I failed you BBF

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Heres also a little trick, albeit a little riskier but it shifts the emphasis off of you and onto the situation:
Go to a mall with a movie theater and hang around the ticket counter and make a note of what time it is and match it with whatever movie is about to start, hopefully one halfway decent youd like to see. Find a girl and go up to her and say "I was meeting someone here and they had to bail on me for XYZ reason and I really hate seeing a movie alone, would you mind filling in?" Tell her she would get a free movie (matinee price, of course). If she agrees, then youve bought time during the movie to guage her interest and think about where you want to take her afterwards, probably the food court, say you were hungry after that movie or something. Boom, insta-date.
If she turns the offer down, go to the next girl, if you keep getting turned down with this tactic you are still gaining EXPERIENCE interacting with chicks.

 

[fyxgel2]

isnt telling her that you want to do something, without 'asking her' a little rude? its like you are trying to push it on her.

And also...
Don't you guys think its a little weird, like trying to get to know some RANDOM chick at the mall? Like shouldnt you meet your women, at your job, at your church, through some friends, or through some club, or activity or something?

Why do I feel so weird, approaching, talking to, and getting to know people that I meet just this one time out in some random place?
(I feel like I'm pushing something that wasnt meant to be, or something like that)

 

[Moderate_THIS]

But dont you guys think its a little weird, like trying to get to know some random chick at the mall?

yes, unless you're 16. Do the opposite of whatever you're doing now, and report back when you get herpes and FULL BLOWN AIDS

 

[BileStew]

Holy fuck, I feel like I'm watching a bad cartoon.

 

[-SD-]

isnt telling her that you want to do something, without 'asking her' a little rude? its like you are trying to push it on her.

But dont you guys think its a little weird, like trying to get to know some random chick at the mall? Like shouldnt you meet your women, at your job, at your church, through some friends, or through some club, or activity or something?

Why do I feel so weird, approaching, talking to, and getting to know people that I meet just this one time out in some random place?
(I feel like I'm pushing something that wasnt meant to be, or something like that)

Because you dont want to get out of your comfort zone and learn new things. Once you get a little crazy and do the things weve suggested, then when you are in your own element, like job, church, through friends, club, activity, then you will feel very comfortable dealing with women because of the UNcomfortable things you did that we suggested in order to jumpstart your learning.
Heres another analogy. If you bust your ass and do wind sprints for a few weeks, then next time you step on a treadmill to jog a few miles seems really easy since you went way out of your comfort zone with the wind sprints. Same thing with women.
Class dismissed.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Heres also a little trick, albeit a little riskier but it shifts the emphasis off of you and onto the situation:
Go to a mall with a movie theater and hang around the ticket counter and make a note of what time it is and match it with whatever movie is about to start, hopefully one halfway decent youd like to see. Find a girl and go up to her and say "I was meeting someone here and they had to bail on me for XYZ reason and I really hate seeing a movie alone, would you mind filling in?" Tell her she would get a free movie (matinee price, of course). If she agrees, then youve bought time during the movie to guage her interest and think about where you want to take her afterwards, probably the food court, say you were hungry after that movie or something. Boom, insta-date.
If she turns the offer down, go to the next girl, if you keep getting turned down with this tactic you are still gaining EXPERIENCE interacting with chicks.

Solid avice. Damn I wish I was 18 or 19. LoL

 

[fyxgel2]

Solid avice. Damn I wish I was 18 or 19. LoL

how old are you out of curiosity?

 

[Deleted member 33117]

how old are you out of curiosity?

Guess. Some of the peeps here know... so don't help him out.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Anywho dispite being old, I do nail an occasional 18 or 19 year old, btu usually my cut off is 21, I try to avoid girls younger than this.

 

[fyxgel2]

Guess. Some of the peeps here know... so don't help him out.

25? I have no idea. crap, i just hijacked my own thread. okay back to business, so... women are cool...