i reckon it has a lot to do with how many partners you have had.
i know a guy who has shagged about 200 women. yes he is ugly, and so were they. BUT thats not the point. for him to get with a girl who has only been with, say, 3 guys is probably a bad idea since their ideas on sex are likely to be leaps and bounds apart. then again you might think that it might take a guy 20 shags to mature emotionally/sexually, and be on the same level as a woman with, say, 5 partners.
at the end of the day when youre talking about mature adults who are over sexual scorecarding, the number doesnt matter.
putting numbers on things like that is silly, imo. so long as she is respectful of herself and of course of me, then it doesnt matter
just like velvett. shes hot, shes level headed, but really shes probably shagged a couple of football teams. i mean, look at her friends. sluts. the apple doesnt fall far from the tree, so shes probably the same way. id still date her though
(just kidding, velv

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