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I am getting touchy for this girl

plornive

plornive

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For over a year I've been keeping 2-3 girlfriends plus a few extras. Right now I have 2 girls who think I am their exclusive boyfriend plus a few stragglers. I shag all of them.

I am starting to feel soft for one of the 2 main girls. No, my dick is not getting soft my heart is getting soft. She doesn't play any games and is very serious about me. I must admit that I am really feeling it. It feels amazing to be with her, have sex with her, kiss her.

I know it's going to fuck up my life. Already, I can't stand to look at the faces of the other girls. Ever have that feeling of total disinterest in a girl with an awesome body and a willing mind with no self-respect? I was with the girl I am touchy for and the other main girl called. I hit "no" while it was still in my pocket, pretending to miss the call. She took the phone like she was going to look at the last call received. I took it back and called voice mail as an excuse. I used to never worry if they found out there were others. Now I am tense as fuck about her finding out.

Someone tell me I am just stressed and will stop caring after my current projects are over. Just tell me to try to fuck up her mind so I lose respect for her and forget about her. Tell me I am just stressed and will stop feeling it after my current projects are over... and that she will be a bitch if I am too nice to her.
 
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Thats no way to live bro. If you dont get exclusive with only the girl you are soft for, then eventually she will find out and you will lose her.
 
velvett said:
And people wonder why girls are so screwed in the head.......
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You always leave one-liners of supposed self-evident validity early after I start a thread.

I have no problem with it --- just pointing it out. Carry on.
 
women do it just as much as guys do. it's not a gender thing, but rather a people thing.

plornive, man, that is straight up shitty. don't know what to tell you other than, "watch out when karma come knockin."
 
superdave said:
Thats no way to live bro. If you dont get exclusive with only the girl you are soft for, then eventually she will find out and you will lose her.
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I have a friend who got caught, went on a little trip, and when he came back shagged his gf and his infidelity was effectually forgotten. I must admit the girl I am soft for probably would be scarred for life if she found out.

I will feel like a tool if I stop seeing other girls, but I don't want to lose this one. So I have a dillema.
 
plornive said:
You always leave one-liners of supposed self-evident validity early after I start a thread.

I have no problem with it --- just pointing it out. Carry on.
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Do I?

(no sarcasm)

I'm sorry. No really I mean it.
I just have heart break college flash backs when I read stuff like this.

Listen to Superdave.
 
velvett said:


Do I?

(no sarcasm)

I'm sorry. No really I mean it.
I just have heart break college flash backs when I read stuff like this.

Listen to Superdave.
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Ok I think I understand your basic opinion and it's understandable.
 
my point is, if you like her then date her exclusively. I've dated multiple girls at the same time and thought i was the shit because I was banging them all. But in reality I didn't feel any better about myself and still had the same self esteem issues everyone else has. I was letting my friends live vicariously through me. fuck that. it takes more balls to be upfront with someone you like than to bang everything that walks. although banging everything that walks does have some perks.
 
plornive said:
For over a year I've been keeping 2-3 girlfriends plus a few extras. Right now I have 2 girls who think I am their exclusive boyfriend plus a few stragglers. I shag all of them.
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you sound like a classy gentleman. it's one thing if you are just starting to see somebody but come on, over a year.
 
You need to date one exclusively or at least let them know that they are not the only one you are seeing. No matter how clever you think you are, people always find out, sooner or later.

How would you feel if you found out that she was seeing other guys behind your back?
 
vinylgroover said:
Plornive - The choice for your second sig line suggests you realise you have a problem.
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Partially yes, partially the opposite. People who hate my actions usually can't articulate their points because they don't understand their points deeply. However, I admit that it is actually a problem to know one's options but not really know what one wants.

The Nature Boy said:
although banging everything that walks does have some perks.
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I like this line. Your point that it feels better to be with one exclusively is taken. Although, I think there is some value in having banged many girls at the same time --- just for the knowledge and experience. I don't think I've reached ninja status --- not even close. So I am thinking (and fucking) hard.

fistfullofsteel said:
you sound like a classy gentleman. it's one thing if you are just starting to see somebody but come on, over a year.
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No I generally break up with someone after 3-4 months.
 
plornive said:
I must admit that I am really feeling it. It feels amazing to be with her, have sex with her, kiss her.
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Eventually the quality of some feelings are worth over the quantity. I don't have problems with the "morals" of screwing around several girls at the time, usually i don't make them believe they are my girlfriends (but i don't mention any others), beeing honest works well,even if they agree it is what it is, they wait something else after. It is good to screw left and right.
This is really terrible but i have to admit that when there is some real feeling sex is other story.
 
fistfullofsteel said:
i see you are a stable person in a relationship. it's entirely their fault and not yours, right?
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I guess it is my fault because it is my intent and my doing. Thank you for confirming that.
 
Just be honest with them.


Why is that so hard for people to understand?:confused:


It will save a lot of trouble and pain on down the road.
 
Plornive

I can tell you this much from personal experience. I'm 29 and single. I had the opportunity a couple of times to develop relationships with great girls, but didn't take them because i loved my freedom too much and like you was too restless.

