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have you ever cheated on an s/o?

yes, it was pretty early in our relationship though and I was bartending at school soooo it was kinda inevitable
 
Don't think I have.

I only had a few So's. But, never cheated.

But, people still think I am scum because I have banged a shit load of gals when I was single.
 
borris said:
yes, it was pretty early in our relationship though and I was bartending at school soooo it was kinda inevitable
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if you had to guess, what would you say your chances of relapse are?
 
nimbus said:
if you had to guess, what would you say your chances of relapse are?
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ummmmmm, i'm not really one to go out of my way and lie to my girlfriend about another girl i'm seeing or put my self in a situation like that, but if i'm at a bar or club with friends or whatever, throw back a dozen shots, have a dime piece tryin pop lock't on my cock, yeah i'll hit it w/o hesitation and never call back
 
i have, only with one gf though.
but it was the gf i proly shoulda kept around and i still feel bad (over 6 yrs ago)
it got worse and worse...the first time was just drunken making out, that broke down the moral barrier.
before long i was nailing this one gal repeatedly behind the gf's back.
it all came to a head on new yrs eve 1999, i ate a bunch of shrooms with my gf at this party.
tripping my head off, and my mistress shows up.
threw my night into turmoil
 
Tirpitz said:
i have, only with one gf though.
but it was the gf i proly shoulda kept around and i still feel bad (over 6 yrs ago)
it got worse and worse...the first time was just drunken making out, that broke down the moral barrier.
before long i was nailing this one gal repeatedly behind the gf's back.
it all came to a head on new yrs eve 1999, i ate a bunch of shrooms with my gf at this party.
tripping my head off, and my mistress shows up.
threw my night into turmoil
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wow that night deserves it's own thread
 
nimbus said:
or you could hook this thread up
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that's about all to the story
don't know if you've tripped before, but it can fuck with your head majorly.
combined with a huge sense of guilt and trying to keep cool was unbearable.
def a bad trip, it was dark and the music was bumping so i was able to go insane quietly and with nobody noticing (i think)
 
I went out with a girl for 6 months right after the breakup of my first relationship of 3+years (HS relationship) so I guess it was a sort of rebound even though I did not consider it that until the relationship was over.

Even though I really hurt the girl, I knew that she wasn't the one and the girl I cheated on her with is now my wife with whom we have been together for over 8 years now.

I could have easily broke up with her before cheating but I found myself so consumed and in love with my eventual wife that it didn't matter at the time.
 
naw...got burned by a bitch when i was younger, my first gf.

made me realize i rather break up with a bitch before cheating on her. if you don't want to be with that person exclusively and that's the circumstances of the relationship, then just leave.

people who cheat will always cheat, at least in that relationship.
 
calveless wonder said:
naw...got burned by a bitch when i was younger, my first gf.

made me realize i rather break up with a bitch before cheating on her. if you don't want to be with that person exclusively and that's the circumstances of the relationship, then just leave.

people who cheat will always cheat, at least in that relationship.
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Same :(
 
I have only not cheated on one girl I was serious with. I don't feel great about that, and expect some karma returns, but I also don't lose sleep over it. I have cheated on every single girl I have ever been with save the last one. It go so bad that at one point an entire party saw me leave with my ex (while my current was away looking at med schools) and several people even told my current. I have always been a good BSer, so I have never been caught.

But I put a monogamous dating embargo on myself until I am ready to be faithful and control myself. It's been almost 2 years.
 
Stefka said:
Awesome, that is totally what I was going for.
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you know that cheating sex is always the best
sucks the day after, but during it rawks
did you ever cheat then fuck your bf in the same day or same few days?
 
Tirpitz said:
that's about all to the story
don't know if you've tripped before, but it can fuck with your head majorly.
combined with a huge sense of guilt and trying to keep cool was unbearable.
def a bad trip, it was dark and the music was bumping so i was able to go insane quietly and with nobody noticing (i think)
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yea ive shroomed b4, that's why i was so intrigued by what could've been going through your head
 
I don't think very many people are going to admit it.
 
Yep.

In a 4 year relationship: I fell in love with someone else, lied about it, snuck around, left both men, punished myself for a year and married the second guy after forgiving myself and getting my head back on.
 
cindylou said:
Yep.

In a 4 year relationship: I fell in love with someone else, lied about it, snuck around, left both men, punished myself for a year and married the second guy after forgiving myself and getting my head back on.
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did your year-long punishment include dating other dudes?
 
i've never cheated, but i've never been put to the ultimate test either; i.e., had a girl try to jump my bones right there on the spot while i had a gf.
 
nimbus said:
holy shit that's amazing
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I felt pretty bad about what happened and was not interested in men at all. I felt like i did not deserve to be with anyone.

