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Hypothetical situation not as scandalous as KB's

superqt4u2nv

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So say your dating this girl she is Super Cute. Anyway 3 dates and things are all sunshine and roses. Work gets really busy for you and you have to put in a ton of hours. Cool chic that she is she understands and give you space.

Saturday night text her: "hey babe want to see me tomorrow.
Her reply: "sure"
Sunday no call no text from dude.
Monday morning text from dude "Hey baby sorry I slept most of the day."
Her reply around noonish "that is what i figured."

As the dude what are you thinking to her reply and why haven't you text her back when normally even when busy you text her to 3-4 time in a day.
 
he likes playing games
 
superqt4u2nv said:
So say your dating this girl she is Super Cute. Anyway 3 dates and things are all sunshine and roses. Work gets really busy for you and you have to put in a ton of hours. Cool chic that she is she understands and give you space.

Saturday night text her: "hey babe want to see me tomorrow.
Her reply: "sure"
Sunday no call no text from dude.
Monday morning text from dude "Hey baby sorry I slept most of the day."
Her reply around noonish "that is what i figured."

As the dude what are you thinking to her reply and why haven't you text her back when normally even when busy you text her to 3-4 time in a day.
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either:

a) I got this dumb bitch in the bag, nigga!!!

b) I'm waaaay to fucking busy to deal with this shit

c) I'm giving this girl way too much attention, and since she is easier to read than a fucking billboard and it's RAGINGLY obvious she absolutely needs attention to fill that void, I'll just pull back a little and show her what the deal is. let the pwnage begin
 
KillahBee said:
either:

a) I got this dumb bitch in the bag, nigga!!!

b) I'm waaaay to fucking busy to deal with this shit

c) I'm giving this girl way too much attention, and since she is easier to read than a fucking billboard and it's RAGINGLY obvious she absolutely needs attention to fill that void, I'll just pull back a little and show her what the deal is. let the pwnage begin
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like i said, hes playing games
 
he probably was having sex with that girls sister which is why he didnt pick up.

thats what i would do at least

who is the girl?
 
superqt4u2nv said:
So say your dating this girl she is Super Cute. Anyway 3 dates and things are all sunshine and roses. Work gets really busy for you and you have to put in a ton of hours. Cool chic that she is she understands and give you space.

Saturday night text her: "hey babe want to see me tomorrow.
Her reply: "sure"
Sunday no call no text from dude.
Monday morning text from dude "Hey baby sorry I slept most of the day."
Her reply around noonish "that is what i figured."

As the dude what are you thinking to her reply and why haven't you text her back when normally even when busy you text her to 3-4 time in a day.
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Dude has at least one other girl and he's either 1) trying to play both at the same time or 2) waiting to see which of the girls "pans-out" and he'll then drop the others.
 
If shes never read the book...."He's Just Not That Into You"....she should read it...great read

I bet she deserves better than some guy who askes her to do something and doesn't follow through.
 
Maybe the dude was just tired. I've laid down for naps and woke up to the sun being down, not knowing what day it is and 7 or 8 messages on my voice mail...all asking the same thing "Where the hell are/were you?"

And no...this had nothing to do with drugs or alcohol...I just work alot.
 
also, to really judge his interest, she should suggest they go out for another date (she should have a specific suggestion) and see how he reacts to that and if he follows through. basically he needs a kick in the crotch.
 
people who are assuming he is banging someone else are going too far. of course it's a possibility, but there is no evidence to support this. I was in this situation recently with a new chick I was dating and things were happening fast. eventually I found myself really into this broad and in unfamiliar territory - I just tossed attention at her cause I wanted to see her all the time. eventually, and even though I did not want to do this, I had to cut back a bit and play those games.

it's a part of the reality. deep down, she would like me even more if I fucked with her head a bit. it's an empirical truth.
 
he was still tuckered out from banging some girl the night before.
 
KillahBee said:
people who are assuming he is banging someone else are going too far. of course it's a possibility, but there is no evidence to support this. I was in this situation recently with a new chick I was dating and things were happening fast. eventually I found myself really into this broad and in unfamiliar territory - I just tossed attention at her cause I wanted to see her all the time. eventually, and even though I did not want to do this, I had to cut back a bit and play those games.

it's a part of the reality. deep down, she would like me even more if I fucked with her head a bit. it's an empirical truth.
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Mother fucker I think is the closest to the truth. Fuck I hate when Killah is right :worried:
 
Isn't the 3rd date a little to soon to start having these questions?

I could be wrong. Its been almost 3 years since I've been on "a date". So, I could be wrong.
 
nycgirl said:
Isn't the 3rd date a little to soon to start having these questions?

I could be wrong. Its been almost 3 years since I've been on "a date". So, I could be wrong.
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How is that possible? Didn't you date you're current bf?

I am not looking for him to say yeah we are exclusive cause that would be kind jumping the gun. Just trying to figure out where his head is at so I can make my next move.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
How is that possible? Didn't you date you're current bf?

