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How the fuck do you meet chicks?

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Seriously...I don't go clubbing or do anything really, I only go to the gym where there are people...Warik, if you've ever had a girlfriend, how the hell did you meet her?

Chatroom women suck, but I'm afraid that very soon I will have to find something because I'm going nuts here. The sit. w/ KC and me is not quite resolved yet, but I have a very bad feeling, if the worst happens, I have got to find something to relieve this depression.
 
PS- Those of you women on the board who have seen my pics, all of you said I was attractive, so should I just go up to some stupid girl and ask her for her number or what?? I hate talking to people, especially women my age, they're dumb as bricks, flaky and annoying.
 
Dammit Frackal, stop steeling my thoughts lol. I think Im gonna try clubbing myself, I really need the "I don't give a fuck" attitude
 
You need to get out more bro!!! I suggest when you enroll in college, look for a studying abroad program (where u can go to Europe for like 6 months). Go experience life!!!!
 
Well if I don't have KC, then I really WON'T give a fuck, but I hate people in general, especially now so I can't handle the fucking small talk shit...
 
Duct tape, a heavy club and a warehouse pack of condoms should be in your tool belt. Go to the nearest church, pull your dick out and begin to preach about the merits of homicide. When you crush the preacher's chest in with your club, the women in the church should be easily abducted.
 
You can find tons of hot chicks at the grocery store.
Wanna find the single ones.

Look for chicks with carts full of yougurt, fruit, salad, and about 2oz of meat.

No meat in theta cart and she isn't gettin any.

Then bump into her cart or make some dumbass joke.
Works for me.
 
big Buck said it best. You need to have a love affair with YOURSELF!! You are what? 19? Man, you need to get out and do something exciting and forget all this girlfriend shit. Experience some random pussy. It is out there. The harder you look, the more elusive it becomes. I guess people can sense your desperation or worry. All I know is you never find it when you go looking, it is when you least expect it.

I am not sure what the situation with KC is all about. How could she possibly fuck you up so badly. I understand it started over the internet and went from there, but it is not like it lasted years and years. I mean, what did she do? She didn't steal your heart or trust, you just misplaced them. You will find them again, along with your self confidence, which you are lacking somewhat right now. And that is natural. Day by day, it comes back a little at a time.

Think of it like this. When you were born, God only alloted an "x" amount of days for you to live. The closer you get to the end of that number of days, the more foolish it will appear that you wasted these days letting a chic get you down so. since you can't start college like you wanted, join the Peace Corps temporarily. Offer to house sit for someone in England. DO SOMETHING!! IT IS YOUR LIFE!! MAKE IT VALUEABLE AGAIN.
 
Frack bro I know what you are going through sucks bigtime man. I posted this on another thread for you maybe you didn't see it I don't know. But if you think hooking up with another woman right away is gonna make it better you have a lot more hurt coming your way in the future bro.


Banging a bunch of woman or hooking up with someone else right away to take your mind off it won't do you a lick of good bro, although yes it would be fun. When I see that I just shake my head, that is a self-esteem problem not a confidence problem.

You want some good advice someone gave me a long time ago. If you wanna be truly happy with someone else again, you have to first be able to be happy on your own. Deal with this, get over it and then move on. Be with someone cause you want to not cause you need to.

This kind of healing takes time bro, it sucks big time but it is something we all go through, usually more then once or twice.

You wanna vent man, drop me a line anytime bro.
 
Frackal said:
Warik, if you've ever had a girlfriend, how the hell did you meet her?

Man, what the hell was that for? :(

I've had one. My friend introduced me to her (online, lol). She was cute and fun to be with. Lived an hour away and her mom never let her go out, though. I was 17 and too lazy to make the drive.

Oh well.

I'm sure I'll get another girlfriend after I'm filthy rich.

