GUYS why HAVE you CHEATED on your girlfreind/s?

[OMEGA]

GUYS why HAVE you CHEATED on your girlfreinds?

Seriuosly can you explain? and if you are or have been a repeat offender...........good god why?

I did it once.............and midway through, thats right midway in the act I felt like a miserable sack of lying shit.

Guys we are not suppost to do that it is just not right.


If your with a girl and are looking for other venues of pleasure then just live the singles life........but to lead somone on while partaking in other is wrong.

forget Karma and getting it done to you.....its just wrong to do it I think

 

[Puc]

i hate being lied to. So, i try to avoid doing it to others.

That being said, if i was seeing somebody and they cheated (meaning, we were exclusive at the time), I could forgive them IF they told me RIGHT THE FUCK AWAY. I MEAN FUCKING PRONTO!

If they tried to hide it from me, and therefore lied to me about it, it would be over.

My belief is that people have moments of weakness, but the lie that lives in the wake lasts much longer than a moment...

 

[OMEGA]

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sorry, I just had that sent to me in an email.

lol

old girlfreind huh? ( the email)

 

[OMEGA]

i hate being lied to. So, i try to avoid doing it to others.

That being said, if i was seeing somebody and they cheated (meaning, we were exclusive at the time), I could forgive them IF they told me RIGHT THE FUCK AWAY. I MEAN FUCKING PRONTO!

If they tried to hide it from me, and therefore lied to me about it, it would be over.

My belief is that people have moments of weakness, but the lie that lives in the wake lasts much longer than a moment...

Wow you could forgive? that?

I am not that strong......

 

[KAYNE]

THESE DAYS, YOU SHOULD BE ASKING THIS QUESTION TO FEMALES WHO CHEATED. NOT GUYS.




KAYNE

 

[OMEGA]

THESE DAYS, YOU SHOULD BE ASKING THIS QUESTION TO FEMALES WHO CHEATED. NOT GUYS.




KAYNE

you know your very right

what a sad game

 

[plornive]

Imagine if you got into a car accident and lost your arms and legs. Would your girlfriend's heart beat faster when she is with you the way it did before? Would she long for you the same way? Now reverse the roles. I don't care what you say now, 99.999% of people would jump ship!

PEOPLE NEED TO BE LIED TO. Dishonesty is a service provided to people who need to believe in lies. Monogamy, devotion and caring are all lies. A monogamous, caring, devoted relationship is a relationship in which both parties believe in their own and each other's lies.

 

[Ceebs]

I could forgive them IF they told me RIGHT THE FUCK AWAY. I MEAN FUCKING PRONTO!

My belief is that people have moments of weakness, but the lie that lives in the wake lasts much longer than a moment...

Key points. Karma to you.

I was cheated on once, and I found it a lot easier to forgive the offender when he told me about it immediately. To be honest, to be respectful - those behaviors show strength. And they outshine a moment of weakness.

 

[OMEGA]

Imagine if you got into a car accident and lost your arms and legs. Would your girlfriend's heart beat faster when she is with you the way it did before? Would she long for you the same way? Now reverse the roles. I don't care what you say now, 99.999% of people would jump ship!

PEOPLE NEED TO BE LIED TO. Dishonesty is a service provided to people who need to believe in lies. Monogamy, devotion and caring are all lies.

PLONIVE then what binds us together? and what bind families together?

is care an love right?

can't that exist between a guy and a girl? and can't that union mean anything?

 

[Puc]

Imagine if you got into a car accident and lost your arms and legs. Would your girlfriend's heart beat faster when she is with you the way it did before? Would she long for you the same way? Now reverse the roles. I don't care what you say now, 99.999% of people would jump ship!

PEOPLE NEED TO BE LIED TO. Dishonesty is a service provided to people who need to believe in lies. Monogamy, devotion and caring are all lies.

You have a baser outlook than i.

By the way, what the fuck does your first paragraph have to do with your second? And, what does any of this have to do with cheating?

It is as though you are justifying dishonesty with the logic of a date-rapist "I know she really wanted it, so i gave it to her!"

 

[Austin316]

never have, never will! Cheating is despicable and vile and I don't understand how if you really cared for soemoen you could ever do such a thing and I have no respect for thsoe that do

Id never forgive it either

 

[plornive]

PLONIVE then what binds us together? and what bind families together?

is care an love right?

can't that exist between a guy and a girl? and can't that union mean anything?

Seriously I believe that families are bound together by a fear of being alone and a desire to be accepted. Love, in my view, is just a symptom of insecurity.

