Hypothetical broad/dood situation

[EnderJE]

simple. yet true

No. It also means that you'll never really receive any kind of love either.

 

[nycgirl]

No. It also means that you'll never really receive any kind of love either.

Yep. Is having that attitude worth it?

 

[EnderJE]

Yep. Is having that attitude worth it?

I didn't say it was mine. I'm the guy who used to having his heart broken. But for those who do, I offer the following:

 

[Mavafanculo]

I think it depends.
a person who is a cheater- say kb who admits to always cheating in the past- is that the same as someone who has been faithful their whole life, and then got pushed away in a relationship at a time when someone great came along?

people make mistakes, learn, grow. its different from being a leapard with permanent spots i think.

No its not the same. If someone's SO has already basically ended the relationship in substance if not in form, then he/she probably doesnt care other than ego-wise that the other person is stepping out. There's no betrayal, there's no devastated feelings. I'm talking about where 1 person is happy as a clam in a relationship and thinks everything is fine, and his/her significant other cant keep their pants on outside the relationship.

And a pattern cheater is different than a special case "cheater" that you describe. The pattern cheater is the leopard.

Also, youthful indiscretions almost even dont count. Lots of people are stupid and selfish as a teenager but grow out of it.

I've known a number of girls (& been involved with a few) who _always_ have 3 guys in their lives emotionally and sexually: The immediate ex, the current bf, and the future potential bf. That sucks.

 

[nycgirl]

I didn't say it was mine. I'm the guy who used to having his heart broken. But for those who do, I offer the following:

I was that way. I let my down and its a relief.

Is it the other person's responsibility to knock them down? Doesn't seem fair to me.

 

[EnderJE]

I was that way. I let my down and its a relief.

Is it the other person's responsibility to knock them down? Doesn't seem fair to me.

But if you want to get to know the person better, then the walls must be broken. I didn't say it was fair either, but sometimes, its worth it.

 

[nycgirl]

But if you want to get to know the person better, then the walls must be broken. I didn't say it was fair either, but sometimes, its worth it.

So test the person. I guess, that does happen (whether you know it or not).

Yes, I agree with you, sometimes its worth it.

 

[EnderJE]

So test the person. I guess, that does happen (whether you know it or not).

Yes, I agree with you, sometimes its worth it.

You and I are agreeing a little too much. Are you sure you're not Canadian?

 

[awittyusername]

No its not the same. If someone's SO has already basically ended the relationship in substance if not in form, then he/she probably doesnt care other than ego-wise that the other person is stepping out. There's no betrayal, there's no devastated feelings. I'm talking about where 1 person is happy as a clam in a relationship and his/her significant other cant keep their pants on outside the relationship.

And a pattern cheater is different than a special case "cheater" that you describe. The pattern cheater is the leopard.

I've known a number of girls (& been involved with a few) who _always_ have 3 guys in their lives emotionally and sexually: The immediate ex, the current bf, and the future potential bf. That sucks.

Agreed 110%