How do u approach the other sex when interested

[the.gladiator1987]

what does it mean to not care
I never fully understood that part. Its just in my nature to care.

I recently went and met this girl at a casino, she got drunk and was dancing and making out with other guys. I was pissed ya know and went and gambled. I ended up driving her home and said peace out. Would you have even took her home? Would you have left immediately? She texted back the next day and apologized. I said its cool. Would you have even texted back?

Ive been called a player by the way i act with girls, but I def have not ever done anything to be considered a player.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

lol subz u have very good points my man. I honestly am with her but I dont see me with her in 10 years. I see myself with a nice girl who has never cheated and that cares about her fitness and career, and is nice

 

[bigpokey]

run an tell dat!

 

[calveless wonder]

what does it mean to not care
I never fully understood that part. Its just in my nature to care.

I recently went and met this girl at a casino, she got drunk and was dancing and making out with other guys. I was pissed ya know and went and gambled. I ended up driving her home and said peace out. Would you have even took her home? Would you have left immediately? She texted back the next day and apologized. I said its cool. Would you have even texted back?

Ive been called a player by the way i act with girls, but I def have not ever done anything to be considered a player.

Not caring doesn't mean you have to a cold heartless asshole with no feelings. You can still be a compassionate person and be great with women b

It means you're not attached to the outcome of any interaction with a female. You're fine regardless of what happens and as a result you're not pressing/being desperate or doing things that are not normally you

 

[Sub-Zero]

lol subz u have very good points my man. I honestly am with her but I dont see me with her in 10 years. I see myself with a nice girl who has never cheated and that cares about her fitness and career, and is nice

i dont want to say that those dont exist, but i think you have a better chance at winning the lottery.

i want that too though, bro

 

[calveless wonder]

Thing is, you shouldn't care about people that aren't inclined to care about you glad.

That girl would have saved me time showing me how much of a whore she was and I would have moved onto to the next one.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

Not caring doesn't mean you have to a cold heartless asshole with no feelings. You can still be a compassionate person and be great with women b

It means you're not attached to the outcome of any interaction with a female. You're fine regardless of what happens and as a result you're not pressing/being desperate or doing things that are not normally you

Im slowly learning to find a happy-medium between the two extreme of either being a complete asshole and being mean, or being too nice and forgiving them of any mistake right away.

I also have the mindset that I am better looking than most guys, so I shouldnt have to deal with this shit. But I do because im nice.

 

[Sub-Zero]

what does it mean to not care
I never fully understood that part. Its just in my nature to care.

I recently went and met this girl at a casino, she got drunk and was dancing and making out with other guys. I was pissed ya know and went and gambled. I ended up driving her home and said peace out. Would you have even took her home? Would you have left immediately? She texted back the next day and apologized. I said its cool. Would you have even texted back?

Ive been called a player by the way i act with girls, but I def have not ever done anything to be considered a player.

if a girl calls u a player its prolly bcz she wants u to act like one and fuck her, just sayin.

also, its not that they "dont care", its that they dont care about you. they care about themselves and their image or whatever it is that drives them to act like sluts, more than they care about individual people. iv been told it has to do with being "insecure" and they derive security from being able to manipulate abunch of people with sexuality.

but fuck, if i was more secure i think id be fucking every hoe i could, to be quite honest

 

[calveless wonder]

i dont want to say that those dont exist, but i think you have a better chance at winning the lottery.

i want that too though, bro

They exist. trust me. They're rare but they're not impossible to find. The thing you'll realize when you get a girl that fits your basic criteria, is that there's still a lot more to it you want out of a partner. I've dated girls in the past two years ago that seemingly are great. good, honest , attractive,loyal women and
Some of them with great careers or about to graduate with some advanced degree.

But there's always more to it. So many things have to be in sync in a relationship for it work. It extends far beyond a few specific (albeit important traits).

 

[Sub-Zero]

They exist. trust me. They're rare but they're not impossible to find. The thing you'll realize when you get a girl that fits your basic criteria, is that there's still a lot more to it you want out of a partner. I've dated girls in the past two years ago that seemingly are great. good, honest , attractive,loyal women and
Some of them with great careers or about to graduate with some advanced degree.

But there's always more to it.

we just crave those wild sluts