I also think in vitro fertilization or other methods (that i know not very much of but that dont involve actual sex) would be the absolute last resort to a couple who doesnt have kids, really wanted some bad, went through fertility clinics first,had money, wouldnt consider adoption, etc. It is not something i would take very likely as in saying, well this is how im gonna have kids, i dont care a kid is a kid. It might be old fashioned but I know most guys would try pretty hard before choosing a method like that. I know I did when i got my girlfriend pregnant last year, a week after being on for three years straight. To someone who is platinum i would just do a search on the subject on a thread by ulter.