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How do you stand it? My girl went to visit some friends out of town and they went to the pool today. Right now she's got ice on her mouth cuz some dumbass was tryin to hit on her. He pushed her into the pool then tried to pick her up and dunk her so but she hit her mouth on the side of the pool. I'm not worried about her cheating but everywhere she goes it seems like somebody's tryin to push up on her. I don't have the stomach for this shit. I shoulda stuck with the not-so-hot tomboy'ish girl next door chicks.
 
The most I have to deal with is turds staring at whatever girl I'm with at the mall or something. If I give a shit I'll stare back and they turn away. I'm not the jealous type at all, but if someone puts their hands on my girl it's over. Chatting is fine, but keep your fucking paws off. If it's some chick I'm seeing for the first time, I'll move on...especially if she welcomes the heavy flirting.
 
foreigngirl said:
boy, you should be proud that other guys want her and she is all yours
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True...
but what I hate is some guys know you're together and still they act like dumbasses trying to attract her attention.
Thank God it seems like no one's blatantly approached her when we're together...
but I'm sure at work she gets glances/stares or guys trying to pick her up.
Most I can do is hope she don't fuck around behind my back 'cause I sure as hell know I'm faithful.
 
I have guys cat-call, yell "sexy" things, whistle, etc from cars as they drive by when hubby & I are walking to the gym.....he gives them all the finger....... I'm starting to get very irritated by this behavior (I think it's disrespectful) and the last guy that whistled last week who just so happened to stop at the gas station - got the finger & an earful from me until he finally apologized......
 
foreigngirl said:
boy, you should be proud that other guys want her and she is all yours
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You don't have to bodyslam a girl to hit on her!
 
My wife's good looking, & I don't care if people look at her. I don't even care if she gets hit on. What I don't like is when they stare, because it is rude & makes her uncomfortable. I also think catcalls are rude & invasive. Whistling, I'm undecided about. She knows who loves her, so I trust her.
I would physically disaprove if someone touched her.
 
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jenscats5 said:
I have guys cat-call, yell "sexy" things, whistle, etc from cars as they drive by when hubby & I are walking to the gym.....he gives them all the finger....... I'm starting to get very irritated by this behavior (I think it's disrespectful) and the last guy that whistled last week who just so happened to stop at the gas station - got the finger & an earful from me until he finally apologized......
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Well, now I know what never to do if I ever meet you in person...
 
hidngod said:
My wife's good looking, & I don't care if people look at her. What I don't like is when they stare, because it is rude & makes her uncomfortable. I don't even care if she gets hit on. She knows who loves her.
I would physically disaprove if someone touched her.
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by far the best I heard
 
Bor, this is one of many reasons why I refuse to marry, or have long term girlfriends. My response to that type of behavior would be socially unacceptable. However, if dueling were ever made legal....... :chomp:

Zig
 
my wife gets plenty of attention....if it doesn't bother her, it doesn't bother me

unless the attention directed towards her is in some way violent then it's always easier for her to deal with any unwanted suitors
 
Dial_tone said:
How do you stand it? My girl went to visit some friends out of town and they went to the pool today. Right now she's got ice on her mouth cuz some dumbass was tryin to hit on her. He pushed her into the pool then tried to pick her up and dunk her so but she hit her mouth on the side of the pool. I'm not worried about her cheating but everywhere she goes it seems like somebody's tryin to push up on her. I don't have the stomach for this shit. I shoulda stuck with the not-so-hot tomboy'ish girl next door chicks.
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I have a short temper. If that happened to my wife, I would have driven down there and broken the guy's legs.

For me, I exercise constraint based on situation. If I am in another country, non-western, I calm because of the judicial system. However, when I was in Italy some guy "groped" my wife: basically grabbed her ass, when I was right next to her. To make the story short, I broke his jaw and he lost 4 teeth; however, since it's western judicial system, I was put in jail for 2 weeks and bailed out and left - had to go thru "some formalities" but I have friends and family in the county. If I was, for example, in Russia, they'd probably break my face in jail before I could even say "bribe."

So, I deal with it based on the situation. Personally, it's been hard to control my anger, but I've worked on it - and I am trying constantly.

Mr.X
 
some guy at my gf's work has been hitting on her and she cant stand him.

today as he was saying 'bye' she said he grabbed her hip and she's really uncomfortable with this guy. She talks about me all the time, she doesnt know how he doesnt get it.

