glad i can be inspiring... but EAT!!! when i'm "dieting" i eat over 2500 cal a day!!! you need food to support that activity... clean foods will help you get the energy to support activity... do a search for diets, i've posted mine here and on the pics of members board (this is the most recent one)... i have a fast metabolism, so you may not want to go that high with the cals, but you have the right idea by eating a number of small meals (bump them up to 5 or 6) rather than 2-3 big ones... that'll give you sustainable energy through out the day...
lifting is a start make sure you work all the major muscle groups in your body, not just your abs and butt! (legs, back, chest, shoulders, biceps, triceps...) you'll feel better when all your muscles are tighter, and a little muscle will go a long way to help burn fat...
cutting down on sugar is a definate plus... good work on that one... try this instead of french toast...
take a piece of whole wheat bread put it in a frying pan, soak it in skim milk... take a glass and cut a whole out of the centre of the bread, crack an egg inside the whole in the bread, cook it up... maybe add a little all natural maple syrup rather than pancake syrup (NO ONE can make me give up my maple syrup!!!)...
rather than pretzles get some veggie sticks... add some more protein, clean carbs.... and some good fats (all natural peanut butter, flax seed oil ect)
you're getting there... keep it up, keep reading, you'll learn new stuff every day... i know i do!!!
about the bf- go to a gym and get someone to pinch you with those caliper things... (they may have other methods too)... but this is the best way to check your body fat... most web sites will just give you a bmi (body mass index) number, which is similar but not the same as body fat (do a search for BMI to find one of those, it will be of some help if you can't get the bf done right away)