I failed you BBF

[fyxgel2]

Yesterday you challenged me to ask out 3 girls today...

And I went the whole day, without asking out one.
I dont feel comfortable at all doing it. I dunno, I get the feeling that I would rather talk to the girl a little bit, and get to know her (in more than just a small introduction) before asking her out. I would just feel a lot more comfortable if I did that. And I dont see how that can happen as quickly as in one day.

I suppose there may have been a few really awkward opportunities, but besides that there was no opportunity. And I wasnt really in the mood to make myself go to the mall, or go clubbing, to 'mack' on chicks.

 

[manny78]

Definitely for you:

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[Deleted member 33117]

Manny, yeah that book would be a good read for him. A friend of mine bought it and I skimmed it. Pretty basic info that most guys should know already, but some don't.

Fyxgel, what are we going to do with you young bro? Well you better get back on it tomarrow. Find ONE girl, she can be average looking who you can start a conversation with (don't go clubbing you are not ready for one of those meat markets yet) at the gym or the mall or something, then after talkign to her a few minutes tell her you would like to take her to a movie some time and would like to get her number. Don't ask her, tell her. Odds are you will get the "Oh I have a boyfriend" or "Well I am really busy right now" line, but don't sweat it. This is just for practice we aren't keeping score yet. But go in expecting a yes. Tell youself that she will say yes, because you are sexy and she is attracted to you. If she says no, don't worry no loss, she was just a girl you didn't even know.

You have your task.

 

[Moderate_THIS]

You have your task.

Draw him a map and make it like a treasure hunt. He'd probably follow through with that.

 

[awittyusername]

Bro, its ok to get to know a girl first. But, you are such a nice polite guy, you will be in the friend category in 5 min.

So, I would talk to a girl like a confident man. And, if the slightest opportunity opens to ask her to do something take it. It doesn't have to be an official date. ex If your talking to a girl and its going ok. Then, say "Lets get a quick cup of coffee" and start getting up to go. (assume she wants to go, don't ask) Don't think of it as a date think of "gettin to know her"

now you are getting both things you want. And, you don't have to worry about rejection.

 

[BileStew]

Draw him a map and make it like a treasure hunt. He'd probably follow through with that.

Make sure the map is like the maze in "The Shining".

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Bro, its ok to get to know a girl first. But, you are such a nice polite guy, you will be in the friend category in 5 min.

So, I would talk to a girl like a confident man. And, if the slightest opportunity opens to ask her to do something take it. It doesn't have to be an official date. ex If your talking to a girl and its going ok. Then, say "Lets get a quick cup of coffee" and start getting up to go. (assume she wants to go, don't ask) Don't think of it as a date think of "gettin to know her"

now you are getting both things you want. And, you don't have to worry about rejection.

Good plan, especially at the mall. If you get the boyfriend line, just go find another one. The mall is always full of single chicks. You can take her to whatever coffee shop is at your mall to talk to her and get to know her better, and as he said, don't ask her. Tell her.

 

[sigweed]

i think I speak for everyone when i say "no one saw that coming"

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Its ok that you failed today. My fuck buddy got sick, and I have others I can call, but don't feel like going through the trouble. I'll wait until tomarrow.

I better be careful here though... this chick might be trying to play a game to get me to like her. She is a great lay, and knows it sicne I fucked her so many times Friday. We agreed last night to fuck almost every day, but that we would cut down on partners since we both had a regular and would tell the otehr one if we fucked someone else between sessions. She might be pulling back now to make me want her, and to see what I will do. Going to play my cards very carefully. However, I will also give her the benefit of the doubt that she really did get sick today. She has been pretty straightforward and cool with me so far. Plus she went through great efforts to get my attention (she asked me out for a few drinks after we exchanged numbers, then bought ALL of my drinks friday night).

 

[awittyusername]

Good plan, especially at the mall. If you get the boyfriend line, just go find another one. The mall is always full of single chicks. You can take her to whatever coffee shop is at your mall to talk to her and get to know her better, and as he said, don't ask her. Tell her.

flxygel,

It looks like everyone is again giving you the same advice. Don't ask her if she want to do something. Tell her or assume she wants to go. The mall is a great place to get chicks when your 18-19. I wish I was your age everytime I goto the mall and see those young girls with their tight young bodies. I miss the way there young bodies smell.... Oh, sorry I got distracted.

Hey bro, do you have a good friend. (that won't cockblock you) I was lucky I had a great friend. It was easier to meet girls if you have a good friend, bc girls usually travel in packs. And, its more casual. The important thing to remember. It is always the ladies choice. So, never fight over a girl w/your friend. And, either of you should be willing to take the fat chick. (so your bro can score.)