I was thinking about stopping by her work and making my presence known. Once the guy sees me he'll stop this jackass behavior.
 
UA_Iron said:
some guy at my gf's work has been hitting on her and she cant stand him.

today as he was saying 'bye' she said he grabbed her hip and she's really uncomfortable with this guy. She talks about me all the time, she doesnt know how he doesnt get it.

I was thinking about stopping by her work and making my presence known. Once the guy sees me he'll stop this jackass behavior.
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She's cheating on you.
 
Mr.X said:
I have a short temper. If that happened to my wife, I would have driven down there and broken the guy's legs.

For me, I exercise constraint based on situation. If I am in another country, non-western, I calm because of the judicial system. However, when I was in Italy some guy "groped" my wife: basically grabbed her ass, when I was right next to her. To make the story short, I broke his jaw and he lost 4 teeth; however, since it's western judicial system, I was put in jail for 2 weeks and bailed out and left - had to go thru "some formalities" but I have friends and family in the county. If I was, for example, in Russia, they'd probably break my face in jail before I could even say "bribe."

So, I deal with it based on the situation. Personally, it's been hard to control my anger, but I've worked on it - and I am trying constantly.

Mr.X
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note to self...run after groping X's wife...
 
awittyusername said:
Any of you ever have a hot gf get pissed at you, because you didn't get pissed when some guy was hitting on her??? I had a few. I'm not the jealous type.
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maybe they think if you are not jelaous you dont love her
 
just be glad that youhave her. she could be some chick with only three teeth, one eye, half a left ear, and four nipple.... all on her forehead

Whiskey
 
Mr.X said:
I have a short temper. If that happened to my wife, I would have driven down there and broken the guy's legs.

For me, I exercise constraint based on situation. If I am in another country, non-western, I calm because of the judicial system. However, when I was in Italy some guy "groped" my wife: basically grabbed her ass, when I was right next to her. To make the story short, I broke his jaw and he lost 4 teeth; however, since it's western judicial system, I was put in jail for 2 weeks and bailed out and left - had to go thru "some formalities" but I have friends and family in the county. If I was, for example, in Russia, they'd probably break my face in jail before I could even say "bribe."

So, I deal with it based on the situation. Personally, it's been hard to control my anger, but I've worked on it - and I am trying constantly.

Mr.X
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holy shit!! that is hardcore
 
It comes with the territory bro. Hot girls get hit on no matter what. As long as you have a hot girl, this will always happen. As long as you trust her and you're confident in yourself, then it's fine.

I've just learned to deal with it...it did piss me off at first, but it's not a problem when im with her usually. When we go out (to clubs) it does become a pain, but i've backed off and learned to let my girlfriend handle herself (because she can).My girlfriend goes out all the time with her girlfriends and i know she gets hit on constantly by all sorts of guys....but it doesn't matter as long as you know you're the best.

Hot girls are used to it, so they know how to deal with it. Remember, as long as you're the only one fucking her, you should take it as a compliment.


The problem lies when people disrespect her or you.....if someone says something crude or gropes or starts staring when you're right there, that gets me going and i usually do or say something. Whenever i catch someone staring at my girl blatantly i always give them a cold menacing look and they always turn away...
 
If you have these issues -- don't take your women to nightclubs / bars / meat markets.

If you take her to a club -- and u leave her alone -- wtf do you think guys are gonna do???
 
Razorguns said:
If you have these issues -- don't take your women to nightclubs / bars / meat markets.

If you take her to a club -- and u leave her alone -- wtf do you think guys are gonna do???
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Its a basic matter of respect and if you cross that line be ready to deal with consequences. If a dood comes near me and my girl when im standing right there...tried to run some game...hes gonna get his jaw broken. Its actually quite comical when guys try and get tough. Most guys round here try to box and fight fair....its funny to see the look on someones face when they get taken to the pavement and then get twisted and pulled ..and punched from every angle....some people only respond to violence..most people if you get in their face will walk away..but some doods just need to be taught a lesson....lots of doods have the short mans complex around here and have to over compensate.....lol
 
MY g/f is good looking, but around here there a lots of good looking women. There aren't many bb'ers around though, so I tend to get more attention than she does.

Doesn't bother me much though when guys hit on her, but she does like to have her ego stroked a bit too much sometimes.
 
