is just rediculous. just thought id say my 2c

*sigh*

Not about peeps discussing my personal life as I have ZERO shame in it.

I only have a problem with peeps proliferating LIES as if they were the truth. The fact that these same simpletons actually laugh at the fact that my family suffers only amplifies their lack of humanity.

Simple.... shmimple

 

[needtogetaas]

*sigh*

Not about peeps discussing my personal life as I have ZERO shame in it.

I only have a problem with peeps proliferating LIES as if they were the truth. The fact that these same simpletons actually laugh at the fact that my family suffers only amplifies their lack of humanity.

Simple.... shmimple

you know it seems they are just not herring what you are saying...some people just cant grasp things can they....truth is ok leis are not ok.truth is ok fabractions or half truths not ok.seems pretty simple to me.

 

[Bikini Mod]

you know it seems they are just not herring what you are saying...some people just cant grasp things can they....truth is ok leis are not ok.truth is ok fabractions or half truths not ok.seems pretty simple to me.

That's because you, my brother, have enough intelligence to discern one from the other... not to mention that though you (and I) have made some mistakes in life, we own up to them and TRY to make it right as we have honor.

That is what this board is lacking.... honor.

And bitch, I was hemming and hawing right next to my silly Old Grump and he was just not relaying my sentiments.

I believe I was saying, "Tell Need2 he'd better stay on the up and up or I will personally put my foot up his ass."

 

[needtogetaas]

That's because you, my brother, have enough intelligence to discern one from the other... not to mention that though you (and I) have made some mistakes in life, we own up to them and TRY to make it right as we have honor.

That is what this board is lacking.... honor.

And bitch, I was hemming and hawing right next to my silly Old Grump and he was just not relaying my sentiments.

I believe I was saying, "Tell Need2 he'd better stay on the up and up or I will personally put my foot up his ass."

lol he deff told me that part.

 

[Bikini Mod]

lol he deff told me that part.

Then you heard everything you needed to hear.

 

[needtogetaas]

Then you heard everything you needed to hear.

funny.

 

[CrazyRussian]

that begs the question: what were you doing with this guy in the first place?

anyways that was kind of a rhetorical question. its beside the point, which is that there is no point to this which is why im signing out of this thread

 

[Bikini Mod]

funny.

Are we clear?

 

[Bikini Mod]

that begs the question: what were you doing with this guy in the first place?

anyways that was kind of a rhetorical question. its beside the point, which is that there is no point to this which is why im signing out of this thread

I was barely 21 years old and a product of my upbringing - dad abused the shit out of mom and also raised to believe that jealousy was part of love. At the tender age of 21 I was going to love him enough to *make it all better* where his own mother failed.

Was I immature and waaaaaaaaaaaaaay wrong?

HELL YES.

Does it make me a bad person? I loved him faithfully for THIRTEEN YEARS and busted my ass to make my marriage work.

So I would think NOT.

Interesting how you bring intelligent discourse to the thread, then bow out when I give intelligent answers that you didnt expect.

Could you maybe muster a "Gee bikinimom, that's really fucked up and I was wrong.".....?

It's all good. I didn't expect it.

Regardless my children are abused daily and I am still powerless to help for the moment. How this is shamefull FOR ME is completely beyond my comprehension.

Good people get fucked daily by the family court system. Sometimes it is the father. Sometimes it is the mother. But regardless - THE CHILDREN ALWAYS GET FUCKED.

I will not be shamed into silence about this very important and very personal topic by a handfull of vocal MORONS.

You wanna have intelligent, thought-provoking discourse - bring it on.

You wanna slander/libel say mean shit about the suffering of children - then you get your ass shit-canned.

What is so hard to understand about that?