hey bro, 1st off my parent s sound like urs, quick ta freak-out bout any little thing like that, several yrs back i had a pretty serious cocain habit, got to be the kinda "out-of-hand" that u just cant hide. anyway, got cleaned up found good bro's and found tha gym then gear. needless to say the folks are happier than a puppy w/ three peters to know that im going to tha gym an stay'n healthy rather than going to tha dope house. so just ask them which would they would prefer. mine were never cooler!!!