How many partners is tooo many?

[FreakMonster]

Let's say you've just met a girl and you want to start a relationship and the talk comes round to how many people you've both slept with. How many is too many and at what age? What would totally put you right off.

 

[Raina]

I refuse to hold the # of people a person's been with against them. It doesn't seem fair. It's not like they were supposed to "wait" for me. I don't really think it matters as long as both people are open about their sexual histories and everyone is safe.

 

[big4life]

Let's say you've just met a girl and you want to start a relationship and the talk comes round to how many people you've both slept with. How many is too many and at what age? What would totally put you right off.

What would put me off?

Somebody that is too worried about how many women I've slept with.

 

[manny78]

well lets say over 1000 there's an obvious problem.....

 

[saint808]

how many partners is too few? what matters in this world to som doesn't matter to others... ther is no answer to your question my friend... in fact I am not really sure there is anything such as the right decision or answer to anything.

 

[WODIN]

Let's see there are 6,000,000,000 people so if the slept with 5,999,999,999 other people, basically everyone but me then I would have to take a stand on principals. I mean that's just being rude!

 

[curling]

well lets say over 1000 there's an obvious problem.....

LOL

But seriously if a chick had been with over 5 by the time she 20 I would think twice about her as being a possible wife.

 

[FreakMonster]

As far as the number, well anyone who says it doesnt matter is taking a risk. The higher number of past partners is more risky as far as STD's or AIDS. I'd want to know for that reason.

But more important is how long they were with a person; was it a one night stand, or was it long term, etc. Someone who changes partners a lot i'd be suspicious of how stable they are and how committed they are to a person.

Personally, i'd rather have a girl with a few long term relationships then one who changes partners every few months.

 

[bigguns7]

LOL

But seriously if a chick had been with over 5 by the time she 20 I would think twice about her as being a possible wife.

Bravo! My thoughts exactly.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

The past is the past.