I'm starting to wonder now whether i should have acted on those opportunities. I will say that in the last 10 years that i've been going out and partying hard and socialising, i could count the number of good people (let alone women) i've met on one hand. Point being, if you find a good woman who has the qualities you may be looking for in a partner, don't mess it up if that's indeed what you want.

Good people who are right for you are out there, but they are hard to find....don't let them go when you do find them.
 
Youre problem is that you dont have the self esteem to stay with just one girl. I used to be that way, the Sheik with the Harem, one girl is easily replaced and all are there for the reason of holding up that wall around yourself that you wont let anyone into for fear of getting shit on. You constantly screw around with multiple women instead of taking a chance with just one that will matter. You may lose her, she may lose you, but in the end you will never know what you could have unless you have the guts to do it. In the end its all just fear of getting shit on, period.
 
big4life said:
Just be honest with them.


Why is that so hard for people to understand?:confused:


It will save a lot of trouble and pain on down the road.
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I was not honest with this one because I doubted she would be ok with it and I was there was no commitment in the beginning. Maybe if I was honest with her she would have broken if off and I wouldn't be in this situation. Now I think it would really hurt her severely so I better not get caught. And now I care about her. Basically I need to make some kind of decision. Being honest with her is not an option at this point, though.
 
superdave said:
Youre problem is that you dont have the self esteem to stay with just one girl. I used to be that way, the Sheik with the Harem, one girl is easily replaced and all are there for the reason of holding up that wall around yourself that you wont let anyone into for fear of getting shit on. You constantly screw around with multiple women instead of taking a chance with just one that will matter. You may lose her, she may lose you, but in the end you will never know what you could have unless you have the guts to do it. In the end its all just fear of getting shit on, period.
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Maybe, since I have tried the one-on-one thing and got shit on. But I also think shagging many girls has other good points. Either way I am confused about what to do now.
 
which one is this, the waitress or the girl that gave you the inscribed pendant? i hope its the former, she is probably more mature & intellectually independent.

love is just a drug in the end. All the bullshit people throw to glamorize it but in the end it is just a shor term addictive euphoria caused by PPA, dopamine, serotonin, etc.

i don't know what you can do about this. this feeling will probably die out in a few months if you play your cards right. you can always go back to being a playboy type after the addictiveness of love wears off.
 
nordstrom said:
which one is this, the waitress or the girl that gave you the inscribed pendant? i hope its the former, she is probably more mature & intellectually independent.

love is just a drug in the end. All the bullshit people throw to glamorize it but in the end it is just a shor term addictive euphoria caused by PPA, dopamine, serotonin, etc.

i don't know what you can do about this. this feeling will probably die out in a few months if you play your cards right.
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Thank you for your objective words. No, it is another girl --- she is not screwed up. The pendant girl is the other current main girlfriend. You heard about her before. I now have several little pendants and handmade gifts from her that I need to hide all the time and bring out when she visits.
 
Leave her... any woman who can do that to you can only cause a pain that is 100x the opposite feeling.

Don't fool yourself into thinking something is there, when it isn't. Right now, you are fooling yourself.

Keep strong, and represent.

C-ditty
 
plornive said:
I guess it is my fault because it is my intent and my doing. Thank you for confirming that.
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ok, then is it your intent to be truthful with all of them, or are you going to keep on being deceitful? being deceitful is ok, right? i hope all those chicks are seeing other guys too on the side, in fact i hope they are seeing several other guys on the side so this way it evens out the playing field.
 
fistfullofsteel said:



ok, then is it your intent to be truthful with all of them, or are you going to keep on being deceitful? being deceitful is ok, right? i hope all those chicks are seeing other guys too on the side, in fact i hope they are seeing several other guys on the side so this way it evens out the playing field.
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Ok shut up :)
 
plornive said:
For over a year I've been keeping 2-3 girlfriends plus a few extras. Right now I have 2 girls who think I am their exclusive boyfriend plus a few stragglers. I shag all of them.
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That hurts me to read...badly.

B True
 
nordstrom said:
which one is this, the waitress or the girl that gave you the inscribed pendant? i hope its the former, she is probably more mature & intellectually independent.

love is just a drug in the end. All the bullshit people throw to glamorize it but in the end it is just a shor term addictive euphoria caused by PPA, dopamine, serotonin, etc.

i don't know what you can do about this. this feeling will probably die out in a few months if you play your cards right. you can always go back to being a playboy type after the addictiveness of love wears off.
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I forgot to mention that the pendant girl made some very good nude pics of herself for me for my birthday. She does anything and everything for me. She drank my sperm twice on the evening of my birthday, and twice in the morning. It seems strange that I don't even like looking at her face (a very cute and pretty face actually). She is like an ancient Egyptian servant. And no I will not post her naked pics.
 
plornive said:
I forgot to mention that the pendant girl made some very good nude pics of herself for me for my birthday. She does anything and everything for me. She drank my sperm twice on the evening of my birthday, and twice in the morning. It seems strange that I don't even like looking at her face (a very cute and pretty face actually). She is like an ancient Egyptian servant. And no I will not post her naked pics.
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fun life. Teach me.
 
superdave said:
Youre problem is that you dont have the self esteem to stay with just one girl. I used to be that way, the Sheik with the Harem, one girl is easily replaced and all are there for the reason of holding up that wall around yourself that you wont let anyone into for fear of getting shit on. You constantly screw around with multiple women instead of taking a chance with just one that will matter. You may lose her, she may lose you, but in the end you will never know what you could have unless you have the guts to do it. In the end its all just fear of getting shit on, period.
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You hit the nail on the head. I can relate, except maybe for that first comment. I have LOTS of self esteem, always take a girl out and show her a great time and take her to do LOTS of stuff, have tons of confidence, etc., but I just don't have faith in other people.

