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How do you handle being complimented?
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I used to have a HUGE problem with it. I never accepted it. I won't go into detail, but it wasn't good. I actually argued with people about it. lol
Now I've learned to just 'accept' compliments as they come. But this is after many MANY years of the former behavior.
Now I've learned to just 'accept' compliments as they come. But this is after many MANY years of the former behavior.
Learn to take it. Just humbly, sincerely thank them do a "U turn". That's where you change the conversation to something about them (U get it?) Nevermind, lol.
Just say thank you. When I was bigger I had a hard time taking it and it's still a work in progress. Sometimes I feel compelled to "expain" myself. I'm sure you can't tell
Just say thank you. When I was bigger I had a hard time taking it and it's still a work in progress. Sometimes I feel compelled to "expain" myself. I'm sure you can't tell
Scotsman
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curvymommy said:Learn to take it. Just humbly, sincerely thank them do a "U turn". That's where you change the conversation to something about them (U get it?) Nevermind, lol.
Just say thank you. When I was bigger I had a hard time taking it and it's still a work in progress. Sometimes I feel compelled to "expain" myself. I'm sure you can't tell
Hey you
how did everything go?That's what I meant by deflect it. I just try to skip over the statement and change the subject.
No really?
I've never noticed.Cheers,
Scotsman
Hey Dreamboat! LOL!Scotsman said:Hey you
That's what I meant by deflect it. I just try to skip over the statement and change the subject.
No really?
Cheers,
Scotsman
Surgery is tomorrow. Right now I'm taking a break to escape the reality of all the crap I have left to do.
Scotsman
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curvymommy said:Hey Dreamboat! LOL!
Surgery is tomorrow. Right now I'm taking a break to escape the reality of all the crap I have left to do.
Have you done all your pre-op stuff yet or will that be tomorrow as well?
Take a break, relax, and get a laugh out of this place.
Cheers,
Scotsman
AztecWarrior
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I like it. The more the better.
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heatherrae
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I say thank you.
squatmonkey
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I say " Yea you got that shit right" or " Theres alot more of that in my pants too" . I try to keep it humble like that.
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silverstar1025
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Thank you and smile. I sometimes turn red too.
Beachboy6294
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I get a boner
Scotsman
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dirty~d~ said:Quit being a chick, ya skirt wearing pussy. If I want to compliment you, you're going to take it and like it!
Before you ban me, remember what my ass looks like.
I'm not too worried about you compimenting me, unless "hardheaded jackass" is a compliment.
I might need a refresher on the ass if this is the way you are going to talk to me.
Now if you talk a little dirtier we might get somewhere.
Cheers,
Scotsman
Scotsman said:I'm not too worried about you compimenting me, unless "hardheaded jackass" is a compliment.
I might need a refresher on the ass if this is the way you are going to talk to me.
Now if you talk a little dirtier we might get somewhere.
Cheers,
Scotsman
Two more weeks and I will have new pictures.
You don't want me talking dirty to you; I'll make you blush suga.
BTW, I still have your, uh, voice mail from the night you spent with the Capt Morgan girls.
Scotsman
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dirty~d~ said:Two more weeks and I will have new pictures.
You don't want me talking dirty to you; I'll make you blush suga.
BTW, I still have your, uh, voice mail from the night you spent with the Capt Morgan girls.
So I'll get the pics next year sometime?
Hey you promised me dirty talk on your birthday them threw your panties in some guys lawn and passed out without calling me back. Darlin if you make me blush you'll be the first to ever do it with just dirty talk.
BWAHAHAHA, why do people always keep my voicemails? I vaguely remember calling you and I think I was giving you shit about coming out here, but the rest is a little fuzzy. I think I had been drinking for about 6 hours when that call was made.LOL
Cheers,
Scotsman
Scotsman
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dirty~d~ said:Nah, by Christmas if you're a good boy.
What a great night THAT was.
Is that a challenge for me and my forked tongue?
Well damnit I'm never good so I guess next year it is.
LOL, it sounded like you were having a good time when we talked.
Not a challenge just a statement of fact. Hell if my friend grabbing me in the middle of a restaurant and basically yelling out "I want to hold your head down like this and piss all over you" doesn't make me blush not much will. She is a crazy little powerlifter, you two would get along great I think.
Did I call you a diseased hooker in that phone message?
Cheers,
Scotsman
big_bad_buff
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Scotsman said:
Usually it’s under the rug as soon as it slips out of their mouth, I’ve always been bad at taking compliments, don’t think it’s sincere, when in actuality, they probably are. I’ve always been this way, no matter who it’s from; I’m just like like OH thank you.
needtogetarmy
CEO of Project Mayhem
Scotsman said:
Same here. I hate being complimented. I am very self-critical of myself.
seaking420
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thats me too
dirty~d~ said:
picture of your bottom?
p.s. you can talk dirty to me..
I'm so bored..
Scotsman said:I think praise is fine like for a job well done or something like that. But compliments are a whole different ballpark.
Oh and what are you doing up this late? Hooker.
Cheers,
Scotsman
Eating my pwo meal. Got a late start to the gym tonight, thanks to work. I'll be going to bed soon. Aunt Flow has me beat down.
dirty~d~ said:I'm not ignoring you. LOL! I'm just moving a little slower tonight. I'll hit ya up tomorrow... promise.
k messages always work for attention, hah.
I'm totally going to hold you to that tomorrow!
Scotsman said:Well beat her back, speed bag style. Just don't send me pics of the aftermath.
Or do if you want.
Cheers,
Scotsman
SO NOT going there. LOL!
Speaking of speed bag... I want one.
I've been watching the boxers at the gym and I think I want to give boxing a try. Not to actually fight; just to go through the training and learn a few new things.
Scotsman
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dirty~d~ said:SO NOT going there. LOL!
Speaking of speed bag... I want one.
LMAO.
Yeah boxing is a killer workout. Never did much speed bag but I loved to hit the heavy bag, especially to blow off steam/agression.
Cheers,
Scotsman
bigmann245
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Scotsman said:
i swear were brothers....
If it's a sincere compliment then I take it with a smile, if it's not then I just brush it off and then it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable.
Classic example of one of my deflections from last night -
One guy says to the guy I'd been talking to most of the night - "He was probably just jealous because you're with the hottest girl at the bar." Me - "Being the hottest girl at a bar in DC is sort of like a non handicapped person winning a gold medal in the special olympics."
One guy says to the guy I'd been talking to most of the night - "He was probably just jealous because you're with the hottest girl at the bar." Me - "Being the hottest girl at a bar in DC is sort of like a non handicapped person winning a gold medal in the special olympics."
