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Has your girl ever......

Xalthus

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Lets say you love some girl with all your heart, and she is totally head over heels for you. But you find out about her sexual past, and it kind of bothers you... Lets say she had 3 somes (2 other guys). And lesbian relations. But it was about 2 years ago. But she says she had no feelings with any of the past relations which makes her seem like such a whore, (and she almost got pregnant from one of them). The one she almost got pregnant from moved then she moved to another state and hooked up with you about 1 month later. And she says ur the only one she ever loved this much and that she has changed. What would you think of her, would you be with her, would you trust her, would you love her...
 
This is a tough one, obviously I'd want a girl who hasn't slept around a lot, but what is the cutoff point? 5 people? 10 people? I try not to judge people on thier past, just what has done since she met me. I don't even discuss these things with my girlfriends, I sure as hell don't want them knowing how many girls I've banged over the years...
 
damn xalthus..that is hard...dont let anybody tell you this is an easy decision...

whew..i'm speechless..i dont think you wanna know what i'd do..
 
Xalthus said:
Lets say you love some girl with all your heart

I've done stuff sexually in the past that I wish I hadn't. The past is the past. You can't change it. Let it lie. But keep a watchful (not controlling/jealous/suspicious) eye.

You already said you love her. Loving somebody implies taking risks.
 
As an afterthought, she's done the things necessary to remove herself from the past situations. That's a good thing.

And as far as her not caring about the past relations, she probably did. But is doesn't want to threaten you/burden you with that knowledge. Or maybe the breaks were so severe that she lost the love that she once had for them. Very few women are able to be sexual without having feelings.
 
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Thick dog said:
THeMaCHinE said:


I've done stuff sexually in the past that I wish I hadn't.

lol, yeah those 3 goats at the petting zoo was entirely uncalled for...

Goddamit -- you told me you wouldn't tell anybody!! Maybe I should tell everybody how you know about that... lol
 
how do you 'almost get pregnant'? The good thing is, you may be able to get her to bring a chick in to the festivities, so there may be an upside to her slutty behavior.
 
personally, I couldn't stomach it if my g/f had threesomes with two guys...i mean picture it..........ok, for your sake, don't. But then again, you love her, so it's a tough situation. Good luck w/ whatever you decide
 
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