I can't approach girls

[May1010]

Thick Dog -

I've seen your pix in the members section. You're very do-able.

 

[vixenbabe]

Maybe try doing the "comb over" to the other side?

How about tieing a bag of catnip around your neck?

Don't let him fool ya, TD's got more game then "Hef" does at the playboy mansion....at least he should....

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Thick....you just gotta go up and talk to them...period.

Being a single woman, my biggest complaint is I never get asked out by guys, unless on rare occasion they are very cocky and annoying. NEVER....its quite frustrating. I'd probably go out with any nice guy that approached me, or at the very least have a nice converstation with him. But this very rarely happens. Last 2 guys I dated was because one: I approached him, two: my old roomate told him I would go out with him if he asked me. Both told me they thought I had a boyfriend already, or would have said no if they approached me.

But if you never approach a girl, you'll never get the chance.

You can do it Thick

 

[needleboy]

Agent Shagwell,

Where in FL?? Tampa here.

Lots of my female friends say the same thing, that it seems like most guys are too timid to ask them out, and the ones that do are usually so full of themselves it's stupid.

Anything worth having is worth taking a risk for.

 

[Hannibal]

TD look at it this way. You were alone before you walked up to her so if you walk away alone...what have you lost. And the only way that she can take your self confidence away is if you let her. If on the off chance that you get shot down a few times...you will realize that its no big deal. It will get easier to approach them. Unfortunately sometimes this is easier said than done...but your really don't have anything to lose.

 

[Thick dog]

I agree with all of you, I really have nothing to lose. And it is a hell of a lot easier said than done. Out of the 4 girls I have approached in the passed 10 years, 2 have become girlfreinds, so I have a decent batting average. On a sad note, I can't count the number of times I have struck out with girls that have approached me...

 

[needleboy]

How old are you bro??

 

[Thick dog]

I'm 26

 

[LeviathanX]

Do you guys ever find that you start drifting off when you are talking to a girl? I know, it's terrible. I don't know why it happens, I try to be really interested. They never notice, but sometimes they want to talk about themselves TOO much. I really don't care what sports they played in elementary school in the first hour that I meet them. I sit there and smile, and go "yeah", "ahuh", "that's cool", etc., but by the end of the night I've forgotten more than half of what they've told me.

I don't want to be rude and just leave, so I wind up sitting there the whole time trying to stay awake.

NOTE: this isn't with every girl (some girls are actually interesting and can have deep conversation), but with the majority of girls met at clubs or bars this is how it always pans out.

 

[needleboy]

Try dating women a few years older- in their thirties. You'll find they are usually much easier to get along with, and generally easier to approach.

An added bonus is that they are hitting their sexual prime, and are better in tune with their bodies and sexuality.

Also there are more single women in their 30's, then there are men. Plus they are so much better to talk to in my humble opinion!!

I love women 30+ have a special place for women mid-40's who are in good shape!! Dated one of my college professors, man was she hot!!

BTW- I am 32