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Has anyone read this book?

You chose to impregnate a lying slut, whom you barely knew. It had train wreck printed all over it from the word go. The fact she also happened to have a pain in the ass mother is more coincidental than causative.

That being said, in laws can be very difficult to cope with. The fact is, you fall in love with someone and marry them and you also get saddled with their family (unless you move far, far away). Occasionally it happens that you really like/get along with your in-laws, and your wife feels the same about your family, but honestly, it's pretty rare.
 
I bother because if I ever got back with her. rare chance but its possible.

MM - It sucks that her family is just negative. Her brothers and mom are just negative people and I dont want my son around that shit (assuming he is my kid - I find out Wednesday). My ex said she wants the baby to see her mom every day, and it makes me feel like im just an attachment to her family and not the head of MY family. I feel its fucked up that my son gets to see her mom every day and I dont. Fuckin makes me sick. My only 2 optinos right now are to either be with her and make it work and tell her she aint fuckin seein mommy every damn day, or get partial custody so at least I have some QUALITY time with my baby every other weekend.

This is all speculation, and assuming I ever got back with her, of course. In my honest opinion i think it would be stupid to get back with her after everything lol. Just sucks because we have a baby together and I wanted to be a family.
 
these are consequences of your actions. you knew the type of girl she was when you knocked her up*(TBD)

the reason i say why even bother is that you aren't going to read the whole book nor get the mesage the author is trying to present. like anything else your just going to skim through and read whatever you think best suits yourself at the time.
 
I bother because if I ever got back with her. rare chance but its possible.

MM - It sucks that her family is just negative. Her brothers and mom are just negative people and I dont want my son around that shit (assuming he is my kid - I find out Wednesday). My ex said she wants the baby to see her mom every day, and it makes me feel like im just an attachment to her family and not the head of MY family. I feel its fucked up that my son gets to see her mom every day and I dont. Fuckin makes me sick. My only 2 optinos right now are to either be with her and make it work and tell her she aint fuckin seein mommy every damn day, or get partial custody so at least I have some QUALITY time with my baby every other weekend.

This is all speculation, and assuming I ever got back with her, of course. In my honest opinion i think it would be stupid to get back with her after everything lol. Just sucks because we have a baby together and I wanted to be a family.
I wish you wouldn't get attached to that child. You're only going to break your own heart.

To her and her mother, you are an income stream and as long as you're useful (i.e., babysitting so she can keep going out and seeking the next revenue stream) she'll want you around. If she has a built in babysitter, she's going to put blockades in your path to limit your contact with the kid as much as possible because if you're a frequent presence in the house and around the kid constantly, you'll "scare off" the next potential male. Hard enough finding a guy who's willing to take on someone else's kid, nevermind having to deal with the kids father.
 
I wish you wouldn't get attached to that child. You're only going to break your own heart.

To her and her mother, you are an income stream and as long as you're useful (i.e., babysitting so she can keep going out and seeking the next revenue stream) she'll want you around. If she has a built in babysitter, she's going to put blockades in your path to limit your contact with the kid as much as possible because if you're a frequent presence in the house and around the kid constantly, you'll "scare off" the next potential male. Hard enough finding a guy who's willing to take on someone else's kid, nevermind having to deal with the kids father.


You clearly dont understand or know my situation at all.
 
do you have money saved up to pay the test if it is yours? I think dads have to pay for it if positive, am i right?
 
You clearly dont understand or know my situation at all.

You better start pay attention rob. If the kids yours do you really think your ex will be all agreeable with splitting time with you and the kid? You admitted yourself that shes a huge party girl, so having you in the picture will not be good for any guys she wants to get involved with and she knows that. Everything you do will have to be eventually court mandated. Shes a lying cheating bish and having a kid wont change that.
 
You better start pay attention rob. If the kids yours do you really think your ex will be all agreeable with splitting time with you and the kid? You admitted yourself that shes a huge party girl, so having you in the picture will not be good for any guys she wants to get involved with and she knows that. Everything you do will have to be eventually court mandated. Shes a lying cheating bish and having a kid wont change that.

She wants to be a family. She wants to get back together and have me move in her 2bdrm house (700/month). She is NOT a party girl at all. She just goes to the same bar with her mom and friend every weekend. Its not even like you would imagine, its just dancing and talking. She doesnt drink often

I do wanna get legal custody even if we are together. But you are right bro, she is a lying cheating bish. Idk if i could ever get over that. Right now I just wanna be in my kids life (if he is mine) and let time decide whether I will be back with her or not. She wants to get back with me bad
 
not a party girl at all but goes to the bar every weekend?

that makes zero sense. my wife hang out with her mom as weel but they don't go to the bar. they go shopping and have lunch several times per week.
 
You chose to impregnate a lying slut, whom you barely knew. It had train wreck printed all over it from the word go. The fact she also happened to have a pain in the ass mother is more coincidental than causative.

That being said, in laws can be very difficult to cope with. The fact is, you fall in love with someone and marry them and you also get saddled with their family (unless you move far, far away). Occasionally it happens that you really like/get along with your in-laws, and your wife feels the same about your family, but honestly, it's pretty rare.

it is amazing how people can take no responsibility for their actions.
 
not a party girl at all but goes to the bar every weekend?

that makes zero sense. my wife hang out with her mom as weel but they don't go to the bar. they go shopping and have lunch several times per week.


a party is not a bar. Those are 2 different things

The bar they go to they know half the people there. Its a small bar in a small town and its nothing crazy but I still dont like the environment. Alcohol, loud single ppl

If I were to ever get abck with her I would make it CLEAR that she isnt going to the bar every weekend maybe once a month with her family, thats it. Fuck that, that wont happen. I would lay some ground rules if I ever got back with her. Things would be fucking different thats for sure.

