bro im 24 and i still live at home with my mom. i make at minimum 5-6 grand a month plus work 6 days a week. she isnt married and enjoys my company so first off fuck you to anyone who says you shouldnt be living at home at 23. sorry i want to save my money to live somewhere nice, not paycheck to paycheck because i have rent to pay and other bullshit because i need to "be a man". i buy my own food, pay my car payments, car insurance, phone bill and everything else i need for myself and i help my mom out around the house so anyone commenting on that people like me are a bitch because we still live at home FUCK YOU!!!! i paid 490 a month to live by myself up at school with MY OWN MONEY from dishwashing til 1 am every night at chilis. so in essence you can still live at home with parents and have some integrity. aside from that, bro if they truly are going through all your shit then if you CAN afford it move out...thats just fucked up. youre 23 and they should respect that. aside from that get a safe and never tell them the combination...and tell them to fuck off if they wanna see whats in it.