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THeMaCHinE
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TxCollegeguy said:
Word.
Has your girl ever......
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Word.
Xalthus said:
well...if someone loved me and i love them i wouldn't much mind about their past, really...
i know it's hard to trust over the net
i guess you can hope the best, that she really means stuff, and see if she really does move to be near you or other stuff she says
it seems unfair to me that a woman with a sexual history - even if unusual - would make her seem less trustworthy than any other woman. really a virgin could mess with ya and leave ya high and dry, know what i mean?
so if she's kewl give her a chance i say...and if she doesn't do what she said at least give her fair opportunity to explain, it might not be her fault...
those are my suggestions...
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helen
This relationship will never work. 
It's quite obvious you consider her damaged in some respect and there seems to be no level of trust and faith in her from you.
I wonder though - what would be you opinion of her if she had a threesome with one man and another woman.
Just curious.
Double standard - but a man will always be able to a whore and get away with it. A women will always have to be sexually modest or lie to be deemed worthy.
To each his own.
It's quite obvious you consider her damaged in some respect and there seems to be no level of trust and faith in her from you.
I wonder though - what would be you opinion of her if she had a threesome with one man and another woman.
Just curious.
Double standard - but a man will always be able to a whore and get away with it. A women will always have to be sexually modest or lie to be deemed worthy.
To each his own.
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ryker77
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Its ok to be with her and to love her. Just don't Marry her. Marriage is a religious event and since she doesn't sound like she has strong ethics then she wouldn't make a good wife.
But what the hell get her to get a friend and have some fun.
But what the hell get her to get a friend and have some fun.
Whoever mentioned Chasing Amy hit the nail on the head. Go watch that movie. If you love her, her past shouldn't matter. If you can't accept the fact that she has done nothing wrong to *you*, and nothing to make you think you can't trust her, you don't deserve her. She obviously loves you and you need to get past your unfounded jealousy. She doesn't have a history of cheating - she has a history of experimentation.
If you can't handle a girl's past, don't ask her. You'll both be happier.
And if there's ANY chance you'd ever hit her, I hope she leaves you anyway. You don't have the right to beat someone unless they are trying to physically hurt you.
If you can't handle a girl's past, don't ask her. You'll both be happier.
And if there's ANY chance you'd ever hit her, I hope she leaves you anyway. You don't have the right to beat someone unless they are trying to physically hurt you.
THeMaCHinE
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velvett said:
Not in all circles. I know what you're saying though.
jja said:
So God's important in marriage, just not when you're fucking around beforehand??? If you fuck around before marriage then *YOU* don't have strong ethics (at least from a religious standpoint) either. You're going to hell
nah...you can do what you like as long as you say "Jesus is my personal Savior!!!" so they say, anyway...
it could be all wrong but do they care hell no...
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helen
The past is just that, the past..
I don't understand why everybody is so worried about her past.
I know I have made mistakes in my past, and I have
learned from them and grew as a person. If I don't want to be judge for my past, I'm certainlly not going
judge her for her past.
I don't understand why everybody is so worried about her past.
I know I have made mistakes in my past, and I have
learned from them and grew as a person. If I don't want to be judge for my past, I'm certainlly not going
judge her for her past.
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