-Warik
 
salsa class

all the girls are usually hot

they also need male partners to dance with but men are ALWAYS in short supply.

also any men hat do trun up ar fags (lets face it who else would want to salsa)

if ur a bodybuider ull love it

i went thre on a 1st date with a chick (no idea where i stand with her now)....soooo many hard bodies shaking :p

i was with a girl but i could keep my eyes from wandering everyso often....shes bi so she must sypmatise,....she even pointed out the lookers for me :horny:
 
frank is right. get some alchohol in your system go out to some clubs and start grabbing asses and grinding like a motherfucker.
 
go out more,when girls look at you smile back,wave or go up and talk,i finally broke out of my shell and im talking any girl i find attractive who looks my way first
 
Warik,

I meant no offense to you personally, it's just that we have similar sentiments about human interaction in general, ie, I like the kind where I can close the window and now have to listen anymore.

That's all, not saying there is something wrong with you, but we have similar social lives. :-)
 
I don't know if you do anabolics or not, but I like to do a good cycle soon afterwards. It makes you feel good mentally, and it boosts your self confidence.
 
I wanna just comment on any guys here who dont go out and wanna meet women.

Ok so maybe if you take any of the advice people gave you may meet a women.

But you sure as hell won't keep her if you stay in all the time thats for sure.

So if you wanna meet someone walk the fuck away from the computer once in a while and learn to interact with people.

Thats why you get so sad when a girlfriend breaks up with you. If you base your whole life, spare time and existence around being with them you are doomed for failure.

Just some food for thought.
 
Frackal said:
Well if I don't have KC, then I really WON'T give a fuck, but I hate people in general, especially now so I can't handle the fucking small talk shit...

WELL FRACK, FIRST THING YOU HAVE TO DO IS CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE. IF YOU GO INTO SOMETHING WITH AN ATTITUDE OF "I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU CUZ YOU ARE DUMB AND I HATE MOST PEOPLE" YOU ARE NVR GONNA FIND A GIRL.

YOU HAVE TO GIVE PEOPLE A CHANCE. I DONT KNOW WHERE YOU FIND THE DUMB ONES AT BUT IN MY HIGH SCHOOL, ALL THE GOODLOOKING GIRLS WERE IN MY HONORS CLASSES AND WERE CHEERLEADERS. HENCE I HAD THE CAPTAIN OF THE CHEERLEADING SQUAD AND ALMOST MARRIED HER. NOW I'M 23. I'M STILL SHY BUT I CAN PULL HOES JUST ABOUT WHERE EVER I GO.

THE EASIEST WAY IS TO GET INTO'D THROUGH FRIENDS.


KAYNE
 
Well to be honest with you Church


I can't tell you how many churches of different religons I've gone to and picked up women...Some of my best weekends were spent with Church girls


Clubs and bars are running a third behind the tie between church and the net.

I've made some real life friendships off the net and a few of them have been from here...You need to learn to Relax and develop your people skills....They are they best skills you can develop behind common sense, cause if you can get people to listen to you and convincing them is the next step which can be rather easy :)
 
"I can't tell you how many churches of different religons I've gone to and picked up women..."

any tips? I agreed to go with the dude I lift with to a Mormon singles meeting this weekend.... he said that there are alot of available hot latina mormons.

This has got to be better than the Buddhist meditation meetings I went to. All the chicks there were Vegan Yogists who did not belive in shaving their pits or bathing regularly.
 
Yeah, how in the blue hell is it easy to pick up women at church? I really wanna know. I mean, whats your Ice breaker?
 
Downloading music and reading a book, nothing else to do and I usually can't sleep till bout 330-4, my biological clock is out of whack, and its 250 now
 
Thats what the almighty internet is for, although my friend was always good at getting gear from dudes in his gym, he just walked right up to the bigger guys, asked em what they were on, and if they could get him some. All mine is mail ordered
 
Big Buck said:
You need to get out more bro!!! I suggest when you enroll in college, look for a studying abroad program (where u can go to Europe for like 6 months). Go experience life!!!!

Exactly!

