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I gots me a GF

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This girl loves to party and go to clubs like me which is nice, just on occasion which is what I'll do from now on.
She's 35, very pretty + great body, excellant cook, lives 5 minutes away and just is a very considerate and horny woman. :p
I met her 4 days ago we have hung out everyday and we've slept over eachothers house 3 out of the 4 days.
Is it early, obviously it is. But sometimes you just know what you want and we have both made it clear that we want to be with eachother. It's a good thing I partied and hooked up with so many chicks, but at the same time these other girls are always texting me and I'm going to have to break it to them i gotta GF.
 
Happy for the new interest Lart, and connection.
Interesting to see how the dynamic unfolds brah.
 
35 and she is probably freaking out that she isnt married yet..and will be the "perfect" woman in order to seem like a good catch.......until you marry her.
 
way too early to say something like this dude

I'm not changing my facebook to relationship or anything like that, lol. But my gut feeling is that the relationship started the second I met her. We hang out all day everyday, we're going to fast but I don't care. I didn't go out NYE looking for a girl, sometimes things just happen.
 
I'm not changing my facebook to relationship or anything like that, lol. But my gut feeling is that the relationship started the second I met her. We hang out all day everyday, we're going to fast but I don't care. I didn't go out NYE looking for a girl, sometimes things just happen.

oh shit lol be careful with that
 
I'm not changing my facebook to relationship or anything like that, lol. But my gut feeling is that the relationship started the second I met her. We hang out all day everyday, we're going to fast but I don't care. I didn't go out NYE looking for a girl, sometimes things just happen.

Not to bust your chops (maybe just a little :) ) but you sound like a 17 year old girl.

Enjoy yourself and chillax. When shit moves fast like this you end up ignoring too many red flags because *we REALLY* dig each other. Next thing you know your rabbit is all boiling over and shit in a big black pot. :worried:

PS - whose the clingy one? Or are you both equally clingy?
 
does she swallow? does she like 3rd input? is she willing to have a 3 way with an 18 year old college chick? if yes to all three then that's a keeper. if she likes football that's a big bonus.
 
oh shit lol be careful with that

:) Yeah, that could be taken many different ways. And yes smurf right now I'm happy. I've described girls like her to my friends before as I've met a few but not many in my life. The age difference is the only thing that I see as a possible problem right now.
 
yo lart sometimes older chicks is the way to go bro, they have more experience and arent stuck up or immature like these young girls out there, especially the ones we meet in the clubs... just mho
 
tell her your bros on EF didn't approve, and that you have to break it off now

Yeah, but like when U say this, stare off into the distance like U just don't understand why they don't approve.

What up Nimb?
Was going through a pack of Dharums like every 2 days brah for 5 weeks.
Haven't smoked a clove in 5 days. Back to nicorette consumption.
 
Yeah, but like when U say this, stare off into the distance like U just don't understand why they don't approve.

What up Nimb?
Was going through a pack of Dharums like every 2 days brah for 5 weeks.
Haven't smoked a clove in 5 days. Back to nicorette consumption.

im good :) getting back to reality after spending winter break in LA; school actually start tomorrow and i spend my last day of freedom playing football. Jammed finger and twisted ankle later I am in the office doing bitchwork
 
im good :) getting back to reality after spending winter break in LA; school actually start tomorrow and i spend my last day of freedom playing football. Jammed finger and twisted ankle later I am in the office doing bitchwork

Last time I played was undgrad flag, pulled a hamstring, right after I set up a cheap ass pick play, kid never saw me coming and I just laid my forarm right into his spleen.

Yeah, they were a bunch of med students we played, and his teammate was like way bigger than my 5 8 150 lb ass at the time, and he was about to like fucking start throwing down on me, when my fraternity brother, who is samoan, and gentle as the night, didn't see me cheap shot the poor kid, and thought I was being attacked without justification or based on race or something, he goes nuts and pins the guy up on the fence, I literally thought he was going to kill him.

