How? (long read)

[Roadblock]

I have a friend who´s married and they have child together. The child was born 3months too early and she had a few surgerys already and has a major surgery comming up. (Heartcomplications, infection after infection etc)
My friend is out partying all the time, some times up to 5times/week, while his wife is in the hospital with the child.
A week ago a friend of mine says he saw him making out with a chick in the street but he´s not sure it was him. He weighs about 260lbs so he´s pretty easy to spot in a crowd.
His wife is the most sweetest person alive and I don´t like seeing her getting hurt. She´s been depressed since she had a miscarriage and it wouldn´t surprise me if she does something bad if things get worse.
I´m not supposed to know about his partying since I always tell him to stop and focus on his wife and child. He always says he´s taking it easy but I know he´s lying.
Should I try talking some sense to him or just let them handle their buisness? He´s been a very good friend to me and I don´t want to lose that by accuse him of something that might not be true.

I´m worried.

 

[Crazier]

While you mention your friends weight, you fail to mention his age.

That is a much bigger piece to the equation than his weight.

More details are needed for a better analysis of the situation... imo.
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[KAYNE]

HAPPYSCRAPPY WILL HAVE SOME GOOD ADVICE FOR THIS. IF YOU DONT LIKE HIS, I'M SURE SATANIC GOATSLAYER CAN OFFER SOME GOOD STUFF AS WELL.


ON A REAL NOTE, JUST CONFRONT THE DUDE.


KAYNE

 

[Roadblock]

While you mention your friends weight, you fail to mention his age.

That is a much bigger piece to the equation than his weight.

More details are needed for a better analysis of the situation... imo.
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He´s 24. Got married when he was 17.

 

[Roadblock]

>but he´s not sure it was him.

Then go watch tv and forget about it.

If a very visible 260lb man wasn't visible enough for your friend to make him out -- then i wouldn't trust his judgement enough to confront your 260lb friend. He's a bad witness and you don't need to ruin a friendship with heresay and 3rd-removed accusations based upon foggy images.

-= nav =-

The problem is that he changes totally when he drinks and it wouldn´t surprise me if he did such a thing.

 

[velvett]

You're damned either way because you will be force to pick a side - his or hers.

It's not of your business so don't get involved.




yah, sure everyone says they wanna be told if a spouse or beau/girlfriend is cheating on you but you're kidding yourself if you think you won't end up resenting the person that told you as the person that did you wrong.

 

[WODIN]

Slap the shit out of him.