I am not looking for him to say yeah we are exclusive cause that would be kind jumping the gun. Just trying to figure out where his head is at so I can make my next move.
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Yes & No.

I thought you were questioning exclusivity. How long are you willing to wait? What if he is dating others? If so, then what?
 
nycgirl said:
Yes & No.

I thought you were questioning exclusivity. How long are you willing to wait? What if he is dating others? If so, then what?
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If he is dating other I go on dating other. I haven't really but I could if I wanted to. He kinda sweeped me off my feet was very attentave the first while. Then blam wtf? Eh exclusve marker comes between 6-8 weeks in my book and he and I got 3 so far so he has time.
 
jack_schitt said:
Maybe the dude was just tired. I've laid down for naps and woke up to the sun being down, not knowing what day it is and 7 or 8 messages on my voice mail...all asking the same thing "Where the hell are/were you?"

And no...this had nothing to do with drugs or alcohol...I just work alot.
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not after 3 dates
yeah in the very beginning you might be unsure and decide other activities are more pressing
such as sleeping late
myself if after 1-2 dates I like a girl, she receives priority in my schedule
bear in mind I don't date much
 
Here's a better question.

Why do people post stupid questions on this board about relationships? Why don't they just ask the other person how they feel OR tell the other person how they feel? Why do people care what a bunch of Interweb fat slob (typing away on a computer professing their e-game) think?

Or, he's gay.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
If he is dating other I go on dating other. I haven't really but I could if I wanted to. He kinda sweeped me off my feet was very attentave the first while. Then blam wtf? Eh exclusve marker comes between 6-8 weeks in my book and he and I got 3 so far so he has time.
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Ahhh, the "wtf". Is he pulling away? Is he seeing someone else? Been there, twice. First time I didn't question it (I later found out why. Wasn't me at all. The other chick he was seeing had a bf and he was calling him. So, he wanted to be careful. LOL). The second time I freaked and pulled back even farther (big mistake).

I would go out on another date. Ask him if he's dating other people (not while on the date. lol).
 
EnderJE said:
Here's a better question.

Why do people post stupid questions on this board about relationships? Why don't they just ask the other person how they feel OR tell the other person how they feel? Why do people care what a bunch of Interweb fat slob (typing away on a computer professing their e-game) think?

Or, he's gay.
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hey!
 
EnderJE said:
Here's a better question.

Why do people post stupid questions on this board about relationships? Why don't they just ask the other person how they feel OR tell the other person how they feel? Why do people care what a bunch of Interweb fat slob (typing away on a computer professing their e-game) think?

Or, he's gay.
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You are not plat :evil:

Also you remind me of the quote I got to get done for John B.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
You are not plat :evil:

Also you remind me of the quote I got to get done for John B.
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lmao @ the work comment

Nope. Bring it. Let me help you.

So, how many guys have your turned ghey? I mean besides this one.
 
EnderJE said:
lmao @ the work comment

Nope. Bring it. Let me help you.

So, how many guys have your turned ghey? I mean besides this one.
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turn gehy?
I'm confident she could quite well turn this sad guy happy
and I have no dates
 
4everhung said:
turn gehy?
I'm confident she could quite well turn this sad guy happy
and I have no dates
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Dude, you really want to "get it on...bang a gong", eh?

Damned Power Station....
 
EnderJE said:
Dude, you really want to "get it on...bang a gong", eh?

Damned Power Station....
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not really motivated as such
what I mentioned is painfully true
the irony being I love women,and thus I'm mostly alone
but I'm older
 
4everhung said:
not really motivated as such
what I mentioned is painfully true
the irony being I love women,and thus I'm mostly alone
but I'm older
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Even Grandpappy needs some loving...
 
the important idea to focus on is that he didnt feel the need to get in touch when he said he would. this might be because:

1) girl is supplicative in relationship (ie 'in the bag' KB style) and is secondary to his desires
2) he is socially clueless/selfish and doesnt have a gaming agenda

if its number 2...be aware you may have a social defective/unwantable on your hands. consider dumping him.

if its number 1...lol...youd better get on top of that shit asap before you get squished by a giant thumb

also, tell 'girl' i said hello ;)
 
jack_schitt said:
Maybe the dude was just tired. I've laid down for naps and woke up to the sun being down, not knowing what day it is and 7 or 8 messages on my voice mail...all asking the same thing "Where the hell are/were you?"

And no...this had nothing to do with drugs or alcohol...I just work alot.
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yeah you sucked as a boyfriend
 
People do not act rationally. this has been proven 10000000 times, stop looking for a ratinal explanation for irrational people.

People do what they want. before they do what they want, they decide what they wantand then they invent a reason for doing it.

He did not want to see "her" that day. If he did, he would have.

Your lives will get easier when you banish the question WHY from understanding people's actions.
 