They almost had to call security.
Not one of my prouder moments in sports.
 
lol @ everyone talking shit; who cares, not like he's marrying her

At least you and her and I know that!!!!!1

I met her 4 days ago we have hung out everyday and we've slept over eachothers house 3 out of the 4 days.
Is it early, obviously it is. But sometimes you just know what you want and we have both made it clear that we want to be with eachother.

lololooll
 
Last time I played was undgrad flag, pulled a hamstring, right after I set up a cheap ass pick play, kid never saw me coming and I just laid my forarm right into his spleen.

Yeah, they were a bunch of med students we played, and his teammate was like way bigger than my 5 8 150 lb ass at the time, and he was about to like fucking start throwing down on me, when my fraternity brother, who is samoan, and gentle as the night, didn't see me cheap shot the poor kid, and thought I was being attacked without justification or based on race or something, he goes nuts and pins the guy up on the fence, I literally thought he was going to kill him.

They almost had to call security.
Not one of my prouder moments in sports.

lol that's nuts. this was tackle; we are gonna be playing a lot this month because we have our annual game against the Berkeley chapter of our frat on superbowl sunday. I swear though every year I can take less and less punishment, need some GH LOL. Forgot to mention i also popped my shoulder which hurts like shit when I turn left while driving - the good news is it helped me with super strict form on back day today because otherwise I couldn't take the shoulder pain.
 
lol that's nuts. this was tackle; we are gonna be playing a lot this month because we have our annual game against the Berkeley chapter of our frat on superbowl sunday. I swear though every year I can take less and less punishment, need some GH LOL. Forgot to mention i also popped my shoulder which hurts like shit when I turn left while driving - the good news is it helped me with super strict form on back day today because otherwise I couldn't take the shoulder pain.

Dude, tackle is just not as much fun without pads.
Yeah, flag on turf and shit talking that would've made the middle east and Israel look like the Gap.
Good tymez.
 
you guys are asswipes... he's very happy with the situation at hand let the man be happy.

So when were you going to tell me? You suck... I thought we were an item? I cook and I like sex. Sheesh...

LOL

good luck sugar!

Oh and String... Yummy
 
East Coast bro and a Southern Gurl
Sounds like a sit com. lol
Aesthetically pleasing one though...
I'll give ya both that.
 
tell her your bros on EF didn't approve, and that you have to break it off now

Ya exactly, the real people in my life responded like smurf/frisky did.
She's great person and I'm sure i'll have my ups and downs like nay relationships but overall we really do fit well together. We have had similar problems with SO's as well. Both our ex's were very controlling, we understand the importance being honest.
 
you guys are asswipes... he's very happy with the situation at hand let the man be happy.

So when were you going to tell me? You suck... I thought we were an item? I cook and I like sex. Sheesh...

LOL

good luck sugar!

Oh and String... Yummy

If it doesn't work out we'll have to give it a shot! It's funny we live in the same town and never met, I was bound to run into her sooner or later. After messin with all these younger chicks I am so much happy to be with a mature woman right now. Someone who knows exactly what they want. I took her out at this mexican restaurant last night and slept over her place yet again. She offers to pay for things etc... I took my time and hung out with lots of woman and I feel this one's a keeper.
 
This girl loves to party and go to clubs like me which is nice, just on occasion which is what I'll do from now on.
She's 35, very pretty + great body, excellant cook, lives 5 minutes away and just is a very considerate and horny woman. :p
I met her 4 days ago we have hung out everyday and we've slept over eachothers house 3 out of the 4 days.
Is it early, obviously it is. But sometimes you just know what you want and we have both made it clear that we want to be with eachother. It's a good thing I partied and hooked up with so many chicks, but at the same time these other girls are always texting me and I'm going to have to break it to them i gotta GF.

make sure that you let us know when she turns into the most recent "last GF turned into a bitch/psyco" by posting up a new thread.
Hell, I should have read page 5, shit may have already happened....
 