Maybe it's just me, but I really can't get myself to care about anyone in more than a superficial way. When I find myself getting attached, it is in times of great stess and insecurity!

Good sexual relationships are based on mystery and should always be developing. That basically necessitates that they end within a relatively short time. I don't believe very long-term monogamous relationships are natural. Maybe they are somehow practical in our society.... Maybe they feel good to people who want to feel very secure.... But I don't have any desire for this kind of thing....

I think of monogamy and love the same way as I think of religion... a lie that keeps society in order.

 

[OMEGA]

Seriously I believe that families are bound together by a fear of being alone and a desire to be accepted. Love, in my view, is just a symptom of insecurity.

Maybe it's just me, but I really can't get myself to care about anyone in more than a superficial way.

I CARE FOR YOU

 

[plornive]

You have a baser outlook than i.

By the way, what the fuck does your first paragraph have to do with your second? And, what does any of this have to do with cheating?

It is as though you are justifying dishonesty with the logic of a date-rapist "I know she really wanted it, so i gave it to her!"

I think dishonesty is a part of life, right or wrong. Society needs some honesty and some dishonesty. I don't believe in absolute morality.

If fact, I am not justifying anything --- just explaining it.

I think it is unfortunate that most people expect everyone to fit into their mold. There aren't too many girls who would accept what I do if I told them. I guess I am selfish.

 

[plornive]

I CARE FOR YOU

Seriously, I am not bitter, not depressed, stable, and excited about my future... and I just don't get why people "fall in love" and get married. When I look at it, it just looks like people are conforming to society, doing what their parents expect, or just doing what's necessary to raise children successfully.

 

[Big Anaconda]

I never have and never will. I saw what that shit did to my parents marriage.

 

[theoak01]

I did because I wanted to end it but didnt know how

but we worked things out and I would NEVER do it again,I felt like a piece of shit because I know how I would feel if it happened to me

 

[Warik]

GUYS why HAVE you CHEATED on your girlfreinds?

I haven't. I didn't do it. I swear!

-Warik

 

[OMEGA]

Re: Re: GUYS why HAVE you CHEATED on your girlfreind/s?

I haven't. I didn't do it. I swear!

-Warik

lol

 

[mdd]

never have never will

 

[Warik]

No for real I haven't. This thread is gay and stuff.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

If I ever thought I was going to cheat on a girl in the near future or anytime in a relationship, I would tell her before hand that the relationship isn't going to work. And I would expect the same from her. Otherwise, the problem will just get worse, lies, deception, and bad things will happen. Prevention is the key.

 

[nclifter6feet6]

i have cheated because im a rotten piece of shit

 

[Optimus B]

i've never cheated on someone and never will.

having been cheated on, i couldn't put someone through that. it is one of the worst experiences that i can imagine. if you're not happy in your relationship, or think that happiness can be sought with someone else, just be honest and truthful to the other person. honesty is HUGE.

 

[machaveli]

in high school i was cheating bastard but as i get older i have more respect for my woman. i know i dont want it done to me. ....
in any case, we are men and its in our nature. if the situation arised i probably would still cheat if the girl was hot enough, but i'd feel really guilty

 

[Sinistar]

bullshit

this is just the same as the if your GF got fat would you leave her thread. with a bunch of ppl so focused on there own looks, i find it hard they could abide it.

i have cheated and am not afriad to admit it. i have cheated for all the reasons: cause she cheated on me, cause i could, cause this girl was something and i didnt want to pass it up,, damn near every excuse you can think of i did.

i have changed. i got tired of giving pain because i recieved some. and fine pussy isnt worth comprimising my morality. acting out for whatever wont solve a thing. its not fun taking a kick in the teeth because you refuse to sink to their level. flat out its easy being sleazy.

funny thing is that these bitches who constantly fuck around always go into a nose first downward spiral when it happens to them.

while i would appreciate the honesty, if you cheat on me its over.

 

[curling]

i hate being lied to. So, i try to avoid doing it to others.

That being said, if i was seeing somebody and they cheated (meaning, we were exclusive at the time), I could forgive them IF they told me RIGHT THE FUCK AWAY. I MEAN FUCKING PRONTO!

If they tried to hide it from me, and therefore lied to me about it, it would be over.

My belief is that people have moments of weakness, but the lie that lives in the wake lasts much longer than a moment...

Why? According to you you and your chick are just going to die and turn into dirt so why not just get as much pleasure as you can out of the 70 or so years here . I mean pleasure should be your whole life goal because you ain't getting none when you kick the bucket.

