straighten out some coat hangers and tape them together and put some salt on them. this is called a "bitch whip". just show it to her, and you'll get your answer. if not, backs of the legs.
Be careful what you let girlfriends know. I split with mine for about 9 months and she told my MOMMY about the gear. Mother fucker was that an akward moment. I lied my ass off. Told her I was take prohormones that are now considered steroids. She said the old lady had told her she was injecting me with them. I told my mom she was pissed and was trying to fuck with me. I think the lies worked. She hasn't brought it up again.