I have a feeling the only reason you heard the story was because of her jaw.
I would be glad you were not there. You would probably be doing hard time right now if you saw what happened. I would too.
I have dated a lot of girls that get attention. You have to trust them. If its too much to handle it is most likely because you don't feel comfortable with who you are or you do not trust your girlfriend...
 
It sux sometimes. When me and the ole lady went to see Ted Nugent a while back I went to the bathroom and then saw some friends on the way back to her and talked to them for maybe 10 minutes. I get back and she is pissed becuase I took to long and she said some weirdos were groping on her and boobs. Man she was mad at me for taking so long. I couldn't even take it out on their faces because they had left she said.
 
My ex was always getting hit on. When we went to the bar together, every guy (and I mean, every guy) would find the opportunity to come up and talk to her. Since she was way better looking than me, guys would either assume that there is no way she is with me or they didn't give a shit. Many of times, I got in between them because I felt threatened (my ex cheated on me a lot). My self esteem is gone, never to return. I suck, but will tough it out until I die because I owe that much to GOD. <---------- Whoa, sorry bout' that, thinking out loud.
 
what was weird was that men would stare at my ex and even older WOMEN would give her the disapproving up n' down look. the most i could do is stare back at them till they saw me and looked away... what am I gonna do when a woman does it? obviously I can't escalate physically...
it's not about trust, getting a quick checkout is ok, human nature, but it must be horrible to be stared at and catcalled all the time, you can't stand by when your SO is uncomfortable. I feel for ya Jens.
 
My GF gets plenty of attention when we're out. I see guys looking and it really dosen't bother me as long as that is where it ends. I'm a passive person by nature, but I wouldn't hesitate to physically manage the situation if they ever touched her. The best part is she dosen't know/think that she gets the attention that she does.

I really don't understand the disrespectful approach to women. Maybe it was the way I was raised, but I've never been one to cat call, make rude comments, or approach a girl when it was obvious she had a boyfriend. They deserve more respect than that. Must be the southern gentlemen in me.
 
UA_Iron said:
some guy at my gf's work has been hitting on her and she cant stand him.

today as he was saying 'bye' she said he grabbed her hip and she's really uncomfortable with this guy. She talks about me all the time, she doesnt know how he doesnt get it.

I was thinking about stopping by her work and making my presence known. Once the guy sees me he'll stop this jackass behavior.
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I think in a situation like this, he needs to be made aware of the ramifications of his actions. He's had his one chance.
 
hidngod said:
I think in a situation like this, he needs to be made aware of the ramifications of his actions. He's had his one chance.
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I'm not going to be physical, that'd be silly :rainbow: like jackangel

but it will be known that he will not do it anymore :evil:
 
Island Son said:
it's not about trust, getting a quick checkout is ok, human nature, but it must be horrible to be stared at and catcalled all the time, you can't stand by when your SO is uncomfortable. I feel for ya Jens.
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I can understand being checked out - as you said, human nature. But why does someone feel the need to catcall, yell, etc?? Are they just unable to control themselves?? Do they really think that I want to have sex with them cuz they yelled out their car at me?? :rolleyes:
 
UA_Iron said:
some guy at my gf's work has been hitting on her and she cant stand him.

today as he was saying 'bye' she said he grabbed her hip and she's really uncomfortable with this guy. She talks about me all the time, she doesnt know how he doesnt get it.

I was thinking about stopping by her work and making my presence known. Once the guy sees me he'll stop this jackass behavior.
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had same kind of deal...i went to my ex's (wife then ) work one day and waited for this client...he showed up and sat down next to me in a chair...i stood up, and told him "KEN, you be a good boy now, cause if you dont im going to put your head thru that wall, you understand?"....he just looked at me like WTF??? never heard another word about it....( of course they probably both got turned on by it and started having sex regularly).....
 
jenscats5 said:
I can understand being checked out - as you said, human nature. But why does someone feel the need to catcall, yell, etc?? Are they just unable to control themselves?? Do they really think that I want to have sex with them cuz they yelled out their car at me?? :rolleyes:
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Your going to be pissed when they stop
 
awittyusername said:
Your going to be pissed when they stop
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I had one guy actually slow down & drive next to me once..... :worried:

I NEED to seriously buy a Bear spray mace thing -- propels the anti-bear spray up to 25 feet.

They pull over - they're getting bear spray in the face...... :evil:
 
By Jenscats
I had one guy actually slow down & drive next to me once.....
I NEED to seriously buy a Bear spray mace thing -- propels the anti-bear spray up to 25 feet.

