Before this gets locked for turning into flames...

I need to say that it WAS a big deal (and cost me quite a bit of time and headache...)
Some of you now understand WHY it was problematic for me (JA), and yet some others may never...(just note: That I am a rather secluded family type of guy...and ALWAYS afraid for THEIR safety...AND I have friends on this board and if they thought this were true I would NOT be welcome into their homes anymore

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But I am glad to see it cleared up out here (thus saving me from hordes of PM's inquiring about whether it was true or not).
I have fogiven his honest mistake on this, and now I would like to see it dissipate into the past now