Hypothetical broad/dood situation

[KillahBee]

 

[alien amp pharm]

Agreed on all parts but the marriage part. There is a BIG difference between cheating on a chick when you are 21 and cheating on a marriage. But yes, I am due and I fully understand that. I would kind of welcome it - I don't recall what it feels like to be heart broken.

Fair enough.

It just stikes a nerve with me about cheating.

Not acting holier than thou, but I have never cheated and it's always been something I've hated about people.

I have a friend who is married to a good looking, willing to do anything to please, wife and has a 1 year old girl.
Every chance he gets he cheats on her.
People like that don't derserve to be in a marriage. At least not a happy one.

I understand your cheating while young....I did a lot of stupid things when I was young I regret now. (and no I don't hope you get cheated on. )

 

[KillahBee]

Fair enough.

It just stikes a nerve with me about cheating.

Not acting holier than thou, but I have never cheated and it's always been something I've hated about people.

I have a friend who is married to a good looking, willing to do anything to please, wife and has a 1 year old girl.
Every chance he gets he cheats on her.
People like that don't derserve to be in a marriage. At least not a happy one.

I understand your cheating while young....I did a lot of stupid things when I was young I regret now. (and no I don't hope you get cheated on. )

I hear ya. It's not something I'm necessarily proud of, but not something I'm ashamed of either. I don't really believe monogamous relationships are natural or even healthy, but that still doesn't mean it's alright to disresepct someone you are with.

 

[Dunk]

is she worth it?

 

[KillahBee]

is she worth it?

Hypothetical. Was talking to a friend about it this weekend and it got me thinking, probably cause I have always been a cheater.

And most of the time, no, she isn't.

 

[gonelifting]

I have a friend who is married to a good looking, willing to do anything to please, wife and has a 1 year old girl.
Every chance he gets he cheats on her.
)

Listen asshole, don't call me your friend anymore!

 

[Frisky]

Cheaters never change..

If im just dating I make it CLEAR that its just dating. If its a serious relationship (like I actually let him meet my kids, my family) cheating is out of the question.

No reason to cheat, just move on IMO.

 

[nycgirl]

I would not be able to trust someone that approached me and was married or in a relationship. Am I saying once a cheater, always a cheater? No. But, it wouldn't be a healthy (mentally) situation for me.

 

[stilleto]

I think it depends.
a person who is a cheater- say kb who admits to always cheating in the past- is that the same as someone who has been faithful their whole life, and then got pushed away in a relationship at a time when someone great came along?

people make mistakes, learn, grow. its different from being a leapard with permanent spots i think.

 

[gonelifting]

I think it depends.
a person who is a cheater- say kb who admits to always cheating in the past- is that the same as someone who has been faithful their whole life, and then got pushed away in a relationship at a time when someone great came along?

people make mistakes, learn, grow. its different from being a leapard with permanent spots i think.

I agree with the meathead.^^^ People CAN change. It's not really changing, but growing up as KB stated he did. He's saying flat out that he's cheated all his young life. Do we believe him? YES. Then he says he does'nt cheat anymore because he grew up and values it since he's matured. I can believe that too. People smoke all their life and stop, people can do anything with the proper growth and maturing, experience, wisdom.. Do it.