How can I ask her

[anthrax]

There is a girl I've been small talking to for a while
She's okay but I've seen her with a guy who was obviously her BF

Yesterday she talked to me as if we've known each other well and were somewhat close, almost flirting w/ me

I'd like to know for sure if she really has a BF but since I see her on a regular basis (she lives close to where I am) I don't want to look like a fool if she says she indeed has a BF
What should I do?

 

[PBR]

bro there is nothing wrong about asking her if she indeed has a BF...not knowing and acting weird around an unknown situation is much more of a uncomfortable circumstance...this in itself could lead to something unknowingly foolish...just ask bro. she will admire your maturity and consideration...

 

[anthrax]

bro there is nothing wrong about asking her if she indeed has a BF...not knowing and acting weird around an unknown situation is much more of a uncomfortable circumstance...this in itself could lead to something unknowingly foolish...just ask bro. she will admire your maturity and consideration...

I guess you're right Dr Phil

I have to find a way to bring up the subject w/o looking too obvious ... like

"Nice weather, hey?"
"yes, nice weather"
"Btw, do you have a BF?"

 

[PBR]

I guess you're right Dr Phil

I have to find a way to bring up the subject w/o looking too obvious ... like

"Nice weather, hey?"
"yes, nice weather"
"Btw, do you have a BF?"

actually throwing in some humor like that is great...good call bro.

 

[Gymgurl]

Just ASK her

 

[immortalis]

Just ASK her

no shit.

 

[KillahBee]

Does it matter to you?

I ask this question because many times I don't want to know. If it's a situation where I am not necessarily interested in becoming this girl's monogamous boyfriend AND I get the feeling that she is interested in me (regardless of her BF) AND I don't consider it "immoral" to participate in a "cheating" situation, then I don't want to know if she has a BF and I certainly don't want to bring attention to it and put her mind in that place.

But, that's me.

 

[anthrax]

Does it matter to you?

I ask this question because many times I don't want to know. If it's a situation where I am not necessarily interested in becoming this girl's monogamous boyfriend AND I get the feeling that she is interested in me (regardless of her BF) AND I don't consider it "immoral" to participate in a "cheating" situation, then I don't want to know if she has a BF and I certainly don't want to bring attention to it and put her mind in that place.

But, that's me.

Good point!

 

[Gymgurl]

I would rather a guy just ask me if I am interested ot have a bf or whatever...I don't think anythin gless of him if I do I am flattered that he is interested and if something changes I would keep him in mind

 

[gotmilk]

and if something changes I would keep him in mind

 

[perp69]

Yeah, man. Just ask her and I would make it obvious why you are asking that way she knows. It will make her day either way unless she is just nuts or something.

Perp

 

[Cutiebaby]

Nothing wrong with asking her. Better off if you ask IMO

 

[Synpax]

Whether she has a bf or not is irrelevant to whether or not you should ask her out. If she were married or engaged, back off, but otherwise, take a shot.

Don't try to ask questions to find out if it is OK to ask her out, just ask her out.

I've asked girls out right in front of their much larger (mostly fat though) BFs and gotten a yes.

 

[chestmaster1]

Whether she has a bf or not is irrelevant to whether or not you should ask her out. If she were married or engaged, back off, but otherwise, take a shot.

Don't try to ask questions to find out if it is OK to ask her out, just ask her out.

I've asked girls out right in front of their much larger (mostly fat though) BFs and gotten a yes.

LoL, What do their boyfriends say?

 

[StickFigure]

I would rather a guy just ask me if I am interested ot have a bf or whatever...I don't think anythin gless of him if I do I am flattered that he is interested and if something changes I would keep him in mind

Are you interested ao do you have a bf??
hehe!

 

[myd]

Both for guys and girls are healthy if they are flirting or someone flirting with them even if they are taken. Should we ignore everything, close our eyes, ears and mouths since we are with someone? It does not mean they cheat.

I had experience some people asked me out probably because I am usually very -too??- opened and jestey to everyone. I didn't say yes, bc I wasn't interested in them romantically and they just stopped talking to me. This is so kindergarden.