make sure that you let us know when she turns into the most recent "last GF turned into a bitch/psyco" by posting up a new thread.
Hell, I should have read page 5, shit may have already happened....

yeah... I'm sure shit will pop off sooner or later. I just have a feeling I made a better choice than my other ex's. Hey it may fizzle out in the next few weeks, could be. This chick is into me as much any girl I have ever met this early on. She's had some crazy ex's because she parties like I do but she's actually a nice girl. So just like I ended up with dating woman who are no good for me, she deals with the same shit ( with guys).
To have a woman so into me, physically and more is great. ( I will explain about the physical, lol)
From there I thought about her and what I thought. And I am really impressed and hope we continue to have more and more fun.
So the first night we had sex she met me out at this bar and then we headed back to her place. I touch her Vag and she is ridiculously wet, I look at her and she tells me she had been like that since she saw me at the bar!
 
i say go with the flow. You dont know what the future holds with you two.....if you enjoy each other you might as well keep going.....sounds like your very into her. Whats the age difference? you mentioned you were worried about it
 
If it doesn't work out we'll have to give it a shot! It's funny we live in the same town and never met, I was bound to run into her sooner or later. After messin with all these younger chicks I am so much happy to be with a mature woman right now. Someone who knows exactly what they want. I took her out at this mexican restaurant last night and slept over her place yet again. She offers to pay for things etc... I took my time and hung out with lots of woman and I feel this one's a keeper.

Oh wait... haven't you heard... Us older women are desperate... blah blah.

I do the same when I am with someone, I am more than happy to pay for dinner... a movie, etc. I don't expect anyone to pay my way all the time... its a 50/50 thing for me.
 
Oh wait... haven't you heard... Us older women are desperate... blah blah.

I do the same when I am with someone, I am more than happy to pay for dinner... a movie, etc. I don't expect anyone to pay my way all the time... its a 50/50 thing for me.

Unfortunately, hot women in their 20's, who I mainly date - don't date guys who'd make them go dutch on dates. Besides, most of them are broke anyways.

r
 
Unfortunately, hot women in their 20's, who I mainly date - don't date guys who'd make them go dutch on dates. Besides, most of them are broke anyways.

r

LOL

well... I'm not broke, and my last lt relationship was also with a younger guy, whom was broke and didn't mind me paying for everything. LOL

I learned my lesson... Now I go dutch... lol...
 
I'm getting old, that's all there is to it. You met her four days ago and you're already having sex? What the hell ever happened to getting to know each other?
 
LOL

well... I'm not broke, and my last lt relationship was also with a younger guy, whom was broke and didn't mind me paying for everything. LOL

I learned my lesson... Now I go dutch... lol...

With all due respect, my dear lady, had you truly learned your lesson you'd never put out a dime. The age of the man in question is wholely irrelevant. In other words, you'd not accept an invitation from anything less than a gentleman. Though my personal preference has always been for older gentlemen, that does not mean that there aren't YOUNGER gentlemen.

When a lady offers anything more than her time, a gentleman is turned OFF.
 
I'm getting old, that's all there is to it. You met her four days ago and you're already having sex? What the hell ever happened to getting to know each other?
hell, if you do that, you'll probably find out that you really can't stand the person, then you waisted all the good sex days...
 
I'm getting old, that's all there is to it. You met her four days ago and you're already having sex? What the hell ever happened to getting to know each other?

Nothing wrong with hitting it and forgetting it (IMHO that goes for BOTH genders) but a lady shouldn't ever even try to fool herself into thinking that she will ever be viewed differently, nor should the man in question.
 
I'm getting old, that's all there is to it. You met her four days ago and you're already having sex? What the hell ever happened to getting to know each other?

4 dates 2 hours each. or 1 date 8 hours long. Same thing. I can 'get to know a person' in mere hours -- I don't need 3 weeks to figure someone out.