Plornive, I have a similar story. Some others have already read it in another thread but I will post it here for you to read:

I was seeing 2 different girs, and this went on for 7 months. One was a girl I was just fucking on the side, because I didn't like her near as much. But the other girl I really liked a lot, loved spending time with her, etc. All those feelings you mentioned. Well, we broke up last month, just out of the blue, and we were just starting to get more serious. I had just met her parents, was spending lots of time around her and her friends, etc. So it was very unexpected. I was also getting ready to dump the other girl I didn't like as much, but was very glad I didn't because then I would have lost both at the same time. :(

I wanted very much to just see the one girl I liked better, but I couldn't because I have been shit on too much in my life and I am not going to stand it anymore, and although it sounds selfish, I am looking out for #1 from now on, since that is what everyone else is doing. I'm not worse than anyone else (except for maybe a select few), but merely fitting in with most everyone else. I will probably do this until I get married and have a family. You get shit on too much doing things the other way. I have dated quite a few girls, and almost (I said ALMOST, now) all of them turned out to be worthless. It has, unfortuantely, rubbed off on me. I have adapted to my surroundings. :(
 
Norman Bates said:


So you are saying that girls are actually screwed in the head?
And does that include you? :angel:
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Well, I was.

I was completely clueless and mislead from19 to 26/27. Learned a lot along the way about people and finally about myself.

That's why I'm no longer a girl, I'm a woman.

:D


There's a difference darlin'.
 
ATTENTION WOMEN: ALL MEN DO NOT VIEW WOMEN AS "CURRENT PROJECTS". ONLY THIS GUY.

I FIND SOME OF THIS HARD TO BELIEVE TO BE QUITE HONEST.




KAYNE
 
KAYNE said:
ATTENTION WOMEN: ALL MEN DO NOT VIEW WOMEN AS "CURRENT PROJECTS". ONLY THIS GUY.

I FIND SOME OF THIS HARD TO BELIEVE TO BE QUITE HONEST.




KAYNE
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It's all about identifying the right kind of messed up females and their underlying pathologies, and exploiting them. Talk to them and rub yourself into them emotionally. Try to be a part of their pathologies. For instance, if a girl always becomes 2nd in priority to her boyfriend's main girlfriend, be that boyfriend. Sexual tendencies encompass all areas of peoples' lives. S&M is much much more than a sexual tendency. Identifying pathologies and understanding how each individual girl works is key. Finding several girls is really not that much harder than taking the steps to find one --- it is just more time consuming and perhaps requires a bit more emotional apathy. With several girls, you will be cold and smooth with all of them and get more and more practice at getting what you want out of each type of girl. And, if you become attached to any one girl in more than a superficial way, you have lost the game. I know this because I can't look at the other girls and my game is screwed up with the one.
 
plornive said:
It's all about identifying the right kind of messed up females and their underlying pathologies, and exploiting them. Talk to them and rub yourself into them emotionally. Try to be a part of their pathologies. For instance, if a girl always becomes 2nd in priority to her boyfriend's main girlfriend, be that boyfriend. Sexual tendencies encompass all areas of peoples' lives. S&M is much much more than a sexual tendency. Identifying pathologies and understanding how each individual girl works is key. Finding several girls is really not that much harder than taking the steps to find one --- it is just more time consuming and perhaps requires a bit more emotional apathy. With several girls, you will be cold and smooth with all of them and get more and more practice at getting what you want out of each type of girl. And, if you become attached to any one girl in more than a superficial way, you have lost the game. I know this because I can't look at the other girls and my game is screwed up with the one.
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You wont get away with this stuff with women, you are still dealing with immature girls. You will also grow up and realize this all one day.
 
plornive said:
And, if you become attached to any one girl in more than a superficial way, you have lost the game. I know this because I can't look at the other girls and my game is screwed up with the one.
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As long as you consider it a GAME, you will have fun playing. When your soul gets involved, it's no longer a game, it's love. Love hurts at times, but most of the time it does not. Don't be afraid to love. Life is full of risks and adventure...finding yourself in a caring relationship is one of the most rewarding things that will happen in your lifetime...savor each moment. If you get hurt, accept that it's just part of life...learn from it, grow stronger and move on from there.
 
Plornive I sincerely hope you fall head over heals for this girl and then she leaves you in the dirt.
 
The Nature Boy said:
I've dated multiple girls at the same time and thought i was the shit because I was banging them all.
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I just wanted to point out that you accidentally wrote "girls" when obviously you meant to write "boys".
 
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