we had a big long talk and I do believe her because her doing anything just isnt her,she isnt the typical young whore, and I believe her when she says he took it the wrong way that it was just him invited, and I do believe she invited a bunch of us.
she only got all pissy because I did jump the gun and start accusing so I can see how someone can get defensive since I verbally attacked her,and she was very upset I told her I didnt trust her.
we also discussed him not being around unless I am,and neither of us want to be his friend but due to the harmony of our group we both agreed to be civil while all of the group is together however he is not to touch her in any way or shit hits the fan,and she agreed and feels the same way I do,her words not mine,I just asked how she felt on the situation.
so overall I think I jumped the gun and didnt go about things as logical as I should have,and she did the appologizing not I
thanks for all the advice though guys