Hell I can figure someone out on EF within 3 posts!! :)

r
 
hell, if you do that, you'll probably find out that you really can't stand the person, then you waisted all the good sex days...

See this how men and women differ. A woman is nearly incapable of having AWESOME SEX with a near stranger... The sex is ALWAYS better after there has been some time for a relationship to develop. NSA sex is always *just meh* for a woman. I don't care how she spins it... she isn't being honest.

Now that doesn't mean that the sex can't be worth getting nekkid for, but there has to be something more then that the man offers - not *just the sex*. Whereas most men (as the men get older this changes to a great extent) are happy just to have a willing hole in the dark. They score, they are happy.

Since women have the coochie, they don't care about *scoring*. They don't high five one another 'cause they *got to go down on some dude* LFMAO...

I don't make the rules so please ya'll don't shoot the messenger. :)
 
See this how men and women differ. A woman is nearly incapable of having AWESOME SEX with a near stranger... The sex is ALWAYS better after there has been some time for a relationship to develop. NSA sex is always *just meh* for a woman. I don't care how she spins it... she isn't being honest.

Now that doesn't mean that the sex can't be worth getting nekkid for, but there has to be something more then that the man offers - not *just the sex*. Whereas most men (as the men get older this changes to a great extent) are happy just to have a willing hole in the dark. They score, they are happy.

Since women have the coochie, they don't care about *scoring*. They don't high five one another 'cause they *got to go down on some dude* LFMAO...

I don't make the rules so please ya'll don't shoot the messenger. :)


(YAWN) what'd she say, all I read was "see..... messanger". It was probably one of those sex ed posts AGAIN. With a few WORDS capitalized, yes. and I probably won't agree, AGAIN.
 
Then we must agree to disagree.

Men and women view sex differently as they view one another.

Sorry, but regardless of how many CAPS or bold, the color of the type... these facts are undisputable.

Men and women are DIFFERENT. The sexes are not now, nor will they EVER be equal. They were designed to work together synergistically, each designed to play a different but no less important role. :)
 
4 dates 2 hours each. or 1 date 8 hours long. Same thing. I can 'get to know a person' in mere hours -- I don't need 3 weeks to figure someone out.

Hell I can figure someone out on EF within 3 posts!! :)

r
I didn't have sex, of any sort, with my current husband for three months.

And I'm still learning new things about him after 14 years.
 
not to bust your chops (maybe just a little :) ) but you sound like a 17 year old girl.

Enjoy yourself and chillax. When shit moves fast like this you end up ignoring too many red flags because *we really* dig each other. Next thing you know your rabbit is all boiling over and shit in a big black pot. :worried:

Ps - whose the clingy one? Or are you both equally clingy?

+1
 
4 dates 2 hours each. or 1 date 8 hours long. Same thing. I can 'get to know a person' in mere hours -- I don't need 3 weeks to figure someone out.

Hell I can figure someone out on EF within 3 posts!! :)

r

Oh please figure me out...

I doubt you would even be able to at all... but ill give you a shot.
 
Then we must agree to disagree.


Sorry, but regardless of how many CAPS or bold, the color of the type... these facts are undisputable.

Men and women are DIFFERENT.


All fact are disputable, or we wouldn't be disputing them.
I will give you the one in red, that is truly undisputable.
 
I'm well aware we're going too fast possibly. But I don't care, Im enjoying myself and so is she. I never went this quick with my last ex's, but that didn't mean shit in the end. I'm a guy and I'll like too have sex, my bad. She doesn't take me as a whore, but I'll find out.
 
All fact are disputable, or we wouldn't be disputing them.
I will give you the one in red, that is truly undisputable.

You are correct. There is no such thing as truth, but only perception.

I suppose that if a man or woman's perception is that they are equal (meaning the same), regardless of how UNEQUAL (or different) they are, does that really matter to that individual?

