How do you become a deeper person?

[Test boy]

I don't feel too good about the fact that I place so very much emphasis on attractiveness.

Has someone had this problem and overcome it? How?

 

[Golfer18--old]

I have problems getting any girl. Im a good looking guy (not bragging), but I cant find what im looking for .

 

[the People's Champ]

join the club...

 

[Test boy]

Me thinks this club is quite large.

 

[Franco C]

Im shallow

 

[VooDoo Lady]

I think age has a lot to do with it honestly. I have become a completely different person over the last few years and I have a clarity and perspective that I never thought possible. God, I can't wait to see what happens in another few years

Don't beat yourself up about it...

 

[Frackal]

Me too....bodybuilding has definitely made me hypercritical about looks...but you know what? I'm not worried about that....looks are basically my hobby in a way....looking good is vastly more important then many would like to admit...as long as you recognize that there is far more to a person than looks you are ok...I feel that I am also growing mentally, spirtually and emotionally/intelligently ... basically the game I'm in is self-IMPROVEMENT, not the opposite or staying stagnant....there is nothing wrong with that IMO, actually I think it is the "best way."

Just keep your ego in check or god will remind you to do so...

 

[Raina]

I've spent a lot of time with myself in the past year or so-- just figuring out what I wanted. I think I'm more honest with myself now and see the world more critically. I'm still a dreamer but I think I'm more grounded in realism. At least for this moment, I can say that I know myself well-- but I grow and change all the time and I've come to realize that I don't need another person to make me happy. Only I can make me happy.

 

[Test boy]

Me too....bodybuilding has definitely made me hypercritical about looks...but you know what? I'm not worried about that....looks are basically my hobby in a way....looking good is vastly more important then many would like to admit...as long as you recognize that there is far more to a person than looks you are ok...I feel that I am also growing mentally, spirtually and emotionally/intelligently ... basically the game I'm in is self-IMPROVEMENT, not the opposite or staying stagnant....there is nothing wrong with that IMO, actually I think it is the "best way."

Just keep your ego in check or god will remind you to do so...

You are pretty wise for your years. If I decide not to conquer the world...perhaps I pass the mantle to you.

 

[Crazier]

The facts are as follows:

Example A: You meet an ugly chic that has a great personality. You two couldn't get along better. Whether it's going to the grocery store, or going on a cruise... you two have fun. Always.

Example B: You meet a beautiful chic. She's a cunt. You tow couldn't get along worse. Whether it's going to the grocery store, or going on a cruise... the two of you don't click, and piss each other off. Always.

Example C: You mmet a beautiful chic who has a great personality. She has the good's in point A and B, without hte bad's in point A or point B.

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Those above are possible meetings, the below are possible futures.

Example A: In 50 years from now, no matter how YOU or she look, the bond of your personal feelings and same personalities will still keep your marriage strong.

Example B: In 50 years, well probably 10, 5 if she has a kid, the cunt now looks like Example A. However, her personality is still that of a cunt. You now have Example A for looks, and Example B for personality. You're fucked. You're either going to stay married to a bitch of a wife for the rest of your life to avoid all the $$$ you'd have to give her... or you leave the dumb bitch, you're 70 years old, and left to die on your own.

Example C: Well, Example C is an example of not running to the chapel. Not growing impatient. Not fearing that God will allow you to meet someone. Example C is your only option. Unfortunately, as I've shown in http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=117578
people grow impatient too often, and choose Example A or B, instead of waiting for Example C.

Peace to you Test Boy.
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[Test boy]

Hey...I meet pretty girls with good personalities all the time.They seem to always have boyfriends.

I'm thinking I got to kind of ignore that fact. Perhaps what they are really saying is that they put out.

 

[Immortal Juicer]

these boards help me alot. mabye i'm hanging out with the wrong people, but nobody i know in "real life" can engage in an intelligent discussion about diet, relationships, or god forbid, religion. any time i even bring up something other than fear factor or some stupid shit, people dont know what to say.

people that just do not know, are always like "dude, i bet nobody fucks with you. you are fucking huge dude." mabye i'm like this because i did get fucked with, but i didnt take it lying down. i got in the gym, into martial arts, and i changed the way i was because i was not the way i wanted to be.

anyway, i love these boards because its your mind that matters, not some bullshit illusion.

thanks ef bros!

 

[JohnBlaze]

yo, the blaze is a very deep person. people think that cause im so fuckin cool and good lookin that there isnt much beneath the perfect surface that people see. blaze has been through some serious shit. my life wasnt always all about blazin bitches and john blazin motherfuckers. i worked hard to get where i am and i keep that deep shit bottled up cause if i didnt i wouldnt be able to blaze like i blaze.

THIS IS JOHN BLAZE BEIN DEEP!!!!!

