I don't think there's "just one" person in the whole world that we fit with.....maybe only a few. But I do beleive that there are people out there that for whatever reason, we just fit with right off the bat. Problem is that we let our culture/society filter into our relationships and then expectations become unrealistic. This constant floundering is what keeps us from zeroing in on our "soulmates". Some people beleive that soulmates are people we've been with in past lives and who know us......so they can get past the superficial expectations of this world. Who knows, but what I do know....and this thread proves it.......is that it's virtually impossible to find a good match anymore because nobody is "who they are" anymore. So consequently people abandon the notion of soulmates altogether. Whatever works for you is what works. I know alot of guys who are perfectly content to go through life sleeping with a new woman every week....ce la vie. I'm not naive enough to think that just because you beleive in soulmates, you'll find one........chances are you won't.....but I know that me personally....I'm not even thinking about getting married unless I've found one. And the criteria for being a soulmate "to me"........is very very very high.....as it should be. I will always beleive they're out there.....it's just chance if you stumble across one or not.