I failed you BBF

[Deleted member 33117]

Close but no cigar. Ok, well at least we know you like women. Follow the advice here. Superdave's method is golden at your age.

 

[-SD-]

25? I have no idea. crap, i just hijacked my own thread. okay back to business, so... women are cool...

Im 30 in november, so whatever I tell you has been put to the test and isnt bullshit theory, same with BBF.

 

[fyxgel2]

Because you dont want to get out of your comfort zone and learn new things. Once you get a little crazy and do the things weve suggested, then when you are in your own element, like job, church, through friends, club, activity, then you will feel very comfortable dealing with women because of the UNcomfortable things you did that we suggested in order to jumpstart your learning.
Heres another analogy. If you bust your ass and do wind sprints for a few weeks, then next time you step on a treadmill to jog a few miles seems really easy since you went way out of your comfort zone with the wind sprints. Same thing with women.
Class dismissed.

hmmm.. interesting analogy, i like your teaching style.

I guess I can see some validity to what you are saying. although I would still have to say that its probably more efficient to get to know girls, at some similar function that you are in, because that already means that you have something in common.

but heh, for someone like me who doesnt attend any functions, maybe I will have to go public, and get used to the wind sprints.

 

[Debaser]

If I could spend a day with you, I could show you the exact attitude you need to have. It's fun too. It's all about being downright cocky to the point where you're a borderline arrogant prick, if you didn't have a sense of humor along with it.

Check out "double your dating" by david deangelo (sp)...you can find it on most file sharing programs. This is a good start.

You need to start acting like the alpha male, as in YOU are the prize and the girl is lucky to be in your presence. I disagree with "taking them out" to the movies and such as some here are suggesting...don't buy them a thing. You will only appear submissive if you do this and will quickly become a "friend," if anything.

 

[Moderate_THIS]

okay back to business, so... women are cool...

I hear opposites attract

 

[fyxgel2]

awittyusername:
Bro, its ok to get to know a girl first. But, you are such a nice polite guy, you will be in the friend category in 5 min

lol, this is the reason why I am still considering the advice of asking out women right away, instead of getting to know them first.

Infact, this may even be the only way that I will succeed at asking a girl out.


AND FOLKS:
yes I have read that 'double your dating' thing. A lot of it seems like the same advice I've seen on other web sites about picking up women.

I am okay with some of their tactics, as long as I'm not doing anything thats dishonest.

So therefore superdave, your movie idea is a good one, and I may try it, except I probably wont lie and say that 'someone bailed' but I'd rather say something like, hey, "I was gonna go see this movie, but I'd prefer not to see it alone. wanna come in with me?"
yea, maybe it doesnt sound 'as' good, but it still could work.

 

[Debaser]

"I was gonna go see this movie, but I'd prefer not to see it alone. wanna come in with me?"
yea, maybe it doesnt sound 'as' good, but it still could work.

Argh...no. That's pretty much the attitude you should NOT present.

 

[fyxgel2]

Argh...no. That's pretty much the attitude you should NOT present.

well then i guess i cant use superdave's pickup strategy then, since it involves a little bit of dishonesty in order to be successful.

 

[ringperm]

Check out "double your dating" by david deangelo (sp)...you can find it on most file sharing programs. This is a good start.

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showpost.php?p=3870611&postcount=36

 

[-SD-]

well then i guess i cant use superdave's pickup strategy then, since it involves a little bit of dishonesty in order to be successful.

There is such a thing as Irrelevant Information that you are withholding when you are telling the girl you want to see a movie but someone bailed. Its irrelevant if the truth is not told in this situation and she wont be the wiser. Its simply a means to an end.