Have you ever or would you date someone from the Gym?????

[princesa]

I was talking to this really nice guy from the gym and he asked me out to dinner. I have a rule not to date anyone from the gym or work place. So when he asked i sort of made a face, I didn't know how to turn him down without hurting his feelings. So I told him the truth, i have a rule not to date anyone from the gym. He goes well we are adults..listen I don't mean to push you, think about it....Darn it..it was a little hard. I did wanna have dinner with him...those deep Blue eyes He is 10 years older then me but he seems pretty nice. I told him I would think about it.

HOw would you handle it?

 

[Megalomaniac]

I was talking to this really nice guy from the gym and he asked me out to dinner. I have a rule not to date anyone from the gym or work place. So when he asked i sort of made a face, I didn't know how to turn him down without hurting his feelings. So I told him the truth, i have a rule not to date anyone from the gym. He goes well we are adults..listen I don't mean to push you, think about it....Darn it..it was a little hard. I did wanna have dinner with him...those deep Blue eyes He is 10 years older then me but he seems pretty nice. I told him I would think about it.

HOw would you handle it?

say screw him and go out with me, that is the best advice I can give you.



JK. Why don't you date from the gym. Just make a deal from the start that it is cool as long as it is your gym if it doesn't work out. If I asked a cool, hot lady out from my gym and she purposed that then I would have to take the situation more seriously. I see no harm there.

 

[the_alcatraz]

Been there. Done that.

 

[cindylou]

I was talking to this really nice guy from the gym and he asked me out to dinner. I have a rule not to date anyone from the gym or work place. So when he asked i sort of made a face, I didn't know how to turn him down without hurting his feelings. So I told him the truth, i have a rule not to date anyone from the gym. He goes well we are adults..listen I don't mean to push you, think about it....Darn it..it was a little hard. I did wanna have dinner with him...those deep Blue eyes He is 10 years older then me but he seems pretty nice. I told him I would think about it.

HOw would you handle it?

do it just this once

 

[-Ariel-]

I was talking to this really nice guy from the gym and he asked me out to dinner. I have a rule not to date anyone from the gym or work place. So when he asked i sort of made a face, I didn't know how to turn him down without hurting his feelings. So I told him the truth, i have a rule not to date anyone from the gym. He goes well we are adults..listen I don't mean to push you, think about it....Darn it..it was a little hard. I did wanna have dinner with him...those deep Blue eyes He is 10 years older then me but he seems pretty nice. I told him I would think about it.

HOw would you handle it?

Silly rules are meant to be broken, I know its your gym and all, but give it a shot, you never know, that said.. I do understand the rule, weigh it out... does he seem that charming? Are there possibilities of something a little more long term? How much does he bench? j/k lol... but go with your gut.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I met my exhusband in the gym, that was enough to turn me off to it FOR GOOD. LOL After I split from him I did adhere to the strict rule though because I will say I am very proud. I never EVER wanted any man to *talk smack* about anything that we did or didn't do. I have been in the gym for over 20 years now and just felt (just as the no dating anyone I worked with rule) it was best FOR ME to adhere to the rule.

But for you, you should do what you feel is best.

 

[stosstruppe]

Seeing as the free weights (all male) and cardio (predominantly female) sections are split I wouldn't mind.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

he's cheating on you

 

[sixxtoes]

i did and we were together for four years

 

[calveless wonder]

i don't like dating people where i can see them frequently. the awkwardness is not worth it. if it's awkward enough you have to change your gym schedule or gym