Guilt is a bitch. at least for me. I'll never do it again.


Its a rush while you do it, but I came crashing down hard.
 
nimbus said:
i've never cheated, but i've never been put to the ultimate test either; i.e., had a girl try to jump my bones right there on the spot while i had a gf.
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There is a saying in my language that sorta goes like this, "If I really want to cheat on you all I have to do is lift my leg." In other words it ain't all that hard to cheat if you WANT to so, the opposite is also true IMHO.

With the lifestyles (lotta travel for work) and technology (cell phones and internet) cheating is VERY EASY ANYMORE. I do not believe that it is the circumstance that makes the thief in this regard. So IMHO it is all left up to character and consequences.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
There is a saying in my language that sorta goes like this, "If I really want to cheat on you all I have to do is lift my leg." In other words it ain't all that hard to cheat if you WANT to so, the opposite is also true IMHO.

With the lifestyles (lotta travel for work) and technology (cell phones and internet) cheating is VERY EASY ANYMORE. I do not believe that it is the circumstance that makes the thief in this regard. So IMHO it is all left up to character and consequences.
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i totally disagree because it's one thing to have the discipline to not drive to some girls house, quite another to push her away if she were to throw you against a wall and just go at it
 
nimbus said:
i totally disagree because it's one thing to have the discipline to not drive to some girls house, quite another to push her away if she were to throw you against a wall and just go at it
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Nope... I am telling you it is the same. If you dont WANT to cheat then what difference does the temptation make? You mean to tell me that if you had an issue with cheating a woman is capable of raping you? If we used your logic then that would be like giving free passes to beautiful women as ya'll know that men are far more predatory/borderline rapists then MOST wome could ever be.

Sorry it don't fly. I have had more offers and opportunities than I care to remember - we are talking even offering to share my apartment for the evening with a man that I had dated in the past a few weeks before I was to be wed. You think he didnt TRY?

Made me all that much more POWERFUL when I turned his sorry ass down. :qt: He had his chance BEFORE and blew it because he "got too busy with his own life to care too much about mine". He continued to try even months after I WAS married....

There is POWER in remaining faithfull. If you cheat, then you reduce your value. <---- this is just MY take but it works for me (and subsequently any man that I ultimately pledge my fidelity too). :)
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Nope... I am telling you it is the same. If you dont WANT to cheat then what difference does the temptation make? You mean to tell me that if you had an issue with cheating a woman is capable of raping you? If we used your logic then that would be like giving free passes to beautiful women as ya'll know that men are far more predatory/borderline rapists then MOST wome could ever be.

Sorry it don't fly. I have had more offers and opportunities than I care to remember - we are talking even offering to share my apartment for the evening with a man that I had dated in the past a few weeks before I was to be wed. You think he didnt TRY?

Made me all that much more POWERFUL when I turned his sorry ass down. :qt: He had his chance BEFORE and blew it because he "got too busy with his own life to care too much about mine". He continued to try even months after I WAS married....

There is POWER in remaining faithfull. If you cheat, then you reduce your value. <---- this is just MY take but it works for me (and subsequently any man that I ultimately pledge my fidelity too). :)
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you think the temptation to eat a chocolate bar is the same whether you'll have to go the store and buy a chocolate bar, or there is one being dangled right in front of your face?
 
nimbus said:
you think the temptation to eat a chocolate bar is the same whether you'll have to go the store and buy a chocolate bar, or there is one being dangled right in front of your face?
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This is not about temptation. It is about restraint.

I competed in several bbing competitions where I still had to take care of and mother four little kids and to make it even crazier I would bake cookies not only for my girls but to give as gifts to those who were helping me. And No, I never once even licked my fingers. Was it cheating? No... as in the end I was the one that would be short-changed... right?

Bottom line is no matter how good that chocolate bar looks. smells and how much I talked myself into "it wouldn't hurt just to take a LITTLE taste and in the end who would know... right?"

I WOULD KNOW and that is already one person too many.

... besides why would I give a shit about a lick of a chocolate bar (or hell, even if I gobbled down the whole damned thing enjoying it every second of the time I am consuming it) somewhere when I have a FEAST waiting for me at home? Would YOU jeopardize daily feasting for ONE chocolate bar? I know I wouldn't as this just doesn't seem to make sense to me is all I am saying.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
This is not about temptation. It is about restraint.

I competed in several bbing competitions where I still had to take care of and mother four little kids and to make it even crazier I would bake cookies not only for my girls but to give as gifts to those who were helping me. And No, I never once even licked my fingers. Was it cheating? No... as in the end I was the one that would be short-changed... right?

Bottom line is no matter how good that chocolate bar looks. smells and how much I talked myself into "it wouldn't hurt just to take a LITTLE taste and in the end who would know... right?"