Ever thought of working part time at a bar or restaurat? I used to bartend and let me tell you there is no easier way. Women have to talk to you to serve them. And you couldn't seem any cooler because you are serving them booze!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
You wanna go to one of the clubs around New Years? I don't have a problem with that so long as they let me in lol (Im 19) should get all the elite bros living here and do it, that would be pretty cool
 
lol, that would work. There are a few more on this board but we'll just have to find them. Anyways Im off to bed (its 335) so Ill talk to you bout it later. Not for awhile anyhow lol
 
Milhouse said:
You can find tons of hot chicks at the grocery store.
Wanna find the single ones.

Look for chicks with carts full of yougurt, fruit, salad, and about 2oz of meat.

No meat in theta cart and she isn't gettin any.

Then bump into her cart or make some dumbass joke.
Works for me.

i like the approach of sharing what works for you, really, milhouse

However, could you share what exciting results happened after you bumped into her cart or made the joke...

I mean, maybe they aren't the results the other people here attrackted to women are looking for...how can they know if you don't detail what happened next

(go on, go on, more details!!! :D :rolleyes: )

btw to the rest of ya - you have to not give up hope that there are kewl wimin out there...too many of you seem to have given up already - and you are so young!!! :(

Perhaps you are too focused on the 'wrong end' of women, some of you...could it be??? Just possibly??? :rolleyes:

Did you see Dr Doolittle? It is supposed to be dogs that sniff someone's butt to know if they are ok or not...

ah well. y'all can't help it can ya??? ;) Just...animals i guess...after all...evolution says it all doesn't it? (or lack of perhaps is more to the point... :D)

love
helen
 
HelenSL said:

btw to the rest of ya - you have to not give up hope that there are kewl wimin out there...too many of you seem to have given up already - and you are so young!!! :(

Could you please tell me where these "cool women" exist? I have yet to meet one. Thank you.
 
badazzwhitedude said:

Could you please tell me where these "cool women" exist? I have yet to meet one. Thank you.

*sigh*

*looks down*

no i cannot tell you :(. I do not have that exact information.

i just didn't want you to give up hope...yet.. :(

well...maybe some of the women you know are kewl but you just don't know them well enough to know that yet?

'knowing' them is mostly not a physical thing, btw...it's about knowing what they love and hate, what they dream about & despise and so on...not just what they think they have to say so you'll love them but really really who they are...

love
helen
 
Man I have trouble with this one too. I have a full time job and there are plenty of women around but the one's that I want are taken. Plus you can get fired for asking a girl out on the job here. (Well you can get fired if she doesn't like you)
 
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Originally posted by Milhouse
You can find tons of hot chicks at the grocery store.
Wanna find the single ones.

Look for chicks with carts full of yougurt, fruit, salad, and about 2oz of meat.

No meat in theta cart and she isn't gettin any.

Then bump into her cart or make some dumbass joke.
Works for me.
____________________________________________

Millhouse must date them cardio queens from my gym who don't eat!...j/k

Frack- You gotta get out more- AND SMILE DAMMIT! My hubby was the shy type as well. That is another thing I love about him!Those shy types are fun when they break free from their shells..WATCH OUT!

The ladies SHOULD love a nice,cute,sexy guy like yourself!

How about going to the library(No, not all chicks who read are dorks),your local video rental store(I've seen some pretty cute chicks working there)The gym(nothing better than the gym on a Friday/Saturday night).

It's not where you are..it's HOW you are when you are around the ladies. Be yourself and SMILE- She's out there waiting to meet a nice guy like you, and she'll be damn lucky to get find you too!
 
what up frack... luckly I work w/about 4000 other people so I dont have to do much but come to work... meet people go out & meet their friends/cousings/sisters etc etc etc.... the pool is limitless. Also, If I do end up going out w/someone from work and it doesnt workout I dont really see them around cuz this place is so big.

Damn, you just made me realize how good I have it... thanx.
 
HelenSL said:


*sigh*

*looks down*

no i cannot tell you :(. I do not have that exact information.

i just didn't want you to give up hope...yet.. :(

well...maybe some of the women you know are kewl but you just don't know them well enough to know that yet?

