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How important are a woman's looks. Say she was just sort of attractive, would you overlook her or would you give her a chance?

What if a woman had a great personality and made you laugh, but she wasn't that pretty, would you ask her out or just want to be friends?

Just curious...
 
I might ask her out, but I have to find something attractive about her inorder for it to be on a date night out or a friends night out
 
Whats on the inside is of utmost importance but there has to be some form of physical attraction as well.For me a woman doesnt have to be a knockout,but she has to at least be cute.
 
looks are important, but not the MOST important. If a girl is ugly, then honestly, it doesn't matter how good her personality is. Friendship would be fine, but there has to be some sort of physical attraction. However, if a girl is just average looking, or "sorta cute", but not beautiful, in my eyes she can become the most attractive person on the planet if she has the right personality.
 
Looks aren't the be all end all once you get to know her...but, that is just it, would a guy risk going up and talking to someone who was not pretty?

Think of looks as an icebreaker of sorts. The better looking, the more opportunities.

So, the less you know of someone, the more important looks are.

I guess the answer you are looking for is, of course you would overlook her, especially if some hottie was in the general vicinity.

And 'just friends' for a guy means he doesn't want to be obligated to call you after the deed, lol.
 
Peach,

If I were a guy, I'd dig ya. Because you seem to have this really sweet, strong yet vulnerable sensibility about you. (I know that doesn't answer your question, but sometimes there are things we just need to hear/read.)

Stop looking at me like that people!!! :rolleyes:
 
Im too shy to aproach anybody right now lol, it doesn't even matter what they look like, but Id go out with someone who was cool as all hell even if she wasn't gorgeous or anything, I just wouldn't go out with anybody I have no attraction for
 
male pig answer:

"maybe if she was a butterface."

her body is perfect, butterface needs work. LOL

alright nate answer:

probably. if she has alot of the qualities i dig in a gal. has it together, smart, etc. etc. many times that will be more of an attraction than a hot chick who is all screwed up. i know a few girls that are very attractive, but im at the point where, if the opportunity cost of being with a hot chick is dealing with her bullshit...her attractiveness goes down. dont get me wrong (penis talking now) i would still bang her, and it would be that much easier to not get involved with her due to her issues. (nate's back) but a chick who has it together and is always trying to improve herself is much more of an attractive trait than a broad who is just pretty and leaves it at that. chances are those chicks will be the ones who take what they have for granted and are the 30something, past their prime,chunky, super tan hoochies at the supermarket, all gussied up trying to pick up in the bread isle.

thats what i think....:angel:
 
I don't think I am ugly, I'm just okay. It would be great to be really pretty and have guys around me all the time, but it might get old after a while. It would be nice to be really pretty though. :xeye:

I just wanted to know if looks were incredibly important to guys.

Velvette, thank you. ;) Right back atcha!!! :)
 
Not important at all. Let me tell you something:

When I'm walking down a busy street, I look at everyone coming in the opposite direction. It takes me a millisecond to discern the men from the women.

If I see a women, her image is immediately discarded. If I see a man, I then resort to my decision tree.

Is he good-looking? If no, I look to the next person. If yes, I immediately decide if he is or isn't do-able.

If no, I look to the next person. If yes, I look for a wedding ring. If yes, I look to the next person. If no, I follow him home and introduce myself. :D
 
Everyone knows that I dont exactly need a supermodel. I prefer girls that are just okay....most of the time a girl who is average has a good personality.
 
butterface lol, thats the most fucked up term to describe a woman Ive ever heard, its kind of funny though. Personally Ill take a pretty girl with an average body over a butterface any day of the week, then again, Im not all about getting laid, Id rather be in a relationship.
 
I am totally with StoneColdGold on this one. I have to be somewhat attracted to a person to consider a relationship with them, even if they do have a wonderful personality. If they aren't drop dead gorgeous, but have a great personality, then they can become the most attractive person to me.
 
Yeah peach, just like Wynona Ryder said (hahah smallmovesal what up?) your a cool girl/woman(?) and dont sweat that shit.

I was raised to believe there is somebody for each and every one of us in teh world..you gotta be patient..and when that person does find you, it'll be unbelievable.

Now do I believe all that really? I dunno..but sometimes faith is all you got

my 2 cents

paaaaaaaaaace
 
peachy keen,
come to las vegas, i'll take you to dinner, a show etc. To me the way a woman presents herself and personality are the most important. of course she can't be a mutant or have three arms or 29 toes or something.
 
Hamster Hider,

Why don't you ever take me to dinner and a show? I have only 10 fingers and 10 toes and 2 arms and 2 legs. :p
 
CAN YOU GIVE A GOOD BLOW JOB? IF SO, YOUR STOCK GOES WAAAAYYY UP :)
 
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I know guys that have these girlfriends and I go uggh not my type but these guys go out with this type all the time and are attracted to em. I am sure they look at some I have gone with that I thought were pretty and thought those girls were uggy lol.

Personally I like a combo with a woman being that she is good looking to me, she is doing something with herself and she is a decent person. I have gone out with a few major hotties who were real turnoffs after a short time because the personalities were horrible and I have gone out with the so called 'plain janes " who I was very attractive as thier personalities and looks etc blended together to form a great package.

So for me it has to be a package, whether they are my soul mate, date, or fuck friend.
 
I agree with Austin and FlyGirl. Looks are somewhat important but they aren't the determining factor. They are however what gets your attention initially. But a great personality is what keeps your attention.

