I dated a woman who is bi-polar. When we first started to date she was on medication and seeing a psychologist...none with which i knew about for the frist 2 months...She was going to see the psychologist for 30 min a day on her lunch break....The only way i found out about it was that i dropped by her office and went to the break room where she "was always eating lunch" and she wasn't there...so i went home and just asked her how lunch was that day...she didnt' know i slipped in cause noone told her and i busted her then....Well, i felt sorry for her and was like ok...well just get help...about 6 months into the relationship she stopped the drugs cold turkey and quit the psychology stuff. She went nuts...but i had fell in love with her by then...well, it took almost a year of her crazy shit until i fell about of love with her...It was a fucked up situation. I was yelled at many times because i would give my female cousin a hug when we'd see each other...it was a really fucked up sitiation....a realtionship like that will destroy your mental state, and will affect every part of your life....if i had to do it all over again, i would have ended it from the day i found out about her disorder....