I can feel you stroking my hair now....

[big4life]

Sometimes when you have been hurt, it is so hard to let another person get close to you again. It is even harder for men to admit what is in our past that haunts us. It is not e reflection on the people around us, it is only a reflection of our own insecurities.


There are certain things that we want to bury and forget, even though that may not be what's best for us or our situation. We think that whatever is bothering us is so bad or unsettling that it will change the way somebody we care about will view us. So we keep it inside and don't really deal with it.

Hopefully your friend will realize that you are going to be there for him, no matter what. It just takes a while to open your eyes and realize that you have somebody special enough to trust in your life.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You are right Big4life. And he has been hurt very badly... I would even say that the words "total devastation" apply in his situation. To be honest, sometimes I find it difficult to fathom that he would EVER give ANY woman the time of day after the way that he has been hurt....

I know that somehow, someway, someday we will be together.... I saw it in a dream. He knows it too, because I KNOW he shares this dream.

I am trying to be patient... I am.

I just wish that he would let me in and help him ease his pain. I would gladly take all of it on myself, it he would only let me.

 

[Kahn]

...As you wish, Darlin' ......As you wish.

Oh Lord, the thought of hearing that from you.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Heheheheheheheee silly!

Sorry, only ONE MAN will EVER hear those words come from my lips.... and perhaps one other, but many years will pass before the second one becomes a man. If I am very lucky then I will have the extreme pleasure of watching this little boy grow into a man as I will most likely NEVER have a son of my own.

 

[MrMuscle]

Metallica- Fade to black , My Depression song,

YES..mine too