"I picked gear over my g/f, Am I fucked up?"
What a question. Could you imagine it the other way around?
"Guys, I told my g/f about my gear. She doesn't want me to use it, so she took it away from me. She said it's bad for me, so I think I am going to pussy out and do what she says. I will still work out though, when it's convenient for her, and only when I get her permission. She also likes to use an 8" strap on cock to fuck me in the ass. Do you guys think I made the right decision?"