'knowing' them is mostly not a physical thing, btw...it's about knowing what they love and hate, what they dream about & despise and so on...not just what they think they have to say so you'll love them but really really who they are...

love
helen

I personally tend not to have much of a prob attracting a girl initially, but after a while, every bitch I have been involved with plays fucking head games and shit. And i always treat them like a princess, especially the last girl I was seeing. Maybe that's the problem. She was physically abused with the last two guys she was with.

I am so tired of it. They are all liars. I am sure there might be one or two nice girls out there, but the other 4 billion chicks out there give those two a bad name. I always just end up doing a nice cycle afterwards and take my aggression out in the gym. The drugs and the gym will always be there though.

I heard someone once say, "Treat a girl like a queen, and she will never respect you. Treat a girl like shit, and she will love you for life." Maybe I will go on Halo all the time with roid rage and then they will stick around.

Warik, just go out and use those hoes man. Just get laid and leave 'em. 99.9% of 'em, that's all they are good for.

Sorry, I had to vent. I am just sick and tired of this shit.
 
Badazzwhitedude, you are so fuckin' right in that post. 99.99% of girls are fucking stupid, nutty, don't-know-what-they-want bitches. lol

I really think that 'she' is different, just got to make her realize it though, it's almost like, once i really became so devoted in love with her, she got bored?? I don't get it damn it. What the fuck is the matter with you bitches? Tell us!! :fro:
 
badazzwhitedude said:


I personally tend not to have much of a prob attracting a girl initially, but after a while, every bitch I have been involved with plays fucking head games and shit. And i always treat them like a princess, especially the last girl I was seeing. Maybe that's the problem. She was physically abused with the last two guys she was with.

I am so tired of it. They are all liars. I am sure there might be one or two nice girls out there, but the other 4 billion chicks out there give those two a bad name. I always just end up doing a nice cycle afterwards and take my aggression out in the gym. The drugs and the gym will always be there though.

I heard someone once say, "Treat a girl like a queen, and she will never respect you. Treat a girl like shit, and she will love you for life." Maybe I will go on Halo all the time with roid rage and then they will stick around.

Warik, just go out and use those hoes man. Just get laid and leave 'em. 99.9% of 'em, that's all they are good for.

Sorry, I had to vent. I am just sick and tired of this shit.

whitedude, frackal

I've had shitty experiences with people so maybe i can relate a bit :(

I'm not sure what to say except don't give up - there are a lot of people out there and maybe you'll find better ones if you keep looking. If you give up, though, you never will...good luck, hang in there (etc etc :))

love
helen
 
Oh ps, just for fun's sake, I have been chatting on yahoo to see how many chicks I could rope in, it's pretty easy really, there are some fairly hot sluts on there, some nice chicks, and a whole shitload of fuglys, but some cute blond even emailed me a nude of herself lol.

I must need to apply my online persona to real life.
 
badazzwhitedude said:


I personally tend not to have much of a prob attracting a girl initially, but after a while, every bitch I have been involved with plays fucking head games and shit. And i always treat them like a princess, especially the last girl I was seeing. Maybe that's the problem. She was physically abused with the last two guys she was with.

I am so tired of it. They are all liars. I am sure there might be one or two nice girls out there, but the other 4 billion chicks out there give those two a bad name. I always just end up doing a nice cycle afterwards and take my aggression out in the gym. The drugs and the gym will always be there though.

I heard someone once say, "Treat a girl like a queen, and she will never respect you. Treat a girl like shit, and she will love you for life." Maybe I will go on Halo all the time with roid rage and then they will stick around.

Warik, just go out and use those hoes man. Just get laid and leave 'em. 99.9% of 'em, that's all they are good for.

Sorry, I had to vent. I am just sick and tired of this shit.

WERD!!!
 