They pull over - they're getting bear spray in the face......
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Thats funny as hell!!! I'm getting my wife some. Guys always slow down when they pass us when we are walking in the am. No one says anything though. Just appreciating the view, I know I do.

We stopped going to gym cause she was constantly harrassed, the trainers, jock meatheads, poser wannabes, she stopped going without me, then we decided to buy our own equip, and train at home. I usually escort her most places, good thing I like her so damn much.
 
youd be surprised that nearly all women get hit on. not just the hot ones. if a woman is used to being hit on, and you can trust her, then it's not a big deal at all. she can just brush it off and not think anything of it (other than it can be alightly annoying).

if a woman is not used to being hit on (maybe she isnt all that great looking), she may be more tempted to act on it since she doesnt get much attention to begin with. im not saying all notsogreatlooking chicks have low self esteem, but its very common.
 
jenscats5 said:
I have guys cat-call, yell "sexy" things, whistle, etc from cars as they drive by when hubby & I are walking to the gym.....he gives them all the finger....... I'm starting to get very irritated by this behavior (I think it's disrespectful) and the last guy that whistled last week who just so happened to stop at the gas station - got the finger & an earful from me until he finally apologized......
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lol similar stuff happens to my gf when we go to the mall. ghetto pimps as i like to call them keep saying damn girl your fine when she's walking holding my hand. next thing you know she's squeezing my hand saying let it go. pisses me off but as long as they just say something once i let it go. too many comments and i'll have some gold and plat chains to sell. :chomp:
 
jenscats5 said:
I can understand being checked out - as you said, human nature. But why does someone feel the need to catcall, yell, etc?? Are they just unable to control themselves?? Do they really think that I want to have sex with them cuz they yelled out their car at me?? :rolleyes:
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in mexico probably yes.
 
CENTURION44 said:
Its a basic matter of respect and if you cross that line be ready to deal with consequences. If a dood comes near me and my girl when im standing right there...tried to run some game...hes gonna get his jaw broken. Its actually quite comical when guys try and get tough. Most guys round here try to box and fight fair....its funny to see the look on someones face when they get taken to the pavement and then get twisted and pulled ..and punched from every angle....some people only respond to violence..most people if you get in their face will walk away..but some doods just need to be taught a lesson....lots of doods have the short mans complex around here and have to over compensate.....lol
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Then if worse comes to worse -- stick your tongue down her throat. Even the most aggressive will have a hard time hitting on a chick making out with another guy in front of them.

I rarely have seen incidents of dumb idiots hitting on chicks with their guys next to them. Well if it does -- i assume it's because the hitter is some drunk idiot.

In which case, you gain nothing but being up a drunk idiot. Except getting yoruself tossed from a bar.
 
this happens to me at a lot of places. the best is when we go to the bar or a club. whenever i go to the bathroom or to the bar there is usually some dude trying to hit on my fiance. i use this a lot to get free drinks from drunken idiots. she will have some guy hittin on her and she tells tham to buy a drink for her and her friend. then she points out another chick as her friend. then when she get the drinks she waves me over and i politely tell the dude thanks for the drink. then we make out in front of him and ask for another drink after kissing. the look on their faces is priceless. i find myself laughing at some of them hysterically. almost to the point where they get pissed.
 
jenscats5 said:
I have guys cat-call, yell "sexy" things, whistle, etc from cars as they drive by when hubby & I are walking to the gym.....he gives them all the finger....... I'm starting to get very irritated by this behavior (I think it's disrespectful) and the last guy that whistled last week who just so happened to stop at the gas station - got the finger & an earful from me until he finally apologized......
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yea surrrrrrrrre
 
Back when i dated strippers i didn't have those problems, even when they wore a no-shirt shirt and a no-skirt skirt at clubs. If you are a juiced-out badass, not many will encroach. Learn to deal with stares, it never ends - even when they are moms toting an infant in the back seat.
 
I was at a Tim Horton's in Owen Sound last week& I went in to get coffee & use the washroom. As I went in I saw some lowlife staring at wifey, in our car. No big deal, but when I came out 5 min. later he was still staring. Wifey had to unlock the door. The staring guy creeped her out. So as we were leaving I blew him a kiss.
 