There are exceptions to every *rule*. But then again, it would be cumbersome for me to state that as a preface to most of the statements that I (and my husband's and many many others that we have interviewed) have experienced to be accurate. Wouldn't it?

At the end of days we all get to decide our own destiny... or do we?
 
i disagree

Then you sir, are the exception to the rule.

I suppose I should make it a habit to preface my comments (where applicable) that "though there may be exceptions to each rule the general consensus states...."

MOST MEN will not treat a lady with much respect (aside from what they feel necessary to doink her) if she does not command that respect with her behavior. Now if that lady could care less but only wants what she wants, when she wants it then all bets are off.

I do believe in TOTAL sexual liberation believe it or not. But in American society MOST WOMEN can not behave in such a fashion and expect to be respected as MOST American men are not ready to handle such behavior.

Once a lady figures this out, she will navigate the dating world with much greater ease.

Lartinos - have truckloads of fun but based on what you have said on this thread, I wouldn't go falling in love. Not saying anything negative about you OR the woman in question... at all.
 
yeah.... great shot of your traps, lol!!!
Please stop with your nonsense on my thread. What next we talk about our height, lol. please...

you're such a piece of dogshit bro

first you try to compare physiques with a shirted pic versus your thumbnail avatar, all over how you can't take a joke.

then suddenly you turn blind


post up more fairytales, I enjoy reading how you wished you lived
 
you're such a piece of dogshit bro

first you try to compare physiques with a shirted pic versus your thumbnail avatar, all over how you can't take a joke.

then suddenly you turn blind


post up more fairytales, I enjoy reading how you wished you lived

damn maing i've never seen you e-beefing like this before
good shit bros, keep it up, fun reading...
that pic was a good pwning, but you get reversed pwned for using a 3 yr old pic
 
damn maing i've never seen you e-beefing like this before
good shit bros, keep it up, fun reading...
that pic was a good pwning, but you get reversed pwned for using a 3 yr old pic

it is old, I admit. I looked practically the same before I broke my ankle in Nov. it's quickly coming back.
 
I also move to rule on no more of lartinos 'girl stories', until he posts some pics of these womenz. ANYONE can attract a chicken head. i need to know the caliber of these females before evaluating said 'game'.
 
are you in dtown now in days?

actually in warren

been looking at houses. looked at one behind the old central train station in the D, was only like 60k, old house, huge had lots of work done to it. but area sucks. I'd love to have it though


also thinking of getting back in school, so I"m not busting my ass forever
 
You are correct. There is no such thing as truth, but only perception.

I suppose that if a man or woman's perception is that they are equal (meaning the same), regardless of how UNEQUAL (or different) they are, does that really matter to that individual?

There are exceptions to every *rule*. But then again, it would be cumbersome for me to state that as a preface to most of the statements that I (and my husband's and many many others that we have interviewed) have experienced to be accurate. Wouldn't it?

At the end of days we all get to decide our own destiny... or do we?

I'm just going to have to introduce you to my middle sister, yalls mannor of debate is so much the same, yall would either just love each other, OR want to kill each other to see who could prove their points the most. BTW, she's a sex therapist.
 
Some ownage going on in this thread.
Bean laying down the hurt.
 
hard to post pics of your fevered imagination... :rolleyes:
 
Anyone can post pics of themselves with their arm around a cute chick - proves nothing........could be a sibling.......m
 
Anyone can post pics of themselves with their arm around a cute chick - proves nothing........could be a sibling.......m

That is totally true, sad but true. Since I appear to be entering a relationship and we both like to go out on occasion there will plenty of pics in due time. bith my friends that have met her so far were impressed.
 
You are easily irritable.

Owwwww.

Snap. I win.

r


Wrong...

I actually don't get irritated easy, it takes quite a bit for me to go off on someone. But when I do... they know i am pissed.

Owwwwwwwwwww...

Snap... U Lose!
 
