if she doesn't call, go see her....be calm, cool, collected, take control by saying "i'll meet you tonight at XXXX for drinks at 8:00 so we can get to know each other more".
Frackal since you know where she works and you know who she is send her some flowers to work with a card on which you set a date, time, place for a nice date. Someplace in the next town over preferable. You see your just as taboo for her as she is to you so if you do the on the sly thing it might work. Might not too. But its worth a shot.