I guess it comes down to what you are looking for. If you want a relationship there has to be more than just a face or a body. And an awesome personality can more than make up for any physical beauty that is lacking.

Look at all the talk shows where you see people from high schools that were considered fat and ugly. After some time they come back and they a gorgeous. Just think of what the people that made fun of them missed out on. Beauty is a superficial trait....and it can be changed. A great personality and a true friend are hard to find.
 
There definaltly has to be some physical attraction for me to like someone but what is attractive to me might not be attractive to someone else.

If the person has zero personality then it ain't going no where on my end.
 
Yeah, you probably right, BigBuck, I am a pig.

I have no attractive qualities what so ever. I don't even know why I exist.
 
I have gone out with groups before and at beginning of the night i would think i wanted the hot one off the bat but as the night wen't on the lee attractive one grew on me and i was more interested in the less attractive one.Looks are inportant in the beginning.
 
OH SHIT, the_one jarred a nasty memory loose in my nogginbone. From my more dispicable times. I had this road whore that I used to call at anytime, day or night, and she's come over and let me do whatever I wanted. She'd get woken up at 3am and be over in 30 minutes. One time she said, fuck this, next time I come over, I'm just going to stay the night. That was the last time I called her. Oh what a dog I was. I can't believe how lucky I am to have what I have now.
 
Slice of Peach2 said:
Yeah, you probably right, BigBuck, I am a pig.

I have no attractive qualities what so ever. I don't even know why I exist.
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I didn't post that, MP5 did :confused: :mad: :kaioken: :splat:
 
Big Johnson said:
CAN YOU GIVE A GOOD BLOW JOB? IF SO, YOUR STOCK GOES WAAAAYYY UP :)
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I certainly can ... and you can keep your hands up above your head just like in the picture! :eek: :cool: :) ;) :p :angel:
 
Slice, to me it just sounds like you are lacking in self confidence, so am I. I hope you are being sarcastic, but if not, you are being way too hard on yourself.
 
Yes, looks play a large roll in the initial stages. Men are visual creatures. Yes, other things can occassionally supercede the physical attraction factor, but I would surmise that this is the exception rather than the norm.

Looks play a large roll in first becoming interested in a woman romantically, the rest of the stuff - humor, intelligence, affection, etc. - play into whether that person will work out romantically in the long run.

Luckily, guys have wide and varying ideas of beauty.
 
Big Buck, I sent you a PM. I'm sorry. :( *hugs*

Yes, I was being sarcastic. I am not a pig.

smallmovesal, thank you so much. I used to be married, I may want to get married again someday, just to a better man. *big hug*

I just wish men and women would stop judging each other by looks and start looking into people's hearts. I would rather have a man who treated me decently then one who was all that in the looks department.

I just wish more people felt this way too. :(
 
Slice of Peach2 said:
I just wish men and women would stop judging each other by looks and start looking into people's hearts
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that could be a good thing. cardiovascular fitness and cholesterol levels. those are good criteria for choosing a mate because you can tell how healthy they are on the inside and whether or not they will be around for the long haul. we could have bloodpressure bars where people go around with sphgmomometers (sp) and stethoscopes. the true pimps would be the guys and gals that can give good bp readings, and carry around lowfat foods and "healthy fats" for all to eat. everyone can sit on a treadmill doing max vo2 tests. wow, youre on to something peach. im gonna do it.

hehe, alright i went overboard...

still got love for you ms peach. you just set me up so well for that one. "bump set, spike". just like volleyball.
 
Maybe it's me. But there have been several times when a woman who I thought was plain, or 'funny-looking' I would find attractive months later. I know it's the personality, especially sense of humor and confidence. And it would usually be a gradual thing. I must admit, the pretty ones are (usually) still pretty after several months.
:D

Also, there have been several women who were definitely plain, who I found very sexually attractive. God only knows why. Maybe the pheromone thing, I'll be damned if I can figure it out.

I have much more problems finding people who are badly out of shape attractive in any way. But looks (face, body shape) are one thing when you first meet someone, and a whole different thing once you know them.
 
dread lord good guy, that's the last thing she needed to hear! She's all talking about how people would concentrate more on personal not physical features and now you want to bone her. Good luck with that ! :mad:

I agree though, peach, with all that has been said.
I fucking melt at a chick that makes ME smile. God damn...one that smiles, looks into my eyes, is confident, and is OK looking DAMN.....*overload*.

In any case, slice of peach, you sound like an awesome person from posts I've read. You'll find the one soon enough, that's for sure. Keep your head up babe,
bl00d
 
Of course Dread Lord isn't serious!!!! :)

I am better now, guys.

Bite my butt, Espanola!!! ;)
 
peach peach peach

ive never seen a pic of ya, and i like ya. ;)

even your online persona is very down to earth. so you sound like a catch to me.

peace.:bday:
 
Kakky told me you were a female, so I am going to have to pass on this one, but thanks. :)
 
Looks are what gets my attention at first, but if you're snotty/stuck-up (which is always usually the case if you're hot), then forget it.

I am a firm believer, however, that a person becomes more attractive the more you get to know them.
 
I seem to have different standards with women than other guys do. A lot of girls that I think are total knockouts are only average looking to my friends. I won't lie and say looks don't matter, I like a woman that takes care of herself. But I can honestly say that there are other qualities that are important. I want a woman that will take care of me as well.
 
It is good to see that not all men are superficial and shallow. :)
 
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