I got so angry at the club tonight

[bigmann245]

tonight i was trying to grind and makeout with women, i wasnt even looking for a relationship

wrong answer..... sounds like the club scene isn't your scene. you may think it is but seriously, it isn't. try looking into other places to meet girls where you can just be you and not have to play the game. if you stick to the club scene thats all you get is games....its a given and they know it. if you cant play the game then don't anti up

 

[healother]

wrong answer..... sounds like the club scene isn't your scene. you may think it is but seriously, it isn't. try looking into other places to meet girls where you can just be you and not have to play the game. if you stick to the club scene thats all you get is games....its a given and they know it. if you cant play the game then don't anti up

how is it bad to look for that at a club? Women are there for that too. not all of them go there for that but id say about half of them do.

 

[Smurfy]

I was trying really hard to contain it, but its tough cuz everyone there was completely stuck up!

I tried hitting on probably close to 30 women, and got 1 girl to dance with me. someone else got a girl to dance with me for like 10 seconds by begging her to but that doesnt count. the first girl danced with me for like a minute then stopped and was like ok im done, and then wouldnt dance with me for the rest of the night.

no one at the club gives a shit about what kind of time you're having, except for that one dude that tried to help me.

This guy who can really dance good, who happens to be black, I kept on trying to say hi to him, I coincidentally have bumped into him at like 3 dif clubs now, but everytime i even look at him he blows me off and looks or walks the other way.

I got so pissed that I started calling girls bitches as I was walking away (most of the time they didnt hear me though) or saying "what the fuck" after they blew me off.

This one girl wouldnt dance with me but she danced with an acquaintence of mine that I saw at the club, and I asked her afterwards why she didnt dance with me and she just faced her female friend and her friend said "shes my baby". I said "thats cool, im just trying to be friendly, im not a threat". they said "just leave"
I said "you 2 leave, why should i have to leave" they said "just go" . I said "you 2 are fucking bitches, get the fuck out of here" and they sighed and looked the other way.

I was so pissed I just walked away. I'm surprised I didnt throw a fit tonight, I was trying really hard to stay calm, but it sucks so much to see women reject you and then slut themselves to another man. Just about every man was dancing with women as the club was closing and getting numbers. I was the freak dancing around alone.

I know rejection shouldnt bother me, but it does, and ive been going out there and trying to get practice so that it doesnt affect me as much, but I tell you I'm afraid one of these days I'm going to snap and get in trouble.
I just hate how I work my ass off to be in good shape, and these women dont even give a damn or try to even help me learn what to do better.

and thread crappers get the fuck out of here.

dont blame the women. there is obviously something wrong with you. it's not them, it's you.

 

[Yarg!]

you have a fetish for never taking the advice that is given to you in your threads. knowing this, i will still give u advice in the hopes that you make something out of it, but if not, well, your loss.

be more assertive. dont just ask, lead them in or pull them in gentley but firmly.



also wait for the right song- a song that girls like to dance to. i mean it will be kind of hard to get a girl to dance during like..santeria as opposed to when my love, or california love comes on (which every club plays once a night, atleast)

 

[GoldenDelicious]

get 3 or 4 people to verify with photos that youre not an alter and i may jsut give you fucking awesome advice for you to ignore

 

[ponyfitness]

dont blame the women. there is obviously something wrong with you. it's not them, it's you.

Bingo.

By the time you got to the 5th woman every girl in the place probably saw you as the loser who was hitting on everyone in the bar. And you're not even hitting on them, you're asking them to dance which is lame in the first place. Then getting a sour attitude and starting to call the girls bitches was the icing on the cake. You're lucky you didn't get thrown out.

I have this picture in my mind that I hope isn't true but it probably is and it just makes me shake my head. There are so many things you could be doing differently but they require social skills and self confidence, neither of which you have.

 

[Bikini Mod]

get 3 or 4 people to verify with photos that youre not an alter and i may jsut give you fucking awesome advice for you to ignore

Both my Old Grump and I have talked to him on the phone. WE can assure you, he is NOT an alter.

Having said that, darlin' the best advice I can give you to ignore (you had to see that coming) echoes Bigmann's...

STAY OUT OF THE CLUB it is not your thing.

Even though I love to dance personally I can count on two hands how many times I have been to one in my 20 years of adult life. And I NEVER went to one to pick up or meet anyone. I went their to hang with my girls or my brother or my date. I danced with many a guy that there is no way I would have *given the time of day to* because they were just not my bag because I am just nice like that.... heck I dated a guy who used to bounce so every time I went to his club he was working so either I would sit at the bar and be entertained by the bartender until he got too busy or my bf would actually bring guys over to me to dance w/because he felt so badly that I was alone.

Having said that, I would dance w/a dude unless he gave off a *creepy vibe* and especially if he was pushy after I gave WHATEVER reason to decline his invitation it made it worse and ESPECIALLY if a guy got nasty after I declined his invitation - NICELY....

There is a whole host of stuff that just isn't going right for you in a club. My advice? Stay out of that scene because it BOTHERS YOU.

There are plenty of other places to go to meet wimminz regardless of what your short or longterm objective may be.

 

[nefertiti]

Next thread:

"I killed a girl and her body is in my trunk - what should I do?"

Dude, you weird me out. Calling girls bitches because they didn't want to dance with you? I don't even know what to say to that.

 

[blueta2]

Next thread:

"I killed a girl and her body is in my trunk - what should I do?"

Dude, you weird me out. Calling girls bitches because they didn't want to dance with you? I don't even know what to say to that.

shhhhhhhh say nothing and move on. There is no hope here!

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Both my Old Grump and I have talked to him on the phone. WE can assure you, he is NOT an alter.

excellent, i was kinda cut that steve wasnt a real guy, i liked him...despite his retardedness

steve, when you read taht shit i told you to read, then ill help you out.

if you doubt how good i am at getting girls, i got an offer for a 3some today while i was at work, ill take pictures and mail them to you if you like

(im not into 3somes, and said no...but seriously, ill call back and say YES just for the pics, JUST for YOU)

"girls lets take some pics"
"why?"
"for evensteve"
"for who?"
"shush i cant get the flash to work wtf"
"whos evensteve?"
"SHUT UP YOU TWITS THE FLASH ISNT WORKING ARRRRR TECHNOLOGY SUUUCCKKKSSS KILLL MEEEEEE!!!"