QT relax and see what he says, there`s no reason to jump to any conclusions just yet....You`ll know if he`s into you or just playing games...When women start to question things, guys get a little weird, so chill and leave the ball in his court..
 
Tytan said:
QT relax and see what he says, there`s no reason to jump to any conclusions just yet....You`ll know if he`s into you or just playing games...When women start to question things, guys get a little weird, so chill and leave the ball in his court..
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werd!
 
give it 3-4 more days, if he hasn't contacted you, fuck that dude, no excuses, just ditch him.

If he does contact you, then its all good, get back to the good fucking.
 
There is no "game" playing here. The guy was busy. But he should have called or texted her to let her know that he wouldn't be able to make it. Ease up people.
 
starfish said:
If shes never read the book...."He's Just Not That Into You"....she should read it...great read

I bet she deserves better than some guy who askes her to do something and doesn't follow through.
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If your in a relationship i could maybe see "the 5 love languages"... .. .. but by all means.. .. .. stay away from that damn book... "he's just not that in to you.. " ill strangle that author one day for costing me tail!! Its an unfounded book completely w/o merrit!!
 
subluxfxr said:
If your in a relationship i could maybe see "the 5 love languages"... .. .. but by all means.. .. .. stay away from that damn book... "he's just not that in to you.. " ill strangle that author one day for costing me tail!! Its an unfounded book completely w/o merrit!!
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LOL I am not into relationship books so no worries. Besides If he is not that into me he must be fucking nuts. So NEXT ;)
 
subluxfxr said:
If your in a relationship i could maybe see "the 5 love languages"... .. .. but by all means.. .. .. stay away from that damn book... "he's just not that in to you.. " ill strangle that author one day for costing me tail!! Its an unfounded book completely w/o merrit!!
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Is it as bad as "The Rules"?? I never read either one of those books. :lmao:
 
fbodyguy02 said:
So the guys is busy one day and stands you up...and you just drop him like that? damn women are brutal.
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lol he said he was sleeping all day
 
fbodyguy02 said:
So the guys is busy one day and stands you up...and you just drop him like that? damn women are brutal.
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Only EF women sugar... Its from hearing all the horror stories around this place. LOL
 
superqt4u2nv said:
So say your dating this girl she is Super Cute. Anyway 3 dates and things are all sunshine and roses. Work gets really busy for you and you have to put in a ton of hours. Cool chic that she is she understands and give you space.

Saturday night text her: "hey babe want to see me tomorrow.
Her reply: "sure"
Sunday no call no text from dude.
Monday morning text from dude "Hey baby sorry I slept most of the day."
Her reply around noonish "that is what i figured."

As the dude what are you thinking to her reply and why haven't you text her back when normally even when busy you text her to 3-4 time in a day.
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He's cheating on you.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
So say your dating this girl she is Super Cute. Anyway 3 dates and things are all sunshine and roses. Work gets really busy for you and you have to put in a ton of hours. Cool chic that she is she understands and give you space.

Saturday night text her: "hey babe want to see me tomorrow.
Her reply: "sure"
Sunday no call no text from dude.
Monday morning text from dude "Hey baby sorry I slept most of the day."
Her reply around noonish "that is what i figured."

As the dude what are you thinking to her reply and why haven't you text her back when normally even when busy you text her to 3-4 time in a day.
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Honest answer, "He's not that into you" and cheating on you.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Saturday night text her: "hey babe want to see me tomorrow.
Her reply: "sure"
Sunday no call no text from dude.
Monday morning text from dude "Hey baby sorry I slept most of the day."
Her reply around noonish "that is what i figured."

As the dude what are you thinking to her reply and why haven't you text her back when normally even when busy you text her to 3-4 time in a day.
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If I was said dude, I'd figure she was pissed (at least I could've called), and I would make sure she knew I wasn't playin games. TM, phone, dinner, flowers, whatever.
As for him not TMing her back, he's either really fuggin busy, or he's lost interest in her, looking for distance.
 
KillahBee said:
people who are assuming he is banging someone else are going too far. of course it's a possibility, but there is no evidence to support this. I was in this situation recently with a new chick I was dating and things were happening fast. eventually I found myself really into this broad and in unfamiliar territory - I just tossed attention at her cause I wanted to see her all the time. eventually, and even though I did not want to do this, I had to cut back a bit and play those games.

it's a part of the reality. deep down, she would like me even more if I fucked with her head a bit. it's an empirical truth.
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Man, if I had to date again, I'd be fucked. I'm so lousy at head games, politics, etc.
 
fbodyguy02 said:
So the guys is busy one day and stands you up...and you just drop him like that? damn women are brutal.
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In this day of newfangled things like T.M.'s, or even phones, it should have been easy to deal with.
Unless he was maybe sleeping.
 
if there is this much distrust at the beginning of this "relationship" then its not gonna work itself out.

cut your losses and move on.
 
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