Frackal said:
Badazzwhitedude, you are so fuckin' right in that post. 99.99% of girls are fucking stupid, nutty, don't-know-what-they-want bitches. lol

I really think that 'she' is different, just got to make her realize it though, it's almost like, once i really became so devoted in love with her, she got bored?? I don't get it damn it. What the fuck is the matter with you bitches? Tell us!! :fro:

You made the classic mistake I made on one of my first dates single months ago, you paid attention to her.
If you want to get a chick to pay attention to you back off a bit and if they want you they will call.
Some annoying bitch I went out with months ago briefly was not interested in a relation, then she annoyed me too much and I gave her the shove off. well she still stalks me to this day. I did this back in late jan-early feb by the way. Now she calls all the time and drives me nuts. Always wants me to talk dirty to her or have her come over to shag her, which I refuse everytime.

My point though excluding my pshyco bitch problem is back off, just say ok honey see ya. If you are calling all the time saying "I want you", "I want you back" or dumb shit like "I cant live without you" well your doomed to fail.
I can bet every guy and girl here has done that at least once in their lives and can tell you they did not get the person and if they did they were treated pathetically.
 
You need to find pleasure in all people.
Life is short....you would be suprized at what your missing.
I talk to everyone why not. I smile and strike up a conversation with all walks of life. Everyone has a story and it fun to hear them.

I could pick up a dozen girls a day just by smiling and asking how they are doing.

Then again I'm not trying and I guess they can tell that.
 
Frackal said:
Oh ps, just for fun's sake, I have been chatting on yahoo to see how many chicks I could rope in, it's pretty easy really, there are some fairly hot sluts on there, some nice chicks, and a whole shitload of fuglys, but some cute blond even emailed me a nude of herself lol.

I must need to apply my online persona to real life.

i sent you the picture of the cute blond chick.
 
HelenSL said:


i like the approach of sharing what works for you, really, milhouse

However, could you share what exciting results happened after you bumped into her cart or made the joke...

I mean, maybe they aren't the results the other people here attrackted to women are looking for...how can they know if you don't detail what happened next

(go on, go on, more details!!! :D :rolleyes: )

btw to the rest of ya - you have to not give up hope that there are kewl wimin out there...too many of you seem to have given up already - and you are so young!!! :(

Perhaps you are too focused on the 'wrong end' of women, some of you...could it be??? Just possibly??? :rolleyes:

Did you see Dr Doolittle? It is supposed to be dogs that sniff someone's butt to know if they are ok or not...

ah well. y'all can't help it can ya??? ;) Just...animals i guess...after all...evolution says it all doesn't it? (or lack of perhaps is more to the point... :D)

love
helen

Helen,
when I want to pick up in real life, meet someone I just dont have too many problems at all.
I can strike up a conversation with anyone anytime, it was something I was born to do and did not realize it until an ex girlfriend pointed it out to me a long time ago.

I deal with and find customers everyday and am good
at it. When I branched that skill into real life and follwed thru on the conversations I started it worked great.

Funny part is in my face to face everyday life I can talk easily to anyone but on the net via email/pm's and even on the phone I have a real hard time with it.

Most important thing as well is to not be afraid of rejection. My attitude is if one girl is not interested oe even a potential client, I say fuck it cause someone else out there is interested.

Cant find your true one without going thru the pain of being with a 1000 rejections or assholes to get to the "one"
 
yeah. some dude was on there crying "the girl that i loved more than anyone in this whole world could love dumped me. i loved her like that guy in the princess bride loved that buttercup chick. she was my buttercup!! i hate people and all bitches now!!" i sent him the picture of the cute blond naked to cheer him up.
 
Well I would like to help you, but I am in the same situation ( kinda ). Sheez Ive been dumped three times
in a year and I dont even know why!!! :mad:

As for Badazzwhitedude, well more that days goes and more I agree with you.

I've been played, cheated, lied to, unrespect and me I was the good sweet fool :bawling:
sometime more that I think about that movie Valentine and more that I say to myself ( Fair enought for them )
:D

I alway had a lil weaknesses for redhead, with freckles, and tall.
So once I've met a girl she was actually a friend of the family, she was 6'0, redhead with a billion of freckles
( DREAM FOR ME ) Fuck off she was a fucking nightmare. Her mother ( damn french woman from France )
was a total bitch controlling her daughter like she was a puppet!

