How do u approach the other sex when interested

[Sub-Zero]

That advice is for girls and guys.

And I think a girl giving advice on girls is more likely correct than some of the bullshit in this thread....act like you don't give a fuck, act like you're not listening, etc etc. Worst advice ever. Don't act like anything.

youre just saying that bcz as a girl you dont want a dude to "act" or "front" - but if he did it would *work*

 

[-SD-]

A guy who has pulled a shitton will be in a better position to give advice on getting women than just about any woman.

 

[AFeedz]

I know it would work. Its worked before. Thats the problem. It works when girls put up fronts for guys too.

Then eventually everybody realizes the other person isn't who they thought they were and that they just wasted time with some loser.

 

[-SD-]

I know it would work. Its worked before. Thats the problem. It works when girls put up fronts for guys too.

Then eventually everybody realizes the other person isn't who they thought they were and that they just wasted time with some loser.

but guys dont give a shit because it suits their purposes (pulling ass) much closer than it suits most womens purposes (having relationships).

 

[AFeedz]

A guy who has pulled a shitton will be in a better position to give advice on getting women than just about any woman.

Lol a guy who's pulled in lots of girls but hasn't kept one can't give advice on anything but getting laid. Were talking apples and oranges. I'm talking relationships. Youre talking just getting a girls attention.

But I'm not trying to tell you guys how to get laid, you all claim to have that under control.

 

[PICK3]

dont act like you're the sweet, romantic guy if in a few months you won't be. Don't pretend you're listening and care about shit I say if in a few months you won't. Act upfront however you're going to act a year down the road.

olololostr8! @ a year down the road

I'd spew out romantic prose that wood make Keats' best works seem like monosyllabic buffoonery to get into the pink tonight



just sayin'

 

[AFeedz]

but guys dont give a shit because it suits their purposes (pulling ass) much closer than it suits most womens purposes (having relationships).

Obviously. I'm talking about when a guy actually wants to start a relationship with the girl involved.

If you're just looking to get laid, do what ya gotta do, lie who ya gotta lie to...preferably not to a nice girl.

 

[calveless wonder]

wow bro sounds stressful. no wonder ur single - u should try just finding a hot girl that likes to fuck

it's not. just important things to think about.

if a girl wants a serious relationship, those are questions i need to ask myself. no point in spending likely the last few year single years of my life with someone that i don't see a future with. my last girl had a lot of great wifey qualities, but there were a couple of major things missing (i.e. strong enough mental connection), so i knew it'd probably be over sooner than later.

in the meantime, yeah, that's ok.

 

[calveless wonder]

^--because no one wants to be like puddles. Being 35 and going to the club alone to hit on 21 year old chicks

 

[-SD-]

Lol a guy who's pulled in lots of girls but hasn't kept one can't give advice on anything but getting laid. Were talking apples and oranges. I'm talking relationships. Youre talking just getting a girls attention.

But I'm not trying to tell you guys how to get laid, you all claim to have that under control.

But getting laid does lead to relationships because the guy now has the chick emotionally vested on a different level and she subconsciously buys into him for the sake of staying with him in order to not perceive herself as a slut who just puts out and leaves.
Guys dont have this little hang up like women do. Ive had long term relationships come out of very fast sex initially.
And yea yea I know AFeedz would never ever act like that because she is a superduper awesome EF chick.