 

[Test boy]

yo, the blaze is a very deep person. people think that cause im so fuckin cool and good lookin that there isnt much beneath the perfect surface that people see. blaze has been through some serious shit. my life wasnt always all about blazin bitches and john blazin motherfuckers. i worked hard to get where i am and i keep that deep shit bottled up cause if i didnt i wouldnt be able to blaze like i blaze.

THIS IS JOHN BLAZE BEIN DEEP!!!!!

OK Blaze...but how does it feel to nurse various STD's while sitting in jail for assault?

 

[bunnymt]

I don't feel too good about the fact that I place so very much emphasis on attractiveness.

There are plenty of girls out there who are attractive and have good personalities. You are not going to find them, (usually) at bars or parties or swingers clubs! Maybe you will find one at the gym or through friends.

They are out there.

bunny

 

[Test boy]

Re: Re: How do you become a deeper person?

There are plenty of girls out there who are attractive and have good personalities. You are not going to find them, (usually) at bars or parties or swingers clubs! Maybe you will find one at the gym or through friends.

They are out there.

bunny

Thanks bunny...I've spent years at the gym. Generally a bad place to meet women. I think its a little rude to interrupt someones workout by hitting on them.

Truth is...I don't think I really want another girlfriend. But it gives me something to think about and talk about.


Bars are an excellent place to meet women. Too bad a lot of them drink too much but you can sort through that.

 

[JohnBlaze]

Re: Re: How do you become a deeper person?

There are plenty of girls out there who are attractive and have good personalities. You are not going to find them, (usually) at bars or parties or swingers clubs! Maybe you will find one at the gym or through friends.

They are out there.

bunny

yo baby, where can the blaze find a nice lady such as yourself wearing nothing but a whipped cream bikini in my bedroom? we need to do some of those pm things so we can get together and do some blazin!!! i been gettin mad pms from the elite hos but none from you. yet.

THIS IS BLAZE BEIN A INTERNET PIMP!!!!

 

[bunnymt]

Re: Re: Re: How do you become a deeper person?

Thanks bunny...I've spent years at the gym. Generally a bad place to meet women. I think its a little rude to interrupt someones workout by hitting on them.

Truth is...I don't think I really want another girlfriend. But it gives me something to think about and talk about.


Bars are an excellent place to meet women. Too bad a lot of them drink too much but you can sort through that.

I have met some nice people at the gym...including my boyfriend of 4 years!! You don't have to interrupt someone's workout to make eye contact with them and just start chatting when the time comes around.
In my experiences, I would not want to meet someone at a bar. But you say that you don't want a relationship...so maybe a bar could be a good place to "meat" someone.

It also depends on what you are looking for...

bunny

 

[bunnymt]

Re: Re: Re: How do you become a deeper person?

yo baby, where can the blaze find a nice lady such as yourself wearing nothing but a whipped cream bikini in my bedroom? we need to do some of those pm things so we can get together and do some blazin!!! i been gettin mad pms from the elite hos but none from you. yet.

THIS IS BLAZE BEIN A INTERNET PIMP!!!!

Are you speaking English because I am having a hard time understanding you??

bunny

 

[JohnBlaze]

Re: Re: Re: Re: How do you become a deeper person?

Are you speaking English because I am having a hard time understanding you??

bunny

yo baby, the blaze speaks a modified form of english known as "Blazelish" it sounds hella cool and the ladies love it. you tryin to tell the blaze that you dont love him? please, the blaze knows he had you at holla.

 

[Test boy]

Re: Re: Re: Re: How do you become a deeper person?

I have met some nice people at the gym...including my boyfriend of 4 years!! You don't have to interrupt someone's workout to make eye contact with them and just start chatting when the time comes around.
In my experiences, I would not want to meet someone at a bar. But you say that you don't want a relationship...so maybe a bar could be a good place to "meat" someone.


It also depends on what you are looking for...

bunny

I workout with free weights. The dames are doing cardio work and aerobics. Plus the women are not really in the best of shape for the most part.

"Meat" someone....haha, thats funny bunny.

I'd feel comfortable with a girl who liked to get together every two weeks. Most want more than that. A lot more than that.

 

[bunnymt]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: How do you become a deeper person?

I'd feel comfortable with a girl who liked to get together every two weeks. Most want more than that. A lot more than that.

There are a lot of men who feel the same way as you, which means that there are women out there for you too. Just keep on the look out, perhaps an older woman?

bunny

 

[Test boy]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: How do you become a deeper person?

There are a lot of men who feel the same way as you, which means that most of the appropriate women are taken. Just keep on the look out, perhaps an older woman?

bunny

An older woman would be great as our personalities link up better.

But see my thread about becoming a deeper person. An older woman who had aged very well would be ideal. Maybe 26-36 years old.

Hell...she can be 50 is she still looks grand.