Once that bitch ( the mom LOL ) arrived home and talked with my own mom
she said:
See Jeff well is
unresponsible ( DAMN IT I HAVE MEN ON MY COMMAND AND THEIR LIVES DEPEND ON ME, then I must be very unresponsible eh )

He a big baby ( MOUHAHAHAHA, I dont think she ever saw herself going oiut with her daughter, when she takes her and kiss her yelling " She my lil baby" damn it she 24 wake up")

Jeff is violent, talk about weapons ( Im in the fucking military, when I talk about my day at work, what im supposed to do huh, of course I LOVE TO TELL HER how much Serbs Ive killed with my C8 ( M4 ) on my last
tour LMAO )

Jf is not educated ( MOUHAHAHAHA completing M.A. , hmmm let me think her daughter never graduated from high school, so I have 4 more diplomas than her, well must be true im a idiot then )

Im not from her social rank ( SHE lived 15 years in social wealthfare building!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and im from a
high middle class family with a father that decided to retired at 40! so get my point)

ARRRRRRRRG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oh baby I love you, I feel so happy being with ya, and the day after im JUST A FUCKING SOB


Ohhhh!!!!! what a feeling now

I should go on part two about Rachel and Deana now
Jk:bawling:
 
i know you guys would disagree but start talking to girls from your work,some hot little blonde from my work who works in the nursery went to the trouble to find out my name and then look for me on icq,im turning into a man whore if i start seeing her to,that will make three wooo hooo:fro:
 
quit doing the web shit less typing more talking to real girls. Tell every friend you know who has a decent girl to hook you up with one of her better looking friends, dont hate people and look a little positive. Get all notions of KC out of your head and stop hoping for what might happen b/c it won't and if it does it will end the same way. Just go out relax and be confident and holler at some chickens, if you dont got game pretend like you do it will fool most of them. Most importantly stop fucken around on the net, and get out there and meet people parties, friends, colleges, the stores, malls, wherever you are and just talk comfotably dont expect anything out of each talk and dont force anything, shit will happen. No one wants a negative person around them, so if you cant change your attitude wait and let it pass but its alot easier and quicker to accept the situation and move on with a positive outlook.
 
Dude if you just wanna get laid well go clubbing.... easy to satisfy your dick over there..... but for more serious thing well you gotta wait. It could be anywhere (work, gym, supermarket.....) one day it will be your turn.....
 
What the fuck is with all these people saying its too soon to date, fuck etc.

Oh yeah sitting around moping is gonna help. Fuck that.
we are talking about a failed relaionship and not a very long one to boot. If this was a death ok then mourn but its not!
Life and relationships is a skill like playing guitar, riding a horse. If you dont practice it you will never succeed.And sitting around bellyaching about it aint gonna make it better. You will feel better eventually period but kick yourself later for being so down during this period when you could be doing something productive even though you feel like shit.

A good quote from the movie Shawshank redemption sums up how I feel:

"GET BUSY LIVING OR GET BUSY DYING!"
 
Well yesterday I met this really pretty slim brunette chick with long hair and brown eyes. She's a little older than me, but she seems to like me a lot, and I talked to her on the phone for about 3 hours last night.
 
Frackal said:
Well yesterday I met this really pretty slim brunette chick with long hair and brown eyes. She's a little older than me, but she seems to like me a lot, and I talked to her on the phone for about 3 hours last night.

For future reference don't talk to a girl longer than you would have sex w/ her. ;) [jk]

Chicks are a pain in the ass most of the time. Most either want some Marky Mark wannabe tough guy who wears his pants to ankles or some cock that treats her like shit. <Enter Rex> Nice, pretty good looking, olive complection, got a good build going on. I'm told I'm so nice, sweet, blah blah blah and when I ask them out. "Sorry...". I can't fucking win. :mad: :mad: {End rant}

I'm sticking w/ BM's advice that she gave me quite some time ago: Treat a girl like a dog. The ones that won't take it are worth keeping.
 
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