Get to the bottom line people:
When one gets into an argument, or "flame war", then both parties expect the other to sling mud, but keeping that in mind...there is a line. Talking shit about someone's family or friends, especially those who are deceased, is crossing the line and just plain shit. Only a complete and utter asshole would bad-mouth the deceased of someone's family or friends. I just had a family member pass away last week, and if anyone talked shit about them then I'd be right where DBaller is. It's inexcuseable. I don't know Puc, but have only seen some of his posts. Seeing what he said to DBaller shows his true colors, and he's dark as night. Flaming is flaming, Puc (aka Chester) went way beyond.
As for the whole 17 vs. 25 deal, that's up for debate obviously. 8 years age difference. OK, so it's not that big a deal IF both parties are mature enough for the relationship. The legal age of consent is only in the eyes of the law. A 17 y/o dating a 25 year old is MUCH different than a 27 year old & a 35 year old or even a 22 year old dating a 30 year old. The maturity level of a 17 year old is miles from that of someone in their 20's (assuming both of average maturity for their respective ages). Now days, many 22 year old women are college graduates and mature and responsible enough to pursue a relationship with someone older, be it 2 years older or 8 years older. In my eyes, a 25 y/o has no business dating a 17 y/o. There's no reason for it. I'm 25, and why I can see the possibility of some physical attraction to a 17 y/o's body, being in a relationship with one is some else all together. By the way OMAR, Brittney Spears is MUCH more attractive as a 20 y/o than she was at 17, and a lot more mature I'm sure. A 25 y/o dating a 17 y/o has problems, pure and simple.
And Chester is a total shit.