To be honest dude, I haven't read through everything here but it's been like 4,5 or maybe 6 days now - still just entering a relationship where things are new and exciting and you are in the honeymoon period... Try not to get too attached and shout out how good she is to everyone until you actually get to know her better :)
 
To be honest dude, I haven't read through everything here but it's been like 4,5 or maybe 6 days now - still just entering a relationship where things are new and exciting and you are in the honeymoon period... Try not to get too attached and shout out how good she is to everyone until you actually get to know her better :)

You may very well be right, so far so good. We have too much in common, she's very compassionate, very beautiful, and crazy about me.
 
:FRlol::FRlol::FRlol::FRlol:

Too old to be going to the club. IMO Hit it and split it then find yourself a nice 25 year old. :chomp:

You are a fuck tard...

LOL

Age is a number... one that does not completely define us. What I see in your response is that you are very immature and couldn't handle a woman with substance. Thats just weak... very weak. You will grow up some day though... and then you will be sending me a K message about how right I was. LOL
 
You are a fuck tard...

LOL

Age is a number... one that does not completely define us. What I see in your response is that you are very immature and couldn't handle a woman with substance. Thats just weak... very weak. You will grow up some day though... and then you will be sending me a K message about how right I was. LOL

What I see in your response is you are an older number and I would definitely stay with it if I ever did hit it - but I wouldn't cause that would be cheatin and tis something I don't do but you way got the looks!
 
What I see in your response is you are an older number and I would definitely stay with it if I ever did hit it - but I wouldn't cause that would be cheatin and tis something I don't do but you way got the looks!

no... actually I am not... not yet anyway. LOL

(I have a a few months to go) LOL

I think he must be young... no excuse, because some here are older and still have the same mentality.

Thank you for what I think is a compliment... LOL, and much respect for the no cheating. There is never a good enough reason to cheat.
 
I'm just going to have to introduce you to my middle sister, yalls mannor of debate is so much the same, yall would either just love each other, OR want to kill each other to see who could prove their points the most. BTW, she's a sex therapist.

I am thinkin I would LOVE the debate. :evil: I've always been fascinated by human behavior, particulary what drives the sexes.:evil: I don't have a degree but only life experience. Still I love to have intelligent discourse as I do believe that new ideas are born out of healthy conflict. :)
 
Hehehe, poor kid. Thinks she's gonna be different than any other woman.

Here's the deal. When a man and woman get into a relationship, the man does not want the woman to change one bit, the woman wants the man to change. Every woman at some point in time has said "he has potential".

I wish you good luck, but the higher your hopes, the farther you fall.
 
What I don't understand is why so many men are questioning Lartinos' honesty. I mean, if you are a relatively *ok* looking, (hell he could be BUTT UGLY) dude with just an *average* body and the tiniest bit of game and confidence there is NO REASON why he couldn't have chicks up in his shit. Last I remembered he wasn't necessarily talking about tagging them all, just that they were up in his shit - could be very true. Now if he was talking about how all of these random relatively hot women were giving him head in the parking lot, then I would call bullshit.

Other than that, I don't see what the big deal is.

I LOVE to dance, always have, got me through a pretty shitty job situation but even when I was 21 I could only take the club atmosphere one night every several MONTHS. I can't stand drunk idiots, especially when there is a crowd. I HATE bitches, hos and dudes who think that they are *all that* all testosteroned to the gills just standing around not even asking any women to dance - yea THAT don't scream "I AM A GAY MAN IN A HETERO CLUB". :rolleyes:

I suppose I am odd, perhaps but I don't see why a woman who is 35 years old would want to go to clubs on a regular basis. They are loud and packed full of people that are drunk/stoned/rolling whathaveyou. Like I said, I LOVE TO DANCE - more than most but the atmosphere just turns me off in general.

Having said that, I am getting the itch to go to a club and do a little dancing for my hubby. ;) But I will tell ya'llz as sure as I am typing this, after a few hours - I will be good for prolly the rest of the year.
 
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