And I agree - her mom is her best friend but fuck u got ur own family now, u dont need to go out to the bar every weekend with ur mom.
 
not a party girl at all but goes to the bar every weekend?

that makes zero sense. my wife hang out with her mom as weel but they don't go to the bar. they go shopping and have lunch several times per week.

I think thats the point Glad is trying to make, not sure. I dont think thats what his ex would actually do on a normal basis but rathr its an avenue in which she spends time with her dysfunctional Mother.
 
people don't change. she cheated on you once, she will do it again.

people are consistent
Well ... she'll cheat on HIM again, no question. She might find another guy someday and actually care enough about him and respect him enough that she wouldn't cheat on him.
 
lol
 
She wants to be a family. She wants to get back together and have me move in her 2bdrm house (700/month). She is NOT a party girl at all. She just goes to the same bar with her mom and friend every weekend. Its not even like you would imagine, its just dancing and talking. She doesnt drink often

I do wanna get legal custody even if we are together. But you are right bro, she is a lying cheating bish. Idk if i could ever get over that. Right now I just wanna be in my kids life (if he is mine) and let time decide whether I will be back with her or not. She wants to get back with me bad

Of course she does! it's easrier to be with the guy willing to work 3 jobs to support his family than to sleep around and try to find another baby daddy...
I find it interesting how 2 weeks ago she was a lying cheating whore who didnt take care of herself and partied and now you're almost defending her, of course we dont know her, we go by what you say and seeing how you're talking about her NOW as opposed to a while back it seems like she's getting on your sweet side... hope the baby isnt yours because if it is I'm pyetty sure you'll take her back....
 
Stop entertaining all this get back together bullshit!!!!!

I know its hard to resist that "lets be a family" stuff because you guys got your back up against the walls. She doesnt know who the dad is, shes cheated on the man she was supposed to marry (YOU), and she was going out drinking while in the critical pregnancy stage. If you know whats good for you then you will peace the fuck out after getting (hopefully) the negative PAT test. You know the bish is a gutdamn cum dumpster bor.

Also if you know whats good for your emotional health you will stop all contact with her until the PAT test is known. Once the PAT test is known, if its negative, cease any and all contact for good. Im talking drop her from FB, delete phone #, everything, or you just stand a chance of eventually getting sucked back in either through sex or sympathy or some other bullshit she will prey on you with.

Of course if the kids yours you could move in with her, not move in, be with her, not be with her, doesnt fucking matter because she will own your ass for 18 years.
 
she's proabably looking for the type of guy who wouldn't slap her glasses off her face.

cheating > slapping glasses off someone's face

i know it was probably meant to be a joke, but the girl is a cvnt. glad wasn't the one who cheated. exercised poor judgement? clearly...This girl was a whore/trainwreck and the warning signs were there from day one.
 
Fuck her dude. you're going to be fuckin miserable. i know it seems in an idealistic world that it might be for the best, and easier with not dealing with custody, but it'll be way worse.

the girl is a whore. trash. you can do better.

i hope this conversation is just a moot point and the kid isn't yours to begin with. you can live your life and grow up like any 20 something should
 
cheating > slapping glasses off someone's face

i know it was probably meant to be a joke, but the girl is a cvnt. glad wasn't the one who cheated. exercised poor judgement? clearly...This girl was a whore/trainwreck and the warning signs were there from day one.
If she werent so mouthy she wouldnt have gotten her glasses knocked off.... just sayin'















LOL I'm kidding there was no justification for that BS he did.
 
these are consequences of your actions. you knew the type of girl she was when you knocked her up*(TBD)

the reason i say why even bother is that you aren't going to read the whole book nor get the mesage the author is trying to present. like anything else your just going to skim through and read whatever you think best suits yourself at the time.

harsh but true, dad
 
a party is not a bar. Those are 2 different things

The bar they go to they know half the people there. Its a small bar in a small town and its nothing crazy but I still dont like the environment. Alcohol, loud single ppl

If I were to ever get abck with her I would make it CLEAR that she isnt going to the bar every weekend maybe once a month with her family, thats it. Fuck that, that wont happen. I would lay some ground rules if I ever got back with her. Things would be fucking different thats for sure.

And I agree - her mom is her best friend but fuck u got ur own family now, u dont need to go out to the bar every weekend with ur mom.

That's right bro!! You CONTROL that woman!!

And if she doesn't like it, you knock the glasses right off her fuckin face until she learns!! You tell her what she'll do and where she'll go and who she'll spend her time with, because all women need that...and they all want it too, some just don't know it.

If she's with you she'll learn that you call all the shots, because you're the man! And if she has any ideas outside of making you a sammich or anything that doesn't involve doing something in the kitchen or cleaning, by god she'd better run that shit by you first!

God damn RIGHT!
 
That's right bro!! You CONTROL that woman!!

And if she doesn't like it, you knock the glasses right off her fuckin face until she learns!! You tell her what she'll do and where she'll go and who she'll spend her time with, because all women need that...and they all want it too, some just don't know it.

If she's with you she'll learn that you call all the shots, because you're the man! And if she has any ideas outside of making you a sammich or anything that doesn't involve doing something in the kitchen or cleaning, by god she'd better run that shit by you first!

God damn RIGHT!
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glad niga ima spit some straight knowledge to yo ass bruh an u better let this shit marinate and sink the fuk in real good bro bro....

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