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How do you become a deeper person?

Test boy

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I don't feel too good about the fact that I place so very much emphasis on attractiveness.

Has someone had this problem and overcome it? How?
 
I have problems getting any girl. Im a good looking guy (not bragging), but I cant find what im looking for .:(
 
I think age has a lot to do with it honestly. I have become a completely different person over the last few years and I have a clarity and perspective that I never thought possible. God, I can't wait to see what happens in another few years :)

Don't beat yourself up about it...
 
Me too....bodybuilding has definitely made me hypercritical about looks...but you know what? I'm not worried about that....looks are basically my hobby in a way....looking good is vastly more important then many would like to admit...as long as you recognize that there is far more to a person than looks you are ok...I feel that I am also growing mentally, spirtually and emotionally/intelligently ... basically the game I'm in is self-IMPROVEMENT, not the opposite or staying stagnant....there is nothing wrong with that IMO, actually I think it is the "best way."

Just keep your ego in check or god will remind you to do so...
 
I've spent a lot of time with myself in the past year or so-- just figuring out what I wanted. I think I'm more honest with myself now and see the world more critically. I'm still a dreamer but I think I'm more grounded in realism. At least for this moment, I can say that I know myself well-- but I grow and change all the time and I've come to realize that I don't need another person to make me happy. Only I can make me happy.
 
Frackal said:
Me too....bodybuilding has definitely made me hypercritical about looks...but you know what? I'm not worried about that....looks are basically my hobby in a way....looking good is vastly more important then many would like to admit...as long as you recognize that there is far more to a person than looks you are ok...I feel that I am also growing mentally, spirtually and emotionally/intelligently ... basically the game I'm in is self-IMPROVEMENT, not the opposite or staying stagnant....there is nothing wrong with that IMO, actually I think it is the "best way."

Just keep your ego in check or god will remind you to do so...
You are pretty wise for your years. If I decide not to conquer the world...perhaps I pass the mantle to you. :)
 
The facts are as follows:

Example A: You meet an ugly chic that has a great personality. You two couldn't get along better. Whether it's going to the grocery store, or going on a cruise... you two have fun. Always.

Example B: You meet a beautiful chic. She's a cunt. You tow couldn't get along worse. Whether it's going to the grocery store, or going on a cruise... the two of you don't click, and piss each other off. Always.

Example C: You mmet a beautiful chic who has a great personality. She has the good's in point A and B, without hte bad's in point A or point B.

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Those above are possible meetings, the below are possible futures.

Example A: In 50 years from now, no matter how YOU or she look, the bond of your personal feelings and same personalities will still keep your marriage strong.

Example B: In 50 years, well probably 10, 5 if she has a kid, the cunt now looks like Example A. However, her personality is still that of a cunt. You now have Example A for looks, and Example B for personality. You're fucked. You're either going to stay married to a bitch of a wife for the rest of your life to avoid all the $$$ you'd have to give her... or you leave the dumb bitch, you're 70 years old, and left to die on your own.

Example C: Well, Example C is an example of not running to the chapel. Not growing impatient. Not fearing that God will allow you to meet someone. Example C is your only option. Unfortunately, as I've shown in http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=117578
people grow impatient too often, and choose Example A or B, instead of waiting for Example C.

Peace to you Test Boy.
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