AristotleBC said:
yea surrrrrrrrre
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:lmao:

I was in a low carb pissy mood that day. Dude looked like a deer in the headlights as I'm yelling at him at the gas station.

:lmao:
 
it doesnt bother me that much.

but seriously, if my girl and I are in my car and you're eyeballing her from another car I might get mad. Thats uncalled for.

And when I'm in my car, on 2 different androgens and have a bat and a ski mask in my trunk you do not want to fuck around.

But I am a non-confrontational guy. I'll let most things slide - I think women appreciate that too. Women can find testosterone extremely sexy sometimes, and also extremely repulsive...
 
basically for me it boils down to this...it does not bother me, its a compliment...if it gets out of hand or its disrespectful, i let her handle it first..if its beyond her capabilities or an action is overt, then i will step in...
 
These posts are too funny. All these "my women gets stared, groped, touched, stalked", etc.

I wonder how women, who DON'T have boyfriends to "protect" them -- deal with the above?

It must be horrible! I bet they never leave the house and stay away from the clubs!

Nah. Women can handle themselves QUITE fine. I can smell the ego a mile away here, but it's okay to say "my woman does fine without my big huffin' puffin' hairy chest manly man self to protect her".

I'v dated lots of hot chicks and let 'em free in the club while i mingle and party. Never once had a problem. If i have "she'll date someone else" issues -- then my stalking her and cuffin' her only delays the inevitable.

And if someone touches her ass -- she can tell the bouncer, and he's gone. Meanwhile, the beerage, and our fun, continues...
 
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Razorguns said:
If you have these issues -- don't take your women to nightclubs / bars / meat markets.

If you take her to a club -- and u leave her alone -- wtf do you think guys are gonna do???
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I'll be sure and have a good laugh next time somebody slams your girl's head against the side of the pool....she can handle herself, right?
 
I am goodlooking my girlfriend is goodlooking we both get hit on, we both handle it with respect. I have no worries with her, ever. This is the way you need to live or it will drive you crazy.
 
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Razorguns said:
I wonder how women, who DON'T have boyfriends to "protect" them -- deal with the above?
It must be horrible! I bet they never leave the house and stay away from the clubs!
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Actually, I wonder how many of these women just endure it because they have to. A club with a bouncer is one thing, but what if she's shopping & some dude follows her around the store. What if she's reaching for peppers & some scum reaches across in front of her & touches her breast. What if a co-worker touches her in a way she's not comfortable, yet not overtly sexually. Quite often they endure 'cause they don't want to make a scene, or something else. Not all women are made of granite inside.
These fucking guys disgust me & I want to rip their arms off. But I can only spend so much time in jail, you know?
 
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dannomight said:
this happens to me at a lot of places. the best is when we go to the bar or a club. whenever i go to the bathroom or to the bar there is usually some dude trying to hit on my fiance. i use this a lot to get free drinks from drunken idiots. she will have some guy hittin on her and she tells tham to buy a drink for her and her friend. then she points out another chick as her friend. then when she get the drinks she waves me over and i politely tell the dude thanks for the drink. then we make out in front of him and ask for another drink after kissing. the look on their faces is priceless. i find myself laughing at some of them hysterically. almost to the point where they get pissed.
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Classic!!!!
 
The worst is walking past a group of six or seven scumbags just standing there. You know someone is going to say something. That's when I usually say "I'm going home with this (pointing to my girl) and your going home to this (Showing the hand and doing the jerk off motion) LOL
 
that sucks dude, especially as you weren't there to do something about it.

My gf is a cutie, and she's so damn nice that some guys get the wrong idea.. its like when a pretty girl makes smalltalk to some dudes they think it's an open invitation to get into her pants. That can be annoying, but it's infinitely better than having a girl you can't trust intentionally playing attention games... and like smurfy says, the plain janes are more likely to take the bone when some dude gives them attention, good looking women get hit on all the time and they know how to brush it off
 
Dial_tone said:
I'll be sure and have a good laugh next time somebody slams your girl's head against the side of the pool....she can handle herself, right?
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Philosophies aren't designed to handle every exception or incident imaginable. They're advice for the common, the everyday.
 
i think hidngod has given the best advice thus far. my wife is a hottie too, just check out my profile. she can handle herself very well, but the moment she starts becoming uncomfortable there is a problem. that doesn't mean you have to hit someone are the head with a bat, just stand next to your girl and put your arm around her to feel safe.
 
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