 

[OMEGA]

No for real I haven't. This thread is gay and stuff.

ok =) and stuff

 

[PURE EXTRACT]

GUYS why HAVE you CHEATED on your girlfreinds?

Seriuosly can you explain? and if you are or have been a repeat offender...........good god why?

I did it once.............and midway through, thats right midway in the act I felt like a miserable sack of lying shit.

Guys we are not suppost to do that it is just not right.


If your with a girl and are looking for other venues of pleasure then just live the singles life........but to lead somone on while partaking in other is wrong.

forget Karma and getting it done to you.....its just wrong to do it I think

Yeah I felt like a piece of shit when I did (this was yearrrrs ago). I don't know why I did it. I guess at the time I was just a straight up horny fucker that was willing to "stick my dick in anything that was Puerto Rican", as my current girlfriend would say lol.

 

[The Architect]

"Guys are as faithful as their options."- Eddie Murphy

 

[OMEGA]

Re: Re: GUYS why HAVE you CHEATED on your girlfreind/s?

Yeah I felt like a piece of shit when I did (this was yearrrrs ago). I don't know why I did it. I guess at the time I was just a straight up horny fucker that was willing to "stick my dick in anything that was Puerto Rican", as my current girlfriend would say lol.

Good too know that a guy who can obviously "get" girls chooses to be a be moral human being

For me I knew better, but I just had to do it once to see, or to make sure............and I was mad at my self after for not listening.
to myself or whatever voice was telling me not to do so

At the time I was weak as well, so I was impressionable, and someone close to me said that you learn only by making mistakes, and thus after you do something
and get negative reinforcment because you have pissed people off.then you learn.

I new better................and will never make that mistake again.

 

[spongebob]

i think cheating is horrible but i dont think people are meant to be in monogamous relationships. i want to try to get to a point where one person does not put restrictions on the other person.

 

[Ceebs]

i want to try to get to a point where one person does not put restrictions on the other person.

Longterm relationships should be longterm in the first place because the two people want to be together, much much more than they want to be with anyone else. If you could only be with one person out of "restriction", you'd start to resent them, wouldn't you?

 

[KAYNE]

"Guys are as faithful as their options."- Eddie Murphy

I BELIEVE YOU MEAN CHRIS ROCK.


AND IT SHOULD BE CHANGED TO "WOMEN ARE ONLY AS FAITHFUL AS HOW MANY MEN THEY CAN FUCK ON THE SIDE OF THEIR MAN CUZ THATS WHAT MOST WOMEN DO THESE DAYS IS FUCK MEN ON THE SIDE". OR SOMETHING TO THAT EFFECT.



KAYNE

 

[spongebob]

Longterm relationships should be longterm in the first place because the two people want to be together, much much more than they want to be with anyone else. If you could only be with one person out of "restriction", you'd start to resent them, wouldn't you?

probably and that would lead to cheating possibly or at least fantasizing about it. id rather not fantasize.

 

[kd]

I mean pleasure should be your whole life goal because you ain't getting none when you kick the bucket.

FINALLY!... A statement from curling I agree with!.

 

[Juicifer]

I am going to bang this stripper I met last week tomorrow night and I am not telling my girlfriend because it would ruin our engagement plans.

Also, if my gf ever cheated on me I would dump her.

funny how that works huh?

 

[Puc]

I think dishonesty is a part of life, right or wrong. Society needs some honesty and some dishonesty. I don't believe in absolute morality.

If fact, I am not justifying anything --- just explaining it.

I think it is unfortunate that most people expect everyone to fit into their mold. There aren't too many girls who would accept what I do if I told them. I guess I am selfish.

I do not believe in absolute morality either. I do not expect anyone to fit in my mold.

You are being a hypocrite here.

When you lie to someone, you are impugning there rights. You are raping their reality from them. You are keeping them from making the best decisions they could in life based on THEIR moral compass. You are taking.

You doing what you want and believe, that is your right, but you are doing more than that. you are being a "taker"

 

[OMEGA]

When you lie to someone, you are impugning there rights. You are raping their reality from them. You are keeping them from making the best decisions they could in life based on THEIR moral compass. You are taking.

those are powerful thoughts in fact that is the best quote I have heard in a long time

thankyou

Puc ask your self this question

how did you feel when you typed these words, think of your raw emotion, and your exact state at the time.

for I think it is an environment that unleashes something in you

channel it...........