I WOULD KNOW and that is already one person too many.

... besides why would I give a shit about a lick of a chocolate bar (or hell, even if I gobbled down the whole damned thing enjoying it every second of the time I am consuming it) somewhere when I have a FEAST waiting for me at home? Would YOU jeopardize daily feasting for ONE chocolate bar? I know I wouldn't as this just doesn't seem to make sense to me is all I am saying.
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if humans were consistently rational, the world be a very very different place. props to you if you have a steadfast resolve and are immune to acting irrationally because of temptation, because most people aren't. and for those that aren't, the degree of temptation makes a difference
 
nimbus said:
i totally disagree because it's one thing to have the discipline to not drive to some girls house, quite another to push her away if she were to throw you against a wall and just go at it
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You're right. So, being aware of that, I expect anyone dating me to do what they can to avoid those situations. I do the same. If I am committed to someone and exclusively dating, I do what I can to never be in a one on one situation with another guy, no matter how innocent the reasons. To me, being faithful isn't just about not having physical contact...it's avoiding the things that might lead to it.

I was cheated on once....a few years back. He confessed. He was a damn fool.
 
nimbus said:
if humans were consistently rational, the world be a very very different place. props to you if you have a steadfast resolve and are immune to acting irrationally because of temptation, because most people aren't. and for those that aren't, the degree of temptation makes a difference
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Oh I do agree with the rational part. For me perhaps since I have come to look at the whole "cheating thing" the way that I have it makes it VERY EASY for me to remain faithfull as I am very concerned with diminishing my value to myself. Sadly, there so many other ways that I have torn myself down. :( I am no better than others because cheating isn't one of them. I'm WAY HUMAN too.
 
Yep. Cheated many times and been cheated on many times. Every time I meet a girl I think to myself maybe this will be the one girl I don't cheat on and do my best not to. Now that I'm older and more mature it's not nearly as hard. Although I still find temptation around every corner even when I'm not looking for it.

Last time I cheated though it turned out to be a good thing - got me out of a relationship that was going nowhere and freed me up to meet a much better person.

I've also been hit by the karma bus many times, every time I do I know I deserve it and just move on.
 
This thread is pretty crazy....

You guys are all fucked, immoral scum.

I bet 75% of you people have herpes......
 
HS Lifter said:
This thread is pretty crazy....

You guys are all fucked, immoral scum.

I bet 75% of you people have herpes......
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LOL. I'll never forget the time I met you out in Cali. Was a fun time even though I'm a boring chap in person.
 
digimon7068 said:
we went out on our first date on october 21, 1989 and that was it for me. . .been 18+ years since the last time i was in the company of any other woman. . .best years of my life. :)
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( where's the emocon for someone throwing up)
I've banged many... I had this one girl that... I used to have, once I.... well
no, me neither. But there always a first!

damn Digi, you make me want to make something up, I swear......
 
cindylou said:
I felt pretty bad about what happened and was not interested in men at all. I felt like i did not deserve to be with anyone.

Guilt is a bitch. at least for me. I'll never do it again.


Its a rush while you do it, but I came crashing down hard.
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Exact opposite for me, I did it out of spite for having been cheated on in the past... and I've continued to do it. I suppose I could have looked inside myself to see what I was lacking that caused someone to stray, but it's more fun to stoop to her level and do it to every girl afterwards.
 
No I haven't, because I've not had lengthy relationships. I wouldn't date much in the bf/gf sense. I was way too much of a freelancer to stay in one place. My life was really fast paced andeveryone I met knew that.

I did have one "steady" gf that cheated on me and ruined me forever. But in the end one must be able to live with their actions, and speaking for myself, I can not do it. I will not do it. I'm an intimate person and live my life that way.

Let me tell you women, if i love you, I'll let you know and I'll love the fuck out of you. You'll know that I won't stray and you'll like it.
 
gonelifting said:
No I haven't, because I've not had lengthy relationships. I wouldn't date much in the bf/gf sense. I was way too much of a freelancer to stay in one place. My life was really fast paced andeveryone I met knew that.

I did have one "steady" gf that cheated on me and ruined me forever. But in the end one must be able to live with their actions, and speaking for myself, I can not do it. I will not do it. I'm an intimate person and live my life that way.

Let me tell you women, if i love you, I'll let you know and I'll love the fuck out of you. You'll know that I won't stray and you'll like it.
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awesome
 
Got cheated on once, it ruined me. I didn't talk to wimmens for a while, then when I did I would just have sex and drop them. Pretty shitty on my part. I never have cheated. Lately I've had so many opportunities just present themselves, but I can't do it. I know it's because my relationship is circling the drain that I'd